Please advice on this issue.

There is this girl I am in a distance relationship with for close to a year. She went for service and after a while she changed suddenly even after I paid her a visit. I have done so much to show her I so much desire her, She was supposed to come to my place, I sent her money but she told me several stories and she didnt come. On her birthday, I called her early morning but she busy my call and I dint call again, previously she has been ignoring my calls.

That same day, a birthday cake was delivered to her, but she only called in d evening feeling guilty of how she has been acting up. Apart from this, when I visited her, I bought her a phone as she requested, I send her card even when she does not ask.

Lastly, she keep telling me that she is engaged, which I dont believe its true. And I confronted her that I feel she is cheating on me, ever since then, she hasnt answered my call for about 2weeks.

I am close to 30, a graduate and self employed, not doing bad.

I intend to visit her where she is serving just to let her know how serious I am about building my future around her.

If you were in my position, what will you do? (Matured advice please, Thank you)

I'm sorry to tell you this but i think she is seeing someone else I think it's best you move on and let her go.

queen_of_sheba: I'm sorry to tell you this but i think she is seeing someone else I think it's best you move on and let her go.

U don't hv 2b sorry! Its d truth! Op, pls 4get her n move on! Obu kwa 4 ur own good o! So u don't go spending ur biz money in vain. Isn't it glaring to u, dat she's seeing some1 else n she doesn't wnt u? A lot of good girls out there would love to hv u as their man!

Don't b in a haste to settle down! Focus on ur biz n try to make friends with them, instead of seeking for a relatnship!

Cant you read the handwriting on the wall?
Do you still need the help of a seer to know that she is done with you?

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juicyguy: Please advice on this issue.

There is this girl I am in a distance relationship with for close to a year. She went for service and after a while she changed suddenly even after I paid her a visit. I have done so much to show her I so much desire her, She was supposed to come to my place, I sent her money but she told me several stories and she didnt come. On her birthday, I called her early morning but she busy my call and I dint call again, previously she has been ignoring my calls.

That same day, a birthday cake was delivered to her, but she only called in d evening feeling guilty of how she has been acting up. Apart from this, when I visited her, I bought her a phone as she requested, I send her card even when she does not ask.

Lastly, she keep telling me that she is engaged, which I dont believe its true. And I confronted her that I feel she is cheating on me, ever since then, she hasnt answered my call for about 2weeks.

I am close to 30, a graduate and self employed, not doing bad.

I intend to visit her where she is serving just to let her know how serious I am about building my future around her.

If you were in my position, what will you do? (Matured advice please, Thank you)

Love must be between both parties before relationship can work. I don't think she loves u. Pls don't waste your time on her, there are over 100 better ladies out there. What if she dies(God forbid) won't u marry. Pls move on

AM SORRY TO SAY YOU ARE TRYING TO RESUSCITATE SOMETHING WHICH DOES NOT HAVE ANY LIFE

ITS REALLY OVER BETWEEN YOU. DRILL THAT THROUGH YOUR SKULL, THE SOONER THE BETTER

YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN THAT.

Chaii?? Close to 30?? Guy, u don enter 1 Chance.. Even me sef, wey never reach Mid 20s, ah no fit be maga like that..

Guy move forward And build ur Future around another Person

Daft

Well, there are married men who went tru such before their spouse agreed to them.

OP, if u are convinced, pray to God ernestly show her a little more love, she might say Yes.

Love conquers.

I am really considering visiting her.

juicyguy: I am really considering visiting her.

Dude, forget her and move on or keep living on false hope while you spend more.

Bros pls leave that gurl alone. I'm dat kinda guy dat knws wassup quikly. I don't allow gurls 2 freak or do me anyao cops its obvious dis gal is doin u anyao. She no lyk u not 2 talk of love. Leave her and don't disgrace men o

This hurt I feel is eating me up.

I feel like she took me for a fool.

I feel like hurting her.