what are some of the things to look out for before you say i do as a lady or as a guy before marriage

could u be more explanatory

simply put, before saying i do what must you look out for in a guy or lady?

compatibility

just that?
haven't noticed that you can almost be compatible with anyone you want

bartigo:

just that?
haven't noticed that you can almost be compatible with anyone you want

false,compatibility goes hand in hand wt understanding and trust,its a single word for them

The most important thing to look out for is sincerity. Like some1 said, you can be compatible with anybody you want to be compatible with; afterall compatibility is all about endurance and understanding.

Sincerity is a rare trait. I’ll stick with a guy who tells me the truth

