I don't joke with my stomach, neither I'm I a big fan of fastfoods.

Me and my gf have been staying together for some weeks now and I noticed she's not a good cook. it's either my Gf meal is too oily or has too much salt. This has happened So many times and she plays the 'nobody is above mistake ' card with me(6 times). I can't take this anymore.. been eating pies for a while now just to avoid eating her meal when I'm coming back from work. I'm starting to believe she's the lazy type and I don't think I can continue with her like this..what do y'all suggest? This ish pisses me off when it happens

She'll hv to buckle up and learn. Unless u dnt take ur stomach lightly like me!

sexkillz: What's your excuse for not knowing how to cook?

always busy with work

If you are a good cook, u can teach her or let her go to catering school. I blve this can help not for your benefit alone, but for future purposes.

How were you surviving before you meet her?

homesteady: How were you surviving before you meet her?

I stop over at my parents crib before heading home as its in close proximity ...sometimes I just branch at a fast-food (not that I like it)

Have you spoken to her about it?

I'd advise you to either teach her or create time to do it yourself, does she work by the way? Also remember that she's your girlfriend and not your wife.

if you marry that kinda girl..truss me, i won't go down well.. Tell her to learn how to cook or you dump her. simple!!!

sheyie2007: always busy with work

That is not an excuse

foood is nt everytin...check if she can do other tinz perfectly well befo u take wrong decision....

Enegod: if you marry that kinda girl..truss me, i won't go down well.. Tell her to learn how to cook or you dump her. simple!!!

@op,
Pathetic reason to dump someone but if you do at any point consider this users' 'ultimatum' break it off with her today sha because you'd be wasting her time to be honest

maybe dis cooking thing is inborn or dedication,cuz i know of a girl who school@ catering sch but still fumble with her cook.

Ok food is d prob. If she's not willing to learn,get a maid. That she can't cook is not a enough reason to leave her(my thots o).

an average gal shld atleast knw hw 2 cook. Food is nt evrytin bt part of many tinz.

Me, am very OLD FASHIONED oh - especially when it come to food. If a babe doesn't know how to cook, it really is a problem.

Where you go when your mates dey learn cooking.

Enegod: if you marry that kinda girl..truss me, i won't go down well.. Tell her to learn how to cook or you dump her. simple!!!

I totally agree with you. Op, if you love her, send her to catering school to learn but if she is unwilling to learn,then dump her! To all those shouting 'get her a maid' so what is she supposed to be doing if they eventually get married?, laze around the house?
Really, it's a bad thing for any lady not to know how to cook.

Shey na ur wife ni?if na so she like you reach she for don go try learn..there are too many fishes in the sea jhor

Guys n food,well i wll say u shuld register her in catering school(my advice)

you said you dnt joke wit your stomach and you're not a fan to fast food. my question is who has bin cooking the ones u normally eat, if u are the one u can as well teach her or else she dnt want to learn then u can go ahead with ur second opinion.

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Nomski0: if i were you, i'll send her back to her mother to learn the basic act of cooking. She has no excuse in this matter.....many girls are forgetting that in the african culture, a woman's first education is in the kitchen......they'll shout and shout about wanting to fine the perfect man when they've not tried to perfect themselves in all ramifications. Op, send her to her mother to learn when she's done, she can come back, if you're still interested by then. Dont think about bringing a maid to cover her imperfection, is the maid not a woman like her

Wow! Best advice so far. Will keep it in mind incase my GF can't cook (although I'm good at that).

Nomski0: if i were you, i'll send her back to her mother to learn the basic act of cooking. She has no excuse in this matter.....many girls are forgetting that in the african culture, a woman's first education is in the kitchen......they'll shout and shout about wanting to fine the perfect man when they've not tried to perfect themselves in all ramifications. Op, send her to her mother to learn when she's done, she can come back, if you're still interested by then. Dont think about bringing a maid to cover her imperfection, is the maid not a woman like her

Chop knuckle my friend!

END TIME TINZ!!

uchemummy: you said you dnt joke wit your stomach and you're not a fan to fast food. my question is who has bin cooking the ones u normally eat, if u are the one u can as well teach her or else she dnt want to learn then u can go ahead with ur second opinion.

I already answered that

CallMeFemi: END TIME TINZ!!

na your own go end, you think say I de play ni

Zeinymira: Ok food is d prob. If she's not willing to learn,get a maid. That she can't cook is not a enough reason to leave her(my thots o).

So after the main course, nigga could bang the maid for seconds right?
Awesome Idea!

Cooking is simple. Anyone can do it, it's about having recipes. If you're not so used to cooking a particular type of dish that you can add ingredients by "feel" and time your cooking by instinct then stick to recommended measurements and use a timer. The only thing required for culinary art that cannot be bought in the market or got off the internet is commitment. Find out what your girl thinks about it being her "responsibility" to cook for you. If she's not down with it she will screw up every meal ( my brother once burned boiled eggs! First time I saw that happen). On the other hand, she may just be the type that feels lonely in the kitchen all by herself and so she tries to get it done in a hurry with not much heart. In that case, you could keep her company even if you're not going to help out. See how it goes. I maintain: no one can say they can't cook, they just aren't trying.