Cathaliya: me no understand your yarns o.

Who dey go Uk? Who dey fight international fight?


Kowaciate biko...

kofsy:
Wow! Thanks so much darling ({}) :* ... This is the kind of comment I've been looking out for. You truly understand my stance. In fact I'm surprise that most guys here are saying I should dump him, when in truth most of them are pathological cheats.
On how to deal with him, nothing is too much dear! I've been praying for him but I also intend to do something I know would pain him(not cheat o) when all this is all over... However, we learn everyday, and who knows if my plan is not the best. Pls I'd like to know how to deal with him... I'm trying my best to be a good fiancee to him... But may be there's something I'm not doing, pls let me know. You can send me a PM. Thanks swit

WeddingFever:

lol not you though I quoted u. I mean the fiancé just got his UK visa and the cheating may continue internationally. u get mouth lol

jay bee:



This is what i don't get with some women i swear. Red flags here and there but yet they always chose to conveniently ignore them only to start expecting miracles to happen.

Basically, you are going to settle for less due to the general notion that most men cheat?

What happens once you guys are married and he simply can't leave his alleged playing habit behind?

Where on earth is your self esteem geez

Cathaliya: thats not the issue here joor..... This guy in question is her VISA to UK

kofsy:

I have been in this relationship since november 2007. When we first met, i know my boyfriend to be a gentle and responsible guy. But for the past 6months, he gets violently angry when we have little disagreement and threatens to break my head and kill me.i used to dare him when he says this because i thought his threats were mere words. Not until january this year when he started the real film. When we have heated arguements, he kicks me, throw things at me, press my neck against the wall and says i will kill you o! After all this, he still comes back to apologize. The most recent was yesterday; he said something cruel to someone and i told him i didn't like what he said, this turned into an arguement. Then he said "get house of my house", i said No. Then he grabbed me by my cloth and started slugging me in the head. I am 5'6" and about 60kg and he's 6'8" and 79kg-no match. I asked him to stop, and he kept slugging me. I fell on the floor and he got on top of me, held my neck tightly trying to strangle it. I said you are going to kill me and he said "yes! you are right i will kill you. He took a pillow and used it to press my face down on the floor. And i asked him to pls leave me alone, he was hurting me; I thought i was going to lose consciousness. I am in a bad state now with bruises. I know he still loves me and has realized the horrible things he has done. Is there a chance for him to change? Should i go back to him?
I know most of you will tell me to leave him but it's not that easy, the commitment and the sacrifice i have made in this relationship would not make that so easy for me. And above all, i love him so much![color=#000099][/color] Am perplexed.
Thank you so much for taking all your time to read this, you don't know how much it means to me. I'm almost crying now writing this, just thank you so much everyone.

Chillisauce:




I wish you the best!

Nashville:

I have said it before, what she needs is a bit of self esteem and self worth. You cant be that bad looking or poor. And if you think going to the UK is heaven, pls think again!

Adaeze003:

Btw, the bold is the worst idea since gowon said Nigeria must be one.

Begging him to stay away will make you look weak! And he'll have no trouble cheating again after all you'll be the one begging. I say get all your facts/evidence and confront him. If he admits it and sincerely apologises you can forgive him but if he lies with the truth in his face or acts nonchalantly then ...

Nashville: Young woman, you dont need to get married yet. All you need is to work on your self confidence. I have read your posts and what you generally think about guys and I am sorry to say, you are not ready for marriage. You think very little of yourself. Either you are not good looking or you are very cheap. May be you never had any toasters and you see this guys as your last hope. Or may be you are 38 yrs old! Apologies for the harsh words.

Chillisauce:




I wish you the best!

2sexy.us:
Ah ah ah ah.... I know that thread oooooo OMG!!!!!!

and guess what? She has been deleting her previous post on this thread. I just went back and saw them. That means she does not want anyone to tell her the truth... Kai!!!! My GOD!

how could someone love another human more than her life and happiness?

That guy will never love or respect you, a man who could raise his hand on you is nothing but a monster.

Like they say, I also wish you the best.

Cathaliya: The girl is just confused.

kofsy:
Now look at you! Taking panadol for another woman's headache...

Face your life dear! Busy body. Even taking it personal than the person wearing the shoes. Aren't you ashamed of yourself. Every other person dropped their advice and left. But you have been running up and down putting the whole thing on your head. I didn't know it was going to give you heart attack. With all your 'gragra' you still say an infinite deal of nothing. Shove your advice down your ass and pick your crumbling life up.

Don't bother replying, cos you've been ignored. Go wear the green hat!

kofsy: .

Cathaliya: Somehow, I think D-explorer should come and see one candidate of his tolerance speech some time ago.

D-Explorer:

jay bee:



This is what i don't get with some women i swear. Red flags here and there but yet they always chose to conveniently ignore them only to start expecting miracles to happen.

Basically, you are going to settle for less due to the general notion that most men cheat?

What happens once you guys are married and he simply can't leave his alleged playing habit behind?

Where on earth is your self esteem geez

gr8ever: @ Amefrica

Is that Aunty Kofsy??