Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women—And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes,

MISTAKE Number1: Being Too Much Of A “Nice Guy”

Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to "nice" guys?

Of course you have.

Just like me, I am sure you have had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks",
but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.

What is going on here?

It is actually very simple,
Women do not base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is.
They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.

And guess what?

Being nice does not make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.

And being NICE does not make a woman CHOOSE you.
I realize that this does not make a lot of logical sense,
and it is hard to ACCEPT, but GET OVER IT.

Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it,
you will NEVER have the success with women that you want.

Nice guys finish last. I like a mixture, a nice guy with elements of badness in him.

julian_H:


MISTAKE Number1: Being Too Much Of A “Nice Guy”

I have to agree with you on that. They are total loosers.

Hey Hot house!
Only the very bad guys get away with all the bad things.though i suggest being 80% bad,it pays big time.

Something tells me the poster is speaking from experience.

Ebonyeyes:

Nice guys finish last. I like a mixture, a nice guy with elements of badness in him.

CONFIRM!

The 100% Mr. Nice guys act like MUMU!

Man, you are right, i was trying to be nice with one girl, she wanted to take me for a fool, when i discovered that, i showed her my bad side, within a week, i messed her up

@poster
Just learnt that lesson tru the hard way. Couldnt have said it better

Ebonyeyes:

Nice guys finish last. I like a mixture, a nice guy with elements of badness in him.

Baffles me ow gurls have come to embrace the unpleasant attributes for d ideal ones

What's your definition of a nice guy??

Just because someone's not overly nice dosent mean he's a jerk!!

If you are not nice to me, I cant even give you a second look. But when a guys is trying to form 'Mr. Perfect', I automatically put on my 'wary' outfit!

Inurdreamz:


Baffles me ow gurls have come to embrace the unpleasant attributes for d ideal ones

No way. I dont mean someone who has been to jail multiple times, probably does drugs and is a thug

Ebonyeyes:

Nice guys finish last. I like a mixture, a nice guy with elements of badness in him.

Hmm, this got me thinking now, what do we mean by badness? U mean a little bit of cheating here and there, small lies as long as he does all u want? Tell me

Ebonyeyes:

No way. I dont mean someone who has been to jail multiple times, probably does drugs and is a thug

OK what do u mean by bad if it aint the literal meaning of BAD? _{perhaps u mean BAD in d American context}

Nice guys might finish last in the dating game but NICE GUYS MARRY FIRST.


Which woman want to settle with a Bad guy if she no go get peace of mind ?

No wonder gurls luv to be roughed up a bit during them sessions
Yea, i'll pull your hair, luv!! 
Mwuuuuuuuuaaaaaaaaaaahh!!

posakosa:

Nice guys might finish last in the dating game but NICE GUYS MARRY FIRST.


Which woman want to settle with a Bad guy if she no go get peace of mind ?

I can pay to say that again

Inurdreamz:

OK what do u mean by bad if it aint the literal meaning of BAD? _{perhaps u mean BAD in d American context}

Yes the American context. Someone who is not too boring, knows his way about and knows how to have a good time.

Nice guys are loser they won't win a Ladies heart!!!

Ebonyeyes:

Yes the American context. Someone who is not too boring, knows his way about and knows how to have a good time.

hmmnnn, ok am gonna be BAD!!!!!!!!! henceforth
BEEN TOO GOOD TO Y'ALL LADIES OUTHERE

Inurdreamz:

hmmnnn, ok am gonna be BAD!!!!!!!!! henceforth
BEEN TOO GOOD TO Y'ALL LADIES OUTHERE

*Hugs* I dont mean a guy who is a woman beater o!

Ebonyeyes:

*Hugs* I dont mean a guy who is a woman beater o!

