@op.
In nija settings its better 4 u 2 remain in ur parent's home b4 marriage, dat mks guys see u more responsible as nija guys get more fascinated wit babes with classical charisma n good home background wen its going beyond just bf n gf level.U don't ve 2 leave becos u wanna join d mobbing of d bandwagon of wats in vogue 4 d so- independent ladies.




@ ogugua

Wat people tink abt u really count as no-one is an island ,If all u tink is wat u feel abt urself only, it cool 2 u, bt dat 'd b lik a disaster gonna happen soon 2 odas.
People's opinions always reflect d true u, as dey re d mirrors u re standing b4.
its so unfortunate dat d I don't care abt wat people say mentality ve done a great damage 2 mother earth, more so people now live a wasteful life trying 2 fit themselves in2 d immoral so-called 21st century.

God bless d days of our ancestors, d days wen people do d right tins ,becos dey really cares abt wat people says n feels abt dem


Wen u see something , say something.

ogugua88: Caring too much about what people think has proven to be detrimental in quite a few cases as well. People should consider themselves first. It doesn't mean be selfish, but a happy and healthy "you" is what gets someone by and allows them to do for others.

homesteady: But do you think its possible to live without caring for what other people think of you?

homesteady: IMO! I think it is normal for a female to stay in her parent house till she gets married!
Even if you are 50, you can still stay in your parents house, so far you are not married

Lilimax: It is very normal for a female to stay in her parent's house till she gets married as long as she is comfortable in the house.
I did the same thing after my youth service but it got to a stage where my mum become a serious a thorn in my flesh...
I was no more comfortable in the home.
At this point I made up my mind to rent an apartment of my own. I was in my late twenties as at them.
It was at the point of renting this apartment that I met my husband.
I told him my plans and he frowned at it. He said that I should endure whatever I was recieving from my mum as it will not last forever.
It was not easy i must confesss...
Thank God that the rest is history .

190:

rotfl @ her momsi been a thorn in her flesh

hahahahahaaa!!

Lilimax: yeah then but we are best of friends today

after she forced you out

you be don turn old meat for inside house

your mom felt threatened

190: uhmm if shes Nigerian 22/23 outmost cos she ought to be at her husband's house by then

Nigerian old cargo'ed girls be like see what this one is saying

190:

after she forced you out

you be don turn old meat for inside house

your mom felt threatened

Lilimax: Yeye boy . How did you know ? It was later that I got the whole gist...
I was becoming too comfortable in my father's house

Happy married life lily
Thank God everything ended well

veave: God bless you prosper. i turned 25 in may and ever since then my old wooman has been on my neck.
she even asked me to bring my boyfriend for her to see.

when i said i ddnt have she just looked at me strangely... ever since then, na wahala every day...
i want to move out oooo....
I AM TIRED!!!

prosper86: There is nothing wrong in a lady moving out of d parents house dpends on d circumstance and d xter of d lady involved.

So I think it depends also on the morality ,circumstance and how responsible the lady is.

veave: SHEGE!!!!!!! IGHOSAGIE...




back to you ten times... infact i wish you more...
Awon omo jatijati...

in fela's voice:
D older d man , d sweeter he becomes.

Ask Genevieve either of atiku or d'banj who is sweeter

ogugua88:

Well, yeah. That's how I live. I can't please everyone. I've tried pleasing everyone and I suffered while they made their demands. Now I do what's best for me and do what I can for others when I can. They have to understand that I have my own life to live and I'll live it accordingly.

The same goes for the OP. Let's say she wants to do one thing but her friends and family suggest or demand she does otherwise. She does what they say and she's unhappy. Her unhappiness affects her work and she can no longer afford the life people wished for her. Will those who demanded suffer with her? If her work is lagging, will her boss call her friends and family and scold them for making her make an unwise decision? No. It's better to be happy with her decision than unhappy with someone else's demand. When a person is set, all things around him or her fall into place and everyone benefits. Usually.

Tosinville: Its true, I don't buy the idea of a woman living alone even though she has everything but as long as she's still single, she still need to be under her parent roof.

ighoosagie: 25yrs ago:
I'm too pretty, he's not handsome,
he's not rich, I'm polished,
I'm too sexy, he can't maintain me..
Dat's how aunty VEAVE clocked 50yrs today.

Happy birthday aunty veave