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Please Advice...He Wants To Call Off His Wedding! by BB12(f): 9:41am On Sep 26, 2013 |
A friend of mine called few days back that he wanted to call off his wedding which was fixed for October. His reason was that he just ran into his old girlfriend who is more beautiful, and that she loves her. According to him, the girl was outside the country and since she is finally back, he would like to continue the relationship and marry her! To say I was shocked was an understatement 'cos from what I know, he doesn't bluff. He wanted my opinion and I told him #summary#..."People ain't soccer balls you can toss wherever and whenever you like". Nairalanders, please what's your take on this? 1 Like |
Re: Please Advice...He Wants To Call Off His Wedding! by twogood: 9:47am On Sep 26, 2013 |
I think this guy is stupid. Wedding's been fixed and all. Then again i'm thinking, could it be that God allowed the meeting so that he could marry this girl- just thinking. It's a terrible feeling being unhappy on your wedding day. Marriage is for life. Count all the costs. Whatever he does, he shouldn't hurt the original girl he's hitched to. |
Re: Please Advice...He Wants To Call Off His Wedding! by BB12(f): 10:10am On Sep 26, 2013 |
twogood: I think this guy is stupid. Wedding's been fixed and all. In my opinion, he shouldn't have proposed to the girl since his heart is elsewhere. He wasn't enthusiastic in d wedding planning and insisted that he wanted only court wedding, bla bla bla |
Re: Please Advice...He Wants To Call Off His Wedding! by twogood: 10:25am On Sep 26, 2013 |
Never marry out of pity. If your heart is elsewhere, bring it back first before any other thing. If your heart is 'stuck there' then you might as well save yourself future heartache and go with your heart. What does the 2nd girl think. I hope she no wan spoil show for her fellow girl-just saying. But girls, no go marry man im heart dey somewhere else o |
Re: Please Advice...He Wants To Call Off His Wedding! by lomaxx: 11:41am On Sep 26, 2013 |
It's his wedding. His life. He's the boss. Anyone can be hired and fired at anytime. He knows what he's doing- and old enough to accept consequences(dire as they may be). I can only but wish him the best of luck. |
Re: Please Advice...He Wants To Call Off His Wedding! by divinelove(m): 12:43pm On Sep 26, 2013 |
Hmmm this is serious, i feel for d second gal whose wedding is to b cancelled. I hope she doesnt do some unthinkable things to him. Beyond all these he has nt married her yet dt means its jst a failed rship.i wont advise him to go ahead wit d weddin if he feels dt much for d first girl. |
Re: Please Advice...He Wants To Call Off His Wedding! by BB12(f): 11:57pm On Sep 26, 2013 |
lomaxx: Yeah, it's his life/marriage but that doesn't mean he can screw up people's lives at will. He lays so much emphasis on this other girl's beauty (and obviously confusing it with love). I just wish he could seek God's face before making hasty decisions...Beauty fades with time, I wonder what will hold the marriage when that time comes! |
Re: Please Advice...He Wants To Call Off His Wedding! by 190theclown: 11:59pm On Sep 26, 2013 |
BB12: A friend of mine called few days back that he wanted to call off his wedding which was fixed for October. somebody fetch water give me make i drink |
Re: Please Advice...He Wants To Call Off His Wedding! by BB12(f): 12:07am On Sep 27, 2013 |
190-the-clown: Why the sudden thirst Which would you prefer? Tap, well, river abi rain water |
Re: Please Advice...He Wants To Call Off His Wedding! by Travelista(f): 12:08am On Sep 27, 2013 |
Your friend should let the fiancée go; goodness knows she'll be better off without such a loser. Had she been yoked to him, he'd likely start cheating on her with the girl that left him in the lurch. And out of curiosity, how sure is your friend that the girl abroad doesn't have someone else? As for Ms. Returnee...good luck to her because I wouldn't want to be with a man that could be so cruel to a woman he claims to love. It means he is fickle and can't be trusted. Is Ms. Returnee based abroad by any chance? As for you, OP, my advice is for you to stay as far out of this as possible because when it hits the fan, you don't want to be pointed out as someone that knew the groom's intentions and kept quiet. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Advice...He Wants To Call Off His Wedding! by Popowaa: 12:15am On Sep 27, 2013 |
