Preceedo: Don't just say NONSENSE, listen to my reasons.

She is sending signals which I'm catching but pretending to be oblivious of them.

We are only classmates(i'm a year older). When she felt I was not catching those signals, she deliberately started a very minor quarell and came to apologize the next day and thus became a FRIEND. Now, she employs every opportunity to touch me or hold my gaze. When we sit beside each other and we seldom do, she uses her arm to touch mine slightly and she looks away or pretend to be engrossed with her books.
Infact, a friend had noticed it and told me about it but I pretende that was the first time of hearing it.

I know many are actually wondering what I'm waiting for.
THEY ARE:-
1. She is far richer than me (her father is rich)

2. She is too beautiful(seriously), I believe she would always see a better guy.

3. I don't wan't to lose her, but I'm not sure coz of reason above (no 2)

4. She may see me as weak If I fall for her signals.

5. She believes I'm perfect. The more she gets closer, the more of my flaw she sees and I , thus, lose my mystification. FAMILIARITY BREEDS CONTEMPT"

===> all the above reasons would have been STUPID if not that I want to MARRY her and like I said earlier don't wan't to lose her. After graduation I would have to settle down which may take years BUT her, she's rich and what's more too beautiful and I believe there would be an already established man who would be ready to marry her immediately. I LOVE HER.

If you were in my shoe, how would you react to her signals. Pls mature advices.
Please, drop a comment. This is urgent and serious. Whatever the advice I get here is what I will act on.

DonCrust:

Are you poor? If you think you can't handle the fact that she's from a rich family, forget about her or go rob a bank.



You are suffering from inferiority complex and that is not good for you. For her to be hanging out with you is enough a fact to tell you that she found everything she wants in a man in you.



If you don't want to loose her, you better act fast and stop being childish.





There's a saying that 'the devil you know is better than the angel you don't.' Being yourself around her is good. No man is perfect, if she's of the opinion that you're perfect, show her the real you and Never for once pretend to be what you're not around her.

Yes I need to say this. M.K.O Abiola had the same experience with his first wife (Late Simbiat Abiola) because her parents were rich and she was also beautiful. But in the end, he won her heart just by being himself. Guy no dull yourself Ooo!

~My Kobo~

chidyhels: See hw low self exteem kills people and their drmz.

You deserve the best tins of this life,no matter the circumstances surrounding u now.
You have good intentions for her so i dnt see why u arent giving it a shot.
Who doesn't have flaws?
Go 4 it jor and enjoy it while it last.

Preceedo:
I think its more of over-protection than low-self esteem. What do you think?

Preceedo: Don't just say NONSENSE, listen to my reasons.

She is sending signals which I'm catching but pretending to be oblivious of them.

We are only classmates(i'm a year older). When she felt I was not catching those signals, she deliberately started a very minor quarell and came to apologize the next day and thus became a FRIEND. Now, she employs every opportunity to touch me or hold my gaze. When we sit beside each other and we seldom do, she uses her arm to touch mine slightly and she looks away or pretend to be engrossed with her books.
Infact, a friend had noticed it and told me about it but I pretende that was the first time of hearing it.

I know many are actually wondering what I'm waiting for.
THEY ARE:-
1. She is far richer than me (her father is rich)

2. She is too beautiful(seriously), I believe she would always see a better guy.

3. I don't wan't to lose her, but I'm not sure coz of reason above (no 2)

4. She may see me as weak If I fall for her signals.

5. She believes I'm perfect. The more she gets closer, the more of my flaw she sees and I , thus, lose my mystification. FAMILIARITY BREEDS CONTEMPT"

===> all the above reasons would have been STUPID if not that I want to MARRY her and like I said earlier don't wan't to lose her. After graduation I would have to settle down which may take years BUT her, she's rich and what's more too beautiful and I believe there would be an already established man who would be ready to marry her immediately. I LOVE HER.

If you were in my shoe, how would you react to her signals. Pls mature advices.
Please, drop a comment. This is urgent and serious. Whatever the advice I get here is what I will act on.

drnoel: Mr. Lover man, u are not weak. I really dont know what u are......
That said, I just have 2 things 2 conclude. U can keep ur mystery but u would most likely loose the girl or u play ur game and end up dating. Remember, that if a girl likes u 50% of the job is done. U only need 2 do the remaining 50 %. I'll tell ur a secret. In my younger days, I was running after girls but they kept dishing me. Whn I go older and realised my mistakes I stopped. When I stopped, I realised girls where shiking themselves 4 me. I neva had 2 do nothing, I still got most of the pretty ones. Ur charisma matters, ur flow ur swag, they all matter. And girls have invisible radar they used 2 detect things like thàt 4rm far. Once a lady start dying 4 u, its all in ur hands. U just need 2 play ur game well without wasting time or else u will be moved 2 friends zone. Ma guy stop playing chicken, man up and sweep that lady off her feet if u dont want a faster guy 2 do it.

Uyi Iredia:

Take the bull by the horns and tell her about it.

iamteaser: React by making up another cool story

Strauskhan1: This film topic is very interesting. Part 2 is underway I presume?

Preceedo:

Do you think everyone lies like you. THIS IS TRUE AND I MEAN THE WHOLE OF IT.

Preceedo:

Do you think everyone lies like you. THIS IS TRUE AND I MEAN THE WHOLE OF IT.

Imike: send d gal no sharp sharp. no dull moment send d gal no sharp sharp. no dull moment

Strauskhan1: Conscience it troubling you!!! You and I glaringly know ur lieing!