INNO18: Damn! ogugua, you're just so down to earth. Look at how you engage in conversations with fellow nlders, if all the mods on NL were like this, NL would have gone very far by now... It's so unfortunate some mods view thier Modship title as a staff of oppresion; besides you,Afam and perharps kandikaane all other mods on NL are... , anyway what's ur real name? Mine's Innocent abbreviated to INNO18.

masonkz:

Thanks for coming out

spongeback: Viewing this thread four gays and 1 lesbian

masonkz:

Thanks for coming out

homesteady:


Your profile picture is very funny
Is that the gay community on NL group photo?

#me@:

u might later end up marrying sexkillz despite ur hatred towards him. It happens

INNO18: Check up my previous posts, i'm totally 'Anti Gay marriage'. Maybe you mean i'll marry Ogugua( that'd be a dream come true)

Hezron Lorraine: I hate hypocrisy.Can I have reasons for your anti-gay marriage stance.

INNO18: I cant marry a man! Even if Gay marriage was to be legalised in Nigeria. It would mean loosing my family, cos i'm sure they'd all label me an 'Outcast', social stigma would just be too high, imagine walking into a bank,grocery store or super market with your 'wife'....the look on everybody's face would be like..... You already know.
Dont get me wrong though, i'm totally for Gay rights in Africa, buh Gay marriage? Count me out!

masonkz:

So it's about the stigma then.

INNO18: I cant marry a man! Even if Gay marriage was to be legalised in Nigeria. It would mean loosing my family, cos i'm sure they'd all label me an 'Outcast', social stigma would just be too high, imagine walking into a bank,grocery store or super market with your 'wife'....the look on everybody's face would be like..... You already know.
Dont get me wrong though, i'm totally for Gay rights in Africa, buh Gay marriage? Count me out!

INNO18: not exactly, i'd also love to have kids.
Although i cant guaranty my woman i wont
'cheat' on her

Hezron Lorraine:
Dude non of this is funny and I don't buy your excuse a bit.It still sums up to hypocrisy.

You already have enough stigma being gay in the present day Nigeria.Two,if gay marriage is legalised in Nigeria,it means there's a favourable public opinion towards same-sex partners.

For the sake of Family Shame,you don't endorse same sex marriage to willing gay couples.That's not an hardline mr.

We count you out of gay marriage while you live a life of deceit,shame and lies with a woman you're not fully committing to.Because you don't want to share in that doesn't mean you should be against those who want it.

I'm not down with getting married even if I can in Nigeria or elsewhere,I don't dig much of it not that I can't get married if I want to with my partner if he wants it.I will,for odd sentiments I don't just want to.But I want to live happily with my man having our union constitutionally and legally recognised.

Some people want to get wedded.do I now say its wrong because I don't want it.it's likened to judging them.

I presume you're bisexual.Lemme clear something,I'm deeply sorry to say this.I don't like Bisexuals.You guys give the gay community a bad name.Listen to yourself,you would cheat on that wife of yours.Bisexuality to me promotes infidelity.

It's always a scenario,love the girl,Fvck the guy.It's hypocrisy.

You guys have girlfriends you treat like royal damsels,care for them with your every sweat,while you secretly derive pleasures from your gay male lovers and you treat them awkwardly like shhiit.You find it difficult to share emotions with them.
Love them truely with your hearts.

I once had a serious fight with this bi dude who my girlie gay friend dated for a while.The dude so pissed me off with his attitude that I stormed down to his house with a threat.eventually my friend saw the truth in all I was saying and ended it.

So,dude,as long as you're gay keep your anti-gay marriage stance to yourself.Don't boldly declare you're for gay rights and anti-gay marriage.it doesn't work that way

INNO18: I cant marry a man! Even if Gay marriage was to be legalised in Nigeria. It would mean loosing my family, cos i'm sure they'd all label me an 'Outcast', social stigma would just be too high, imagine walking into a bank,grocery store or super market with your 'wife'....the look on everybody's face would be like..... You already know.
Dont get me wrong though, i'm totally for Gay rights in Africa, buh Gay marriage? Count me out!

Hezron Lorraine:
Dude non of this is funny and I don't buy your excuse a bit.It still sums up to hypocrisy.