Travelista: Your friend should let the fiancée go; goodness knows she'll be better off without such a loser. Had she been yoked to him, he'd likely start cheating on her with the girl that left him in the lurch. And out of curiosity, how sure is your friend that the girl abroad doesn't have someone else? As for Ms. Returnee...good luck to her because I wouldn't want to be with a man that could be so cruel to a woman he claims to love. It means he is fickle and can't be trusted.couldnt ve said it better. Was he no imn contact with her before he proposed?Did the girl tie a rope around his neck and force him to propose?We human beings never learn,out of selfishness and greed we will alwz suffer.Human beings do change and i hope Mis Yankee is an angel becos i believe in the adage "a bird in hand is worth two in a bush" |
Re: Please Advice...He Wants To Call Off His Wedding! by BB12(f): 12:25am On Sep 27, 2013 |
@ Travelista : Trust me, I no dey put my hands near fire. I think Ms. Returnee's here to stay! If a guy tells me he wants to call off a wedding just to marry me, I will think more than twice |
Re: Please Advice...He Wants To Call Off His Wedding! by 190theclown: 12:31am On Sep 27, 2013 |
BB12: rotfl I prefer your kind of water |
Re: Please Advice...He Wants To Call Off His Wedding! by BB12(f): 12:39am On Sep 27, 2013 |
Popowaa: couldnt ve said it better. 50 likes (I can always add more ) Those were the exact questions I asked him. Marriage proposals should not be rushed! He said it's better to call off the wedding than divorce I wish I could give him a good punch on the face the moment he said that! |
Re: Please Advice...He Wants To Call Off His Wedding! by BB12(f): 1:02am On Sep 27, 2013 |
190-the-clown: I am not a source of water, sowee |
Re: Please Advice...He Wants To Call Off His Wedding! by veave(f): 6:14am On Sep 27, 2013 |
Go ahead and call off the wedding... its good riddance to bad rubbish. his current fiancee doesnt need an undecisive persin like anyway... |
Re: Please Advice...He Wants To Call Off His Wedding! by Exponental(m): 6:43am On Sep 27, 2013 |
Ur friend is stupid. No SANE girl will accept such marriage proposal cos what goes around comes around. |
Re: Please Advice...He Wants To Call Off His Wedding! by Enegod(m): 6:46am On Sep 27, 2013 |
he is just following his hrt... |
Re: Please Advice...He Wants To Call Off His Wedding! by BB12(f): 9:35am On Sep 27, 2013 |
Enegod: he is just following his hrt... It's always better to LEAD one's heart rather than FOLLOW. |
Re: Please Advice...He Wants To Call Off His Wedding! by BB12(f): 9:40am On Sep 27, 2013 |
Exponental: Ur friend is stupid. No SANE girl will accept such marriage proposal cos what goes around comes around. You're so on point Some girls don't think that way though |
Re: Please Advice...He Wants To Call Off His Wedding! by lertee(f): 10:04am On Sep 27, 2013 |
BB12: A friend of mine called few days back that he wanted to call off his wedding which was fixed for October.Your friend is still a baby and he doesn't have a mind of his own. Although I still find it hard to believe someone would wnt to call off a wedding just cos he met his beautiful ex,theremore to it. |
Re: Please Advice...He Wants To Call Off His Wedding! by sweettease(f): 10:38am On Sep 27, 2013 |
Oh God, deliver me from every such fiance IJN - Amen! |
Re: Please Advice...He Wants To Call Off His Wedding! by BB12(f): 11:03am On Sep 27, 2013 |
lertee: I hope he grows up real quick 'cos marriage isn't meant for babies |
Re: Please Advice...He Wants To Call Off His Wedding! by andyanders: 9:16am On Nov 26, 2013 |
A pay back time will come and he will regret his actions. No matter how he feels now to dump the lady he has been staying with and planned whether court,white wedding or anything marriage and now wants to do away with her because of the beauty of this lady in question, he will one day start receiving a Holy Ghost flogging and he will start deliverance |
Re: Please Advice...He Wants To Call Off His Wedding! by Youngpo413: 2:39pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Travelista:ladies also do dump someone they are engaged to...so the guy is doing the right thing. |
Re: Please Advice...He Wants To Call Off His Wedding! by avuekwe(f): 4:57pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
sweettease: Amen and amen sis, to that your prayer. Some men are ? |
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