babyosisi:

Please hang around,I am sure there is something we all can do
Are you in Lagos?
Do you know any agencies that can help uredaddy?

debrief08: roject Alert on Violence Against Women (PROJECT ALERT)

Address:                              21, Akinsanya Street
                                                Off Isheri Road, Taiwo Bus stop (Behind FRSC)
                                                Ojodu - Berger
                                                P.O.Box 15456, Ikeja
                                                Lagos, Nigeria

Telephone/E-mail:      234-1-8209387; 08052004698; 08180091072
                                                projectalert@projectalertnig.org
                                                info@projectalertnig.org

ABUJA OFFICE
 26 Bamenda Street, Off Abidjan Street,
Wuse Zone 3
Telephone:                             234 -8708618


http://www.projectalertnig.org/

Cathaliya: Now I know the NGO am gonna work for..

swag queen:

I'm registering an NGO ASAP! For abused women and men!

Hahaha

debrief08: roject Alert on Violence Against Women (PROJECT ALERT)

Address:                              21, Akinsanya Street
                                                Off Isheri Road, Taiwo Bus stop (Behind FRSC)
                                                Ojodu - Berger
                                                P.O.Box 15456, Ikeja
                                                Lagos, Nigeria

Telephone/E-mail:      234-1-8209387; 08052004698; 08180091072
                                                projectalert@projectalertnig.org
                                                info@projectalertnig.org

ABUJA OFFICE
 26 Bamenda Street, Off Abidjan Street,
Wuse Zone 3
Telephone:                             234 -8708618


http://www.projectalertnig.org/

LaShawn: Amen at swag's prayers.

Thank God for Kenyatta and everybody showing their support at this crucial time.
@Kenyatta, Ure and Swag, the time you leave for real is the MOST DANGEROUS time, even more dangerous than when you were with them . Please, do not play with your safety. They act like wounded lions that have lost their prey.

Cathaliya:
post link sharp sharp......me wan dey that ship.


All these nonsense must stop....ki lo de?

Cathaliya: chukwu!
This one na serious Osondu and not should be done in so much hurry orelse there will be fatal mistakes.

Just calm your heads and do your thing believing God is with you

babyosisi:

The day my friend told me how she escaped,I was in awe
She hid in the toilet with the kids at Owerri airport till the flight was boarding
She was only 26 by the way
Her family member organized some army officers when she arrived Lagos and they stayed with her and the kids till the flight took off.
Isi gbakaa the man when he returned ( the hubby couldn't believe his eyes )
The evening of the day she left,she and hubby were supposed to be hosting a committee of friends meeting and she had bought the ugba,okporoko and all the orishirishi for the meeting like nothing dey happen
You can imagine when they gathered that night and saw the husband with his hands on his head and no iyawo or kids
The other trusted person that knew last minute was the loyal houseboy who swore he will never tell
She got info of all the aftermath from the loyal houseboy.
Wallahi it is good to be a smart woman o

babyosisi:

It is very annoying and nobody is perfect

There are two things however,I told myself I will not take

1. Physical violence is one
if you call me names,I call you back,thank God I am blessed with a sharp tongue lol
Tell me waka,I give you shege.
Call me ashawo ,I will call your mother and grandmother ashawo kwa
But if you raise your hand and touch me,it is over o
My father is still alive and my father never beat me for one day
Na my brothers wey im beat
My dad is a tough and strict guy but as God is my witness,I never saw him lay a finger on my mother or any female member of the family.
So I will not tolerate any beatings ho ha

2. Cheating.
while I do not have the time to snoop and cannot swear for anybody,I haven't been given any cause to suspect anything.
If you cheat,you better be perfect at hiding it because once I know,it is over.
I have never cheated and have no plans,I will keep my end of the bargain,if you fail in yours,the chord is broken
Simple and short

babyosisi:

This is a valid advice
I also add that the time they are preparing to leave which is now,is equally very dangerous
DO Not LET THiS MAN KNOW ABOUT YOUR PLANS

I have a good friend that chopped her man that night and left in the morning
That is how deceptive you should be if need be,give him no hint whatsoever
She had found their travel passports where he hid them,visas were about the expire and she acted fast,bought tickets and made her plans
On the expected day,She got the kids ready he drove them to school and went to work
She packed her bags,her pre arranged car arrived,picked her up ,she went to the school picked the children up and headed to Owerri airport
By 5 PM that night she was on a Lufthansa flight headed to the USA.
Guard your plans jealously and just executive
Tell no one except a trusted friend or close family member and then change your phone number.

eugene.darron:
I have an issue with my wife. I am an American man who married an Igbo woman. That being said, she is very rude to me at times and extremely disrespectful. She becomes pissed off when her goals of riches and flaunting to others are not met and blames me for this. We are doing pretty well, even by standards of most during the economic hardship. She began to build a house in Nigeria and did not even tell me. A great deal of her money is now sent there, she has built up a savings of considerable size, becomes pissed off when I ask her to take some of the bills because I am spending every penny I have to pay the bills so she can build this house (that she did not even consult me on). She has accused me of not being a man when I say that what I bring in may not cover what is being spent on this house and her family. I am so very frustrated with this entire situation. Today, she told me that her life sucks!! Almost every woman I know would kill to be where we are and it is not enough for this one.
My questions to all of you are...do all Nigerians behave this way toward people of other cultures, disrespectfully? My thoughts are that I have made the greatest mistake of my life building a family with this woman. Are women from Nigeria this disrespectful toward men from Nigeria or is it just American men? Do Nigerian women value wealth above everything or is this an isolated situation? Should I leave or is there a way to get someone who behaves so evil to listen to reason? Please advise as I am getting tired of this situation and never want our daughter to even go near Africa, yet alone Nigeria due to what I have experienced from all sides.

She becomes pissed off when her goals of riches and flaunting to others are not met and blames me for this

She began to build a house in Nigeria and did not even tell me. A great deal of her money is now sent there, she has built up a savings of considerable size, becomes pissed off when I ask her to take some of the bills because I am spending every penny I have to pay the bills so she can build this house (that she did not even consult me on).

Do Nigerian women value wealth above everything or is this an isolated situation?

Should I leave or is there a way to get someone who behaves so evil to listen to reason? Please advise as I am getting tired of this situation and never want our daughter to even go near Africa, yet alone Nigeria due to what I have experienced from all sides

babyosisi:

I happen to be an Igbo woman and I have not built a chicken shed let alone a house
This woman is using you from what I infer



This is a major character flaw,nothing to do with her country of origin.




There is No Nigerian male that will tolerate this sort of behavior
Who knows what else she is building while you are saddled with the upkeep of the home all by yourself
My sister don turn you to mugu
I wouldn't trust his woman if I were you.



I'm sure you already know the answer to that question
Does one Nigerian woman represent all nigerian women?


Divorce should always be the last option
Try to get her to listen to exactly how you feel about her behavior and the house she started without your knowledge and consent.
Then take it from there

kenyattamoore: Those who quoted my post with my name and that of my friend and her phone number , can you please edit it? Thanks

kenyattamoore: @Aluta and all those who contacted my friend, thank you very much. I don't know how to repay you for using your money to call long distance. This makes me cry for joy, complete strangers helping me without any thing in return. My friend contact me, she said she going to send me ticket before the end of this week and I will travel.
Pickbeau, lashawn, ileo, swagqueen and all those who contribute to this post with advises and useful information s ,from the bottom of my heart , I say thanks for everything.
I will come here if everything works fine and give update.