Most of the girlfriends I had always wants you to say "I Love you" to them, even though you are doing other things for them like buying them things, taking them out etc. Please i welcome contributions form both genders.

IT ALL DEPEND ON THE MOTIVE "BEHIND THE SCENE". LOVE DOES NOT HIDE BECAUSE IF YOU LOVE YOU WILL SAY IT AND DO IT. THOUGH IN SOME CASE SOME PEOPLE JUST SAY IT EVEN WHEN THEY DON'T MEAN IT BUT I TELL YOU WITH TIME THEY WILL MANIFEST THEIR TRUE COLOUR(S).
IF YOU LOVE SOME ONE YOU WILL NOT BE FORCED OR PRESSURED INTO SAYING BECAUSE IT WILL JUST FLOW NATURALLY.

zeal500:

IT ALL DEPEND ON THE MOTIVE "BEHIND THE SCENE". LOVE DOES NOT HIDE BECAUSE IF YOU LOVE YOU WILL SAY IT AND DO IT. THOUGH IN SOME CASE SOME PEOPLE JUST SAY IT EVEN WHEN THEY DON'T MEAN IT BUT I TELL YOU WITH TIME THEY WILL MANIFEST THEIR TRUE COLOUR(S).
IF YOU LOVE SOME ONE YOU WILL NOT BE FORCED OR PRESSURED INTO SAYING BECAUSE IT WILL JUST FLOW NATURALLY.

i concur

In some situations saying I love you first could lead your partner to take advantage of you.

ima1:

In some situations saying I love you first could lead your partner to take advantage of you.

i agree o

hmmm. .

It tickles their earlobes

I have only meant it when i said it to one particular person - i say it because thats what others wanna hear. Ironically, the one i said it seriously to still no gree for me

Sometimes i wonder whether it is a majic clause that makes them happy. how does it make them feel? I used to think that some of the ladies would be more contented and happier with a thousand "I Love you" than with many material goods.

@ Topic

So they can laugh at us and call us mugus in their minds

lmao!

Esss:

@ Topic

So they can laugh at us and call us mugus in their minds

I think you have a point. If you dare not say it, they will throw tantrums in a bid to embarass you.

Esss:

@ Topic

So they can laugh at us and call us mugus in their minds

roflmao
why do nigerian guys feel like that??

Esss:

@ Topic

So they can laugh at us and call us mugus in their minds

iseobio:

I think you have a point. If you dare not say it, they will throw tantrums in a bid to embarass you.

yeesh, not all the time and not all, use the word 'some' so that is does not seem like you are generalizing

ibkaye:

yeesh, not all the time and not all, use the word 'some' so that is does not seem like you are generalizing

tope2000:

roflmao
why do nigerian guys feel like that??

So make una tell us now?? Because that exactly how I feel. Although I really dont give a hoot, I still tell my girlfriend anyways cause thats exactly how I feel.

ibkaye:

yeesh, not all the time and not all, use the word 'some' so that is does not seem like you are generalizing

are u saying you are an exception? I bet your when your head is spinning with what they percieve to be love, you will react spontaneously.

Esss:

So make una tell us now?? Because that exactly how I feel. Although I really don't give a hoot, I still tell my girlfriend anyways cause thats exactly how I feel.

Love is not just a word of mouth, you gotta prove it. i def dont think any guy that tells me he loves me is mumu, if anything i will happy to have that kind of guy in my life and appreciate and love him back.