, but some ladies enjoy it though. After beatin them up u go down on ur kneels with some roses, kisses, chocolates, ticket-for-two to the bahamas

i concur with the first poster, girls dont like nice guys , dem like dem bad boys

When I was reading this I remember a conversation i had with my mum about a year ago, she was telling me girls dont like you to be nice to them rather they prefer you to be opposite. but when it comes to settling down then they"ll like MR too nice. I can see a alot of sense in this even though i already have a girlfriend base on what my mum told me i now believe no nice anymore, the way i do mine is this if a girl is beside me and expect me to say hello sorry am not I"ll just pass by you ignore you or do something that will make you think this guy no easy at all hasnt got my time. you see nowadays there nothing like child of god anymore. bad bad! if you being too nice you rot there girls wont pay you attention
especially in this country Uk

You need to be a buad muan so the ledis can like u, Bad boi forlife, Good girls like bad guys,

I knew a guy that just came from nigeria about 2 years ago if you see how many gilrs he's got loads. he smokes, very rude, court summons, anti social behaviour just to mention a few and he's a nigerian. I remember when he first came he use to follow round everywhere as if we have blood brothers. if you see him now he's a big boy. No nice anymore bad bad bad bad rue boy infact i hardly portrait as in gretting nowdays because some girls will view you an illitrate or a new comer. the thing is you have to pretend you cant be yourself is hard . bad bad even if the girl ask you to hold the door for her say you"re in a haste something like that no nice anymore

Ebonyeyes wats up,am nice n bad ooo so how we go hookup now

Ebonyeyes wats up,am nice n bad ooo so how we go hookup now

you cant be in between is impossible. you either nice or not. as simple as that.lol

Shey na U B bad boi?
Yup na me B Bad boi.yebariba!

deji2009:

if you being too nice you rot there girls wont pay you attention
especially in this country Uk

So so true.

I had a chat with a friend, whom I just had as a friend yesterday, and she told me, I am such a nice and kind person. I laughed inside of me, if only she knew, I stopped being nice twenty minutes ago. I have noticed women at times, deserve the rubbish they get from men.

Ebonyeyes:

Yes the American context. Someone who is not too boring, knows his way about and knows how to have a good time.

^^That is the simple definition of the "bad" I have in mind, not a cheat, a thug or a disrespectful man.
I need my man to be urbane and sensible with a good head.
Most of the so-called "nice" men are tagged so 'cos they dont know how to pique a woman's interest and keep it high!!They are not nice in the real sense of the word pls.
I dont want a drag, a bore or someone who aint in the know-how of things.

In the long run everyone in relationships should do their groundwork, generalization of what men/women are wont help.

tubabie:

^^That is the simple definition of the "bad" I have in mind, not a cheat, a thug or a disrespectful man.
I need my man to be urbane and sensible with a good head.
Most of the so-called "nice" men are tagged so 'cos they dont know how to pique a woman's interest and keep it high!!They are not nice in the real sense of the word pls.
I dont want a drag, a bore or someone who aint in the know-how of things.

In the long run everyone in relationships should do their groundwork, generalization of what men/women are wont help.

Must a man be ''bad'' to be urbane and sensible with a good head? The truth is this: you women do not know what you want in a relationship. When confusion sets in on your mind, you become incoherent (This is not geared at you!).

A nice guy is simply being himself, standing true to his value(s), and maintaining the integrity and sanity of a relationship. A nice guy respects himself and holds a good esteem of a lady. The word ''bad'' should never be interchanged to imply or connote an anecdote that it means good in a relationship.

First and foremost, lets analysis this:

1. What is the definition of Nice.
2. What is the definition of Bad.

Pataki:

Must a man be ''bad'' to be urbane and sensible with a good head? The truth is this: you women do not know what you want in a relationship. When confusion sets in on your mind, you become incoherent (This is not geared at you!).

A nice guy is simply being himself, standing true to his value(s), and maintaining the integrity and sanity of a relationship. A nice guy respects himself and holds a good esteem of a lady. The word ''bad'' should never be interchanged to imply or connote an anecdote that it means good in a relationship.

Totally agree with u