You already have enough stigma being gay in the present day Nigeria.Two,if gay marriage is legalised in Nigeria,it means there's a favourable public opinion towards same-sex partners.

For the sake of Family Shame,you don't endorse same sex marriage to willing gay couples.That's not an hardline mr.

We count you out of gay marriage while you live a life of deceit,shame and lies with a woman you're not fully committing to.Because you don't want to share in that doesn't mean you should be against those who want it.

I'm not down with getting married even if I can in Nigeria or elsewhere,I don't dig much of it not that I can't get married if I want to with my partner if he wants it.I will,for odd sentiments I don't just want to.But I want to live happily with my man having our union constitutionally and legally recognised.

Some people want to get wedded.do I now say its wrong because I don't want it.it's likened to judging them.

I presume you're bisexual.Lemme clear something,I'm deeply sorry to say this.I don't like Bisexuals.You guys give the gay community a bad name.Listen to yourself,you would cheat on that wife of yours.Bisexuality to me promotes infidelity.

It's always a scenario,love the girl,Fvck the guy.It's hypocrisy.

You guys have girlfriends you treat like royal damsels,care for them with your every sweat,while you secretly derive pleasures from your gay male lovers and you treat them awkwardly like shhiit.You find it difficult to share emotions with them.
Love them truely with your hearts.

I once had a serious fight with this bi dude who my girlie gay friend dated for a while.The dude so pissed me off with his attitude that I stormed down to his house with a threat.eventually my friend saw the truth in all I was saying and ended it.

So,dude,as long as you're gay keep your anti-gay marriage stance to yourself.Don't boldly declare you're for gay rights and anti-gay marriage.it doesn't work that way

GSKing:
Then you are out! Hypocrite! wtf im i still doing reading ur posts following you? Kindly unfollow GSKing on ur profile!!!

SimonAndal:
Like damn! I'm watching season 3 of BReaking BAd. Gustavo is one scary, cunny son of a bîtçh!

la_creame: hez and gsk why are u guys upset abt his decision? is ds nt d same thing yooguys is currently doing and you guyz supported him?? ? esp u gsk that refused to see reasons with me.
lol dont condemn ds one you guys should support him too like u did yooguyz.
nw u see why I was pissed

SimonAndal:
Like damn! I'm watching season 3 of BReaking BAd. Gustavo is one scary, cunny son of a bîtçh!

masonkz:

Dayuum

Hezron Lorraine: don't get it wrong mam.I am not condemning him.I didn't see he shouldn't believe what he wants.I only said he shouldn't impress his own personal opinion as a reflection of what we all think.

I don't support Yooguyz.you might want to check again.I stayed neutral all through.

INNO,drafting your reply.hang in tight okay.

INNO18: okay, i just lost my temper!
Sorry to say this, but some gays are a disgrace to humanity. Most of you think life revolves around Se.x,Se.x,,se.x! You add up a gay guy on facbuk, hoping you both can be great pals, but the next question you get from the fool is 'are you top or bottom'? What does this imply? The sperm filled head of most gays revolves round nothing but intimacy. Sometimes in life you sacrifice things to get things, you get married to a fellow guy, and while in your youths you enjoy life, hoping on each other's assess everyday. But then you clock 60,70 and u're both old and in need of care and there are no kids to take of you, at this point it dawns on you that you had won a war but lost a battle.OH, i forgot! You could adopt kids, yes, that might work for you but it's a no for me. Emotions aside, the better part of my life i've felt bonded to females than i have to males, in fact i've never really loved any guy, it's all lust which fades with time, that doesnt imply i love ladies sexually though.
If you're content with spending the rest of your life with a man, that's ur business, as for me it doesnt work for me.
I'm getting married to a woman whether i have emotions for her or not. Some happy moments come naturally, while others have to be created. I will not talk on this issue ever again.

masonkz:

LOL! Na wa o. Like I said, if you feel so. But I'm very much proud of speaking my native language, anywhere, anyday.

ogugua88:

I wasn't taught by my parents either, but I wasn't born or raised in Nigeria. I've been teaching myself. Big difference compared to those born and raised in Anambra who only know "kedu" lol.

Hezron Lorraine: haha

You made efforts at learning.that's a great move unlike those who boldly stamp their inability to speak their native language with pride despite growing up here.