sheyie2007: I've been there, it's best you end the relationship..

Gbam!!

end it cos ive been there as well

deshclones: Don't sweat it man...just end it only if you have chopped the kpomo...if not..stick around and get your rightfully deserved share...no emotions remember...nd no tears too...

sheyie2007: I've been there, it's best you end the relationship..

190-the-clown:
anywhere you see threads about women misbehaving

desclones and 2sexy must be there

na their work be that

digitalgeorgy: 1 thing i hate about romance section in nairaland is that they quickly advise people to break-up.
If the Op's intention was to break-up,am sure he wont have brought this talk here. WHY cant nigerians forget a repented sinner instead of crucifying him/her? But na wa ooo.

2s£xy:
You seem to like the idea of being considered a 2nd choice which explain the adage : 'when the desireable is not available, the available becomes desireable.'


if that's who you are, good luck.

Have you ever asked yourself: would she had considered me if it went well with the other dude on the other end?

That was what woke me up man and why I don't forgive such people. Pardon me if I sound hash. But that is the reality.

We are not God but that thought alone is enough to wake a dead brain to logically see things.

Agreed, you can forgive but can you forget? I doubt so.

Unfortunately, it hardly goes well for the women who are caught in this act because the ones they often desire do not desire them except to use and dump them.

I am a victim man and I do not condone such or wish a fellow brother experience it.

This is almost the 5th or 6th thread created by men in the last few weeks-month. They all have one thing in common: the men were too gentle. Yes, they are the kind that often fall prey to this king of women because their mind, she would say 'he is the understanding type'

ah that reminds me of a similar thread where a lady confessed she kissed a dude who isn't her boyfriend twice. She even claimed that she talked about the dude to her boyfriend because 'he is the understanding type' look that quoted words: the understanding type.

Man, you never see anything. Woman never use you do kparo. Naturally, I am a cool as ice water, but when I am in a relationship with girl and she mess up, I will treat her fvck up squarely.

I learned my lessons the hard way and I paid my dues I guess and that experience is my skin.

P.S:My apologies to the OP since it has to do with marriage... But if you want the truth, do not blame anyone but yourself if it happens again.

deshclones:





Mehn, women don show bobos pepper for this life...no dulling again....we gats monitor all threads and save as many guys as possible from the agonies associated with daughters of eve....

imagine this mumulina asking if he should forgive a woman that cheated on him...damn she removed like 5 pieces of clothings before getting on her knees (after worshiping the man's joystick with her mouth and tongues) the image alone is disgusting...yet the guy wants to forgive...nawaoh

dBard:

Dude, a lot of us have been dre but if u allow experiences t shape who u r then u will end up losing d essence of wat makes u who u r.
That bin said, women r a funny folk. the girl that cheated on me did it after a particularly nasty quarrel where harsh comments were made so I couldn't say I didn't ve a hand in it n she only confessed months later. Yes, it takes abt 4pieces of clothings t change d mind, so dre's a degree of premeditation but u need t look at certain tins,; was it a one off event, how did it happen n how remorseful is she. how u found out as well is also quite imprtant.
I do believe dres life after infidelity.. yes, u almost dont forget but u can CHOOSE t move on beyond it..start afresh
u Cannot lose d faith cos of one event.
Besides, wat does ur intuition tell u? does it tell u shes a changed person or not?
Yes, be wise n protect ur heart but forgiveness doesnt make u less a man.

If she does it more than once tho, then u r free t Dump her ass .

sakaguchi: If you are married and your trust for her has waned, then I think you need a divorce, no faith I know of is against that....
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.......Nairaland please answer me sharpalli, this girl I dey waka with, I like her oo, but like we dey road they wait for Taxi to carry us for Abuja, e get this man wey see us come horn, d girl know the man, she say make I spare her 3 minutes n she go meet the man, them talk for 2 minutes then she come enter the car talk for 3 minutes before me kuku vex stop taxi, when she see say I don stop taxi, she come comot come meet me enter the taxi, I dey vex, I neva talk to her sef n she know say I dey vex, wetin me sopoz do na? Make I free her ni? Abi make I shout for her? Or make I give her one slap? NB, I don dey wit her for like 3months now...
Sorry for derailing the thread, I need answer sharpali before we enter my crib...

Mynd_44: You just have to find a way to trust her and that will come only if you two sit down and discuss what happened, why she did it and the circumstances that surrounds it

synergy85: What if you find out only after ure married or it happened while u're married

Daewoods:
I have been following your posts for somewhile now, why do you always like forming wisdow n 'sabiness', i wonder whom you are trying to impress with this your idealistic comments,that sometimes have no real life applications.

wasak:


so her cheating on u was the solution to ur quarrel?
she fell in love with someone else just cos of d quarrel or what?
if a wore quarrel occurs in the future... what'll she do?
IT IS INEXCUSABLE BROTHER... UR CHOICE ANYWAYS... BUT THERE ARE MANY FISHES IN THE RIVER... DON'T SETTLE FOR HALF FISH... U DESERVE BETTER

.COMMON THINK