Most guys don't know how to say it , perhaps because of their backgroud. BY THE TIME THEY GET HOOKED WITH THIS BABE, they come out singing it like a nursery rhyme. I mean it should be from the heart not being forced by a lady that is trying to raise her egos

that is very true

Esss:

So make una tell us now?? Because that exactly how I feel. Although I really don't give a hoot, I still tell my girlfriend anyways cause thats exactly how I feel.

huh? I was just suggesting that next time, you add the word 'some' because not everybody is the same, whether you are a man or woman

me personally, i will not see the guy as a mumu if i know he means it and is being sincere

iseobio:

are u saying you are an exception? I bet your when your head is spinning with what they percieve to be love, you will react spontaneously.

whether i am an exception or not, the point is to not generalize

tell them,baby

this question has always been bodering me.i have a girl i care so much about and at any given opportunity she always tell me she loves me and i almost always reply" same here".she caught on one time and ask me why i never tell exactly that i love her.i actually searchd myself and i could not relly understand why i can not convincingly tell her the exact words"i love you".i actually care so much for her but somhow i just find it a winny bit difficult saying 'i love you".she told me that it makes her feel very good if she hears those words.well, i have learnt to tell her those words and i have found out that it makes our relationship stronger

[quote][/quote]In some situations saying I love you first could lead your partner to take advantage of you.

i agree o

i over agree oooooooooo

Love is not just a word of mouth, you gotta prove it. i def don't think any guy that tells me he loves me is mumu, if anything i will happy to have that kind of guy in my life and appreciate and love him back.

We all know that is not just word of mouth, but after u tell them, they we like to make foul of u and feel like without them u are not complete. so wetin nor go make man lie

Love is not just a word of mouth, you gotta prove it. i def don't think any guy that tells me he loves me is mumu, if anything i will happy to have that kind of guy in my life and appreciate and love him back.

We all know that is not just word of mouth, but after u tell them, they we like to make foul of u and feel like without them u are not complete. so wetin nor go make man lie

dont mine me, i over post because of that thing "i love u"

Like Papoose. . . . . . . .

You can't tell a woman you love her. . . . .Are you Stupid?
Words dont express your love. . . .You Gotta prove it. . .

The Sly:

Like Papoose. . . . . . . .

You can't tell a woman you love her. . . . .Are you Stupid?
Words don't express your love. . . .You Gotta prove it. . .

To em honies, they need to keep hearing "I LOVE U" every now and then.
Women are insecured and i think this is the reason they crave for em words.
SLY, when was the last time u said so to your mamichula.

The Sly:

Like Papoose. . . . . . . .

You can't tell a woman you love her. . . . .Are you Stupid?
Words don't express your love. . . .You Gotta prove it. . .

Exactly . . . why do they always want it in l'anglais?
I think it's just the fact that they need back-up
Like sumn to say in every small argument

Hannibal:

SLY, when was the last time u said so to your mamichula.

Sly says it every time
Especially when it works as a thigh-ripper

Hannibal:



To em honies, they need to keep hearing "I LOVE You" every now and then.
Women are insecured and i think this is the reason they crave for em words.
SLY, when was the last time u said so to your mamichula.

Ah!. . . . . .Long time. . . .Its really very boring to me
The thing is,If i don't love her. . . .Then why the eff did i approach her in the first place unless of course if the reverse is the case
Sometimes i feel like smacking tha taste out of 'em girls mouth for hurling such ''i love you'' complaints . . . .
Thank God all me babes understands who im iz and they still digs ma style. . . . .

The Sly:

Ah!. . . . . .Long time. . . .Its really very boring to me
The thing is,If i don't love her. . . .Then why the eff did i approach her in the first place unless of course if the reverse is the case
Sometimes i feel like smacking tha taste out of 'em girls mouth for hurling such ''i love you'' complaints . . . .
Thank God all me babes understands who im iz and they still digs ma style. . . . .

Jeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeez!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
love-vendor SLY, Did u say all your babes??
All?? Errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrm. . . . . . .Are u a polygamist??

@ Eldee,

Thigh Ripper??
Honestly, i am must go for me communion tomorrow.
Y'all guys have derailed me.

Hannibal:

Jeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeez!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
love-vendor SLY, Did u say all your babes??
All?? Errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrm. . . . . . .Are u a polygamist??

I aint no love-vendor neither i'm i a polygamist. . .
This dude is only a well respected pastor of the MIGHTY TOWER PROPHETIC PENTICOSTAL CHURCH!!!!!!

What's hard in saying I- love -you?
And you guys say women are complicated. What a laugh!!!