I LOVE DIS GUY


This sounds funny, but its not funny to me, i really want to pour out wats in my mind.
Ive been attending this a church for the past 6weeka, i saw this guy, i don't know if this is love at first sight, i got in love with him, wenever i get into the church and sees him, i will not concentrate Lol, this sounds weird, but we talking about love here, i don't love him because of his look, i asked my friend that is he good looking, my friend said he's alrite, but to me, he is very good looking.

On the other side, he looks at me, so wenever we see each other, i will smile, he will smile too, there was a time, when i was getting out of the church, he was starring at me that i almost fell.
but this huy is kind of older than me, hes like 6 or 7 years older.

so guys n ladies, plz what do u think i shld do, he didnt say anything to me Lol, what can i do to make him speak to, as in ask me out.


i will really apprecaite the good advice.

just start talking to him, get to know him better and he might like u

yepaaa ri pa, mama africa!!! , i thought girls go to church 4 genuine things, i' was deceived o!! ;d

@ badman, but i feel shy, wenever i see him, i wuldnt concentrate on wat im doing.

@ big shishi

wat do u mean by mama africa, this is really serious

uer story reminds me of franca from BBN . I guess thats the only way, its better than doing stupid to catch his attention or he would just look down on you.

I hated that Big brother nigeria, my cousins watched it 24/7, i wished they never had a gen so they can't watch it when Nepa nepalises them!

oh really, look down on me,

so how wuld i start, Lol

Girl you must be sprung!
Just get to know a friend of his that can introduce you people to each other. Either that or find a way to sit close by to him in church

Lol, he doesnt sit next to me, he plays the tumpet, so he sits far from, me.

i dont know him, any of his friends

Okay in that case, find out who his friends are or just somehow bump into him accidentally-on-purpose. That always worked for me.

j-girl u bump into guys, u can try that out sha

j-girl:

Girl you must be sprung!
Just get to know a friend of his that can introduce you people to each other. Either that or find a way to sit close by to him in church

why did u say i must be sprung


i really love him thats why

Why don't you go over and tell him how much you enjoy his trumpet playing and ask him how long ago he joined the church or something.

Just try talking to him on religious levels. Do u have single meetings in ur church?

The youths and singles in my church have this single meetings after church sometimes and they also sometimes do these parties and pinics and watnot.

Maybe one of the days for picnic, u can talk to him, and u know exchange numbers and watnot. Also that way, you'll get to know if he's SINGLE!! If he's not at the singles meeting, then he's prolly not single! lol,

ANyways talk to him. that's all i can say.6 weeks is enoughf or eye contact, open ur mouth.

BTW, think of it, im not sure that guy is into you (no no, im not tryna change ur mind abt him), but he's been smiling at you for 6 sundays, n he still hasnt made a move. Hmmm?

hot-a Relegious levels that serious oo, lol

shebi na for church she meet am. lol

na true sha, when u in rome behave like romans

It is not hard to meet peeps in church. Just tell the person that you want to make him your prayer partner. B4 long, prayers will be said

kai na wa girls am lerning ooo from reading mate now prayer mate, life

So, this is what you are doing in the Church . . . . It is nice to see that God is working through you.

j-girl:

It is not hard to meet peeps in church. Just tell the person that you want to make him your prayer partner. B4 long, prayers will be said

My sister ooo. GOD BLESS U.

Abeg oo, no that is not what i do. But it worked for my friend.

@hot angel, amen o! my sister

j-girl am still shocked prayer mate

lol. Is it that shocking?

TELL HIM YOU LIKE HOW HE PLAYS HIS TRUMPET
AND YOU WANT BOT OF YOU TO JUST BE ONLY FRIENDS.

baby, i wish this ur problem is mine then i will be among the selected few without a problem.
just go find his telephone number and tell him over the phone that his trumpet makes u come to church earlier than u intend to.
tell him that u would want him to teach u how he does that.
after the telephone discussion, meet him after the next church and tell him u were the one that called on phone.
ask him when he will teach u the trumpet.
if he is wants u, then the deal is done.
baby do not forget to update us when u are done.

get to know him better

@ chosenbabe


you must have what is called CONVICTION; which are a set of Biblical guidelines, beliefs, and standards that guide the conduct. If you have had nominal Christian up bringing, and especially if you are saved, and have received some Bible teaching, you have some convictions. You have some innate or natural insight into what is right and wrong, and your convictions cause you to lean strongly toward what is right. Your convictions make your conscience sensitive to right and wrong.

Struggle to know him better through His friends, church members, pastor etc, so as not to be a victim of feign love,



good luck!!!!!

@chosenbabe

ur exchange of smiles suggests that he feels almost the same way about you. The best thing to do is to tell him, he is not gonna reject you.

Love Doctor.

Why don't you go over and tell him how much you enjoy his trumpet playing and ask him how long ago he joined the church or something.


may God help my shyness, i will try and do dat

thanx

@hotangel, yea they do have single meetings, but ive neva attended one, i will try and go one of this days anywayz, really appreciate ur contribution