I met a lady at an event. After little conversation, requested for her number in which she gave me. It's been one week now she has not picked my calls.

Then forget about her... she isnt into you.

SniperInADiaper: Then forget about her... she isnt into you.

Then why did she give out her number

Leysco:
Then why did she give out her number

She has a hard time saying no.
She didn't want you to feel bad.
She was just being friendly.
She found a better candidate at the event.

SniperInADiaper:
She has a hard time saying no.
She didn't want you to feel bad.
She was just being friendly.
She found a better candidate at the event.

Gbam! Everything she said

Sumtimes sum ladies don't wana b rude or b snubish infact dey alredi knw first hand dt dey aren't attracted tu u n wil neva b interested.howeva in order tu prevent u from talkin too much,beging 4 d num if shez says no she can't give u or prevent embarasing u she jez gives it out. Mosttimes it sooo much easier that way

thareta: Sumtimes sum ladies don't wana b rude or b snubish infact dey alredi knw first hand dt dey aren't attracted tu u n wil neva b interested.howeva in order tu prevent u from talkin too much,beging 4 d num if shez says no she can't give u or prevent embarasing u she jez gives it out. Mosttimes it sooo much easier that way

Yeah this cos some guys just think a girl is playing hard to get when she says no.

She gave u her number sothat u can call, she didn't assure you she would be picking. Next time always ask if they would pick ur calls when you request for numbers

Give me d number make i try am and let'z see maybe she no go pick d call....

Leysco:
Then why did she give out her number

She wanted you to stop talking so that she could go home. If she aint picking your calls, DELETE the damn number.

Thank you guys. hav deleted it

She may have given you a wrong number

You guys arint gerrit
the Op said she gave him her numba, he called and she isnt pickin

ok fastword---- how did she know it was th OP's numba

do u guys gerrit now?

kagari: You guys arint gerrit
the Op said she gave him her numba, he called and she isnt pickin

ok fastword---- how did she know it was th OP's numba

do u guys gerrit now?

That's tru oh*straight face*

kagari: You guys arint gerrit
the Op said she gave him her numba, he called and she isnt pickin

ok fastword---- how did she know it was th OP's numba

do u guys gerrit now?

Maybe by adding up the number and checking it up Whatsapp to see the pic attached. I may be wrong.


The whole story may be false.

kagari: You guys arint gerrit
the Op said she gave him her numba, he called and she isnt pickin

ok fastword---- how did she know it was th OP's numba

do u guys gerrit now?

She know she gave her number to a stranger, then she sees a strange numb calling. Common sense should tell u who is calling

There are many reasons why she isn't picking


¤ She may not know your number (does she?)

¤ She didn't wanna come across as proud/arrogant (take the number make I rest abeg)

¤ You have body and/or mouth odour (take number dey go abeg make I breathe)


Whatever the reason is: one thing's certain
SHE'S NOT INTO YOU, move on jare, no be force.

I think this is a misconception a lot of guys get. Just because a lady gives you her number, smiles at you, chats with you or acts friendly does not mean she's into you!

Leysco: I met a lady at an event. After little conversation, requested for her number in which she gave me. It's been one week now she has not picked my calls.

You will find your answer somewhere here:

https://www.nairaland.com/962850/ladies-which-these-dating-evils

By the way, from the sound of it, I am assuming you are young so I would give you an older guy's advice: Don't listen to all the crap these girls are telling you on the thread about the girl doing you a favour or trying to help you. She just did not have the manners and guts to tell you she was not interested. She took a cowardly way out and gave you the number then did not pick up. She could have said 'no' so you know where you stand and waka pass.

But that is okay, if you learn quick, as a bloke, you will always laugh last. Then give 'paskor' when girls like her complain later when you too claim you are 'being nice' by being inconsiderate.

ThoniaSlim: I think this is a misconception a lot of guys get. Just because a lady gives you her number, smiles at you, chats with you or acts friendly does not mean she's into you!

True... but where is the harm in a lady simply telling a man that she isn't interested... Some ladies wont do that which also gives guys misconceptions

SniperInADiaper:
True... but where is the harm in a lady simply telling a man that she isn't interested... Some ladies wont do that which also gives guys misconceptions

Are you Nigerian?

Sagamite:

Are you Nigerian?

Why?

My answer depends on your reason for wanting to know

SniperInADiaper:
Why?

My answer depends on your reason for wanting to know

They are not known for courtesy and being cultured, and you are stating those in your post, which is rare.

See my signature.

Sagamite:

They are not known for courtesy and being cultured, and you are stating those in your post, which is rare.

See my signature.

Im un-Nigerian

SniperInADiaper:

Im un-Nigerian

I like that answer.

I agree with it, at least on that single post.

Sagamite:

I like that answer.

I agree with it, at least on that single post.

Na me be Oyinbo

#TeamCrazy

^^^Yeah, funny name. I won't forget even in the grave.

@ Sagamite: Sey na u come get culture and co-te-si.

Sagamite:

Are you Nigerian?

You look gay by the way~

Reuben.Abati:


You look gay by the way~

How can you judge gayness based on that?

On a scale of 1 to gay, he appears to rank a 1.

SniperInADiaper:

How can you judge gayness based on that?

On a scale of 1 to gay, he appears to rank a 1.

You have no idea.

What sort of dude uses such picture of assss and muscles as a NL profile image.

Reuben.Abati:


You have no idea.

What sort of dude uses such picture of assss and muscles as a NL profile image.

Egotistical one
He cut his face out.... for what reason? Who knows... But Im willing to bet he isn't gay.

SniperInADiaper:

Egotistical one
He cut his face out.... for what reason? Who knows... But Im willing to bet he isn't gay.

Never say never. Sagamite is a closet gay.

I'm telling you.