hello Nairalanders,

I have this friend of mine who is dating a girl. the girl seems to see the guy as her ATM machine, asking for money for airtime, upkeep, etc on frequent basis. im amazed at this behaviour. i once asked a lady, that if it is the responsibility of your BF to take of all your financial needs. and if he does, what do you do in return especially when both of you are not sure of settling down with each other?

i understand, its the duty of a married man to take care of his wife and family, but for a BF to GF??

please share your view on this.

THANKS

It's a natural something! Happens in the animal kingdom too so humans are no exception..A male praying mantis usually gives the female something to feed on while he bleeps her! Some animals dance, others sing bla bla bla. You've got to do what it takes to impress her enough and get laid. The suprising thing for me is that they are the ones that enjoy this sex thingy the most! They should pay guys to sleep with 'em! But nature's a bitc.H

ffo: hello Nairalanders,

I have this friend of mine who is dating a girl. the girl seems to see the guy as her ATM machine, asking for money for airtime, upkeep, etc on frequent basis. im amazed at this behaviour. i once asked a lady, that if it is the responsibility of your BF to take of all your financial needs. and if he does, what do you do in return especially when both of you are not sure of settling down with each other?

i understand, its the duty of a married man to take care of his wife and family, but for a BF to GF??

please share your view on this.

THANKS

If he's my hubby.....yes!

Una no dey tire to cry untop woman matter
Another female bashing thread again.oooh kwa

Infomizer: It's a natural something! Happens in the animal kingdom too so humans are no exception..A male praying mantis usually gives the female something to feed on while he bleeps her! Some animals dance, others sing bla bla bla. You've got to do what it takes to impress her enough and get laid. The surprising thing for me is that they are the ones that enjoy this sex thingy the most! They should pay guys to sleep with 'em! But nature's a bitc.H

it depends on the lady u are hanging out with, almost all ladies like the praying mantis kind relationship (they feast on u while u are in a relationship) almost all guys prefer the lion pride relationship (so many ladies in the pride, he sleeps all day, the lionesses work for the pride he takes the choice part of the kill, he protects the pride from invaders n intruders, Fu*ck n goes back to sleep).
In bf/gf relationship, the ladies are mantis, in marriage relationship, the men are lion.

No. But he pays my phone bill anyway as it's cheaper that way (*connections*), thereby I can no longer sing "independent women" with conviction

Henry praise:
it depends on the lady u are hanging out with, almost all ladies like the praying mantis kind relationship (they feast on u while u are in a relationship) almost all guys prefer the lion pride relationship (so many ladies in the pride, he sleeps all day, the lionesses work for the pride he takes the choice part of the kill, he protects the pride from invaders n intruders, Fu*ck n goes back to sleep).
In bf/gf relationship, the ladies are mantis, in marriage relationship, the men are lion.

Makes sense! Team lion all the way!

A lady's father should be the one to cater for her needs. When she becomes mature and working, she should cater for her own needs. When she is married, the home should be run on a percentage basis btw her husband answer herself, if she has a job. A woman shud not be a parasite. I won't take that from anyone.

Nope!itz my parents responsibility 2 do dat,i don't depend on any guy 2 cater 4 my needs,i don't wana luk lyk a liability 2 d guy!!

Infomizer: It's a natural something! Happens in the animal kingdom too so humans are no exception..A male praying mantis usually gives the female something to feed on while he bleeps her! Some animals dance, others sing bla bla bla. You've got to do what it takes to impress her enough and get laid. The suprising thing for me is that they are the ones that enjoy this sex thingy the most! They should pay guys to sleep with 'em! But nature's a bitc.H

my question is directed to BF/GF relationship when both of you most likely are not sure of marring each other at the end of the day. For married couples, its acceptable at least she takes care of the household, it is also understandable that you paid for her dowry. but for a relationship or courtship, im amused on that.

