There's this lady I met recently and in the course of our discussion complains seriously about her hubby not wanting to be close to her and whenever she complains, he promises to change yet it continues. They've been married for 3 years now without any issue. Medical test confirms hubby ok and the few times they've been close hubby performed well on bed. Hubby prefers to spend hours on fone making love and screaming than having it real with her. Initially she tot it was because he travelled then but even now that he's around he still wants it to continue via fone.

She's thinking of divorce cos her hubby is not ready to change. I cud only advise her to be patient promising to get back to her asap.

Nairalanders, pls what should she do and have you heard or experienced something like this before?

Matured advise pls.

*speechless*

PRAYER, dat wat she needs nt divorce

Bleble-swag:
PRAYER, dat wat she needs nt divorce

Everytime y'all keep saying prayer instead of tackling the problem. So u think she should just sit and pray den all will be well. Am not calling for a divorce but at least there are better ways of handling matters than ^^ suggested

"Having phone sexxx FOR HOURS AND SCREAMING"?
This wan pass me o!


. . . . still thinking. . . .

Sounds like a 'closet HOMO' to me ooooooooooooooo. . . .HIAHN!

Just use 'idea' tell her say she marry BI-SEXXXXUAL! Shikena!
Only a man can make a fellow man SCREAM for hours on the phone IN THIS DAY AND AGE!!!
Women lost that kind of effect centuries ago!!!

Ask PASTOR ODULELE or BISHOP EDDY LONG!

prayer answereth all things. if u ve a beta suggestion den bring it on.

Another kpekusing matter gone wrong again nothing wey daughter of eve no go see on top kpekus matter.this one na na phone intimacy you sure say the guy no dey use you wean'k




by tomorrow na,another worse one go show.it is well

@op, please, expantiate more on s*x phone, I don't really understand.

If kpekus matter should pass kanwulia, then, what can I say

At this juncture, i want to conclude dt the two problems of our planet are money and sex!

greatgod2012: @op, please, expantiate more on s*x phone, I don't really understand.

is lost!!
Hahahaha!!!


Kanwulia,dis one pass u 2
(No need going tru d post then)

Maybe as somebody said; pray.

Orisirisi..

alutacontinua: If kpekus matter should pass kanwulia, then, what can I say

At this juncture, i want to conclude dt the two problems of our planet are money and sex!

is kanwulia a prof in kpekus?

Bleble-swag:
prayer answereth all things. if u ve a beta suggestion den bring it on.

Faith without works is dead. She can have all the faith in the world and speak in multiple tongues and nothing will happen if she is not taking action.

Your husband is either a bisexual or he hs a spiritual problem where he has a spirit wife that satisfies his se-sual urge hence his attitude.

soul_glo:


Faith without works is dead. She can have all the faith in the world and speak in multiple tongues and nothing will happen if she is not taking action.

Thank you very much. Some people on nairaland will advice u to pray if you tell them your hungry instead of them telling you to fucccc.king get a job

Please, whats her physical hygiene like??Dirtiness is a libido killer.

Hmmm, 4 dis kind age wen dem need better knacking?? D lady shd seduce him, if it is possible n she av d strength she shd rape him abeg dey r married na, 4 3yrs no issue. Dat madman is hiding sumthin. Phone s*x my foot.

Haywhymido: Hmmm, 4 dis kind age wen dem need better knacking?? D lady shd seduce him, if it is possible n she av d strength she shd rape him abeg dey r married na, 4 3yrs no issue. Dat madman is hiding sumthin. Phone s*x my foot.

isnt dat a punishable offense

Some men are just wierd.
He could be bisexual that enjoys a fellow man's company better than the woman's.
He may not find the wife attractive again and prolly lost hope due to long time search for a baby.
Divorce isn't the first issue here,after you try to seduce him and he doesn't fall still then you can visit marriage counsellors or psychologist to have a heart discussion with him. He may be hiding something from you.

@Post

The husband is ASEXUAL. People who are asexual have no desire for sex even in a strong marriage. If Nigerians will stop discriminating against single people, then we would not have asexual people in Nigeria getting married just to appease society.

Find a Psychologist in your area to help individuals and families by assessing, diagnosing and treating mental, emotional and behavioural issues including stressful life events, anxieties, fears, depression and relationship breakdowns.

this s.ex matter makes me sick and irritated, seriously

Forget OP , this is just a fairly tale. I bet .