No. I don't need a guy to pay my bills, psssh.

not necessarily...it depends

ffo:

my question is directed to BF/GF relationship when both of you most likely are not sure of marring each other at the end of the day. For married couples, its acceptable at least she takes care of the household, it is also understandable that you paid for her dowry. but for a relationship or courtship, im amused on that.

Then i'd say it's a matter of circumstance. If the guy feels that it's the sure fire way to bleeping her (for reasons best known to him) or even marrying her eventually, then why bother? He's gotta do all it takes, even if it sees him paying her younger one's school fees (it happens). Ladies posting here are only a fraction of ladies out there! We all know that the 'other kind' are as ubiquitous as the sky and these don't mind if you gotta sell your father's house to care for 'em. As fellas, i'd say we strive to make more money than all our gfs can spend (whether they depend on us or not)!

Nopes.Nopes. Not at all. I usually pay my own way, and when I can't, They be falling all over me to show me they can.. ..

All that maintenance U see on dat beautiful lady cost money
So, U cant expect to get d benefits of a couple and not complement wats on ground
Ur function around a woman is not to deplete her resources
U must bring something to the table 4 all to see
Or else, that rich guy go intimidate U die

If U cant afford it now,
WAIT TILL U GET MARRIED


So as to maintain ur pride


PROBLEM SOLVED

Infomizer:
Then i'd say it's a matter of circumstance. If the guy feels that it's the sure fire way to bleeping her (for reasons best known to him) or even marrying her eventually, then why bother? He's gotta do all it takes, even if it sees him paying her younger one's school fees (it happens). Ladies posting here are only a fraction of ladies out there! We all know that the 'other kind' are as ubiquitous as the sky and these don't mind if you gotta sell your father's house to care for 'em. As fellas, i'd say we strive to make more money than all our gfs can spend (whether they depend on us or not)!

this my friend case is funny, he is in a distant relationship, this girl keeps asking for money for this and that on regular basis. its so annoying. the girl in question was like "i dont like stingy men" that "i heard yoruba guys are stingy and i cant date a yoruba guy cus of that."

ffo:

this my friend case is funny, he is in a distant relationship, this girl keeps asking for money for this and that on regular basis. its so annoying. the girl in question was like "i dont like stingy men" that "i heard yoruba guys are stingy and i cant date a yoruba guy cus of that."

Your friend should fante! Can you imagine? It is her ilk that i referred to earlier! bleeping leecher! Bitter truth is, the girl does not love him! Take it or take it! (yea!)

I hate it when a woman depends on a guy for money......its so godamn annoying. Its so common even among the working class ladies.

Infomizer:
Your friend should fante! Can you imagine? It is her ilk that i referred to earlier! bleeping leecher! Bitter truth is, the girl does not love him! Take it or take it! (yea!)

She is a money hungry gold digging ogbanje. But on a serious note, stingy guys are unattractive. I do not like them either. I have my own money and do not need a man to take care of my financial needs, however if a Man is going to do something, he should do it properly or do not bother at all.

oxygen47: All that maintenance U see on dat beautiful lady cost money
So, U cant expect to get d benefits of a couple and not complement wats on ground
Ur function around a woman is not to deplete her resources
U must bring something to the table 4 all to see
Or else, that rich guy go intimidate U die

If U cant afford it now,
WAIT TILL U GET MARRIED


So as to maintain ur pride


PROBLEM SOLVED

ur the type of woman that ask her bf to give her money for pad. u must be a parasite

Subom1: She is a money hungry gold digging ogbanje. But on a serious note, stingy guys are unattractive. I do not like them either. I have my own money and do not need a man to take care of my financial needs, however if a Man is going to do something, he should do it properly or do not bother at all.

I'm not also saying that guys should not spend on their babes. I don't condone it in my buddies too. Women should be pampered (if her head straight ni o!) and spending on 'em is part of the methods. But it doesn't imply that ladies should see guys as their breadwinners! They should effin get a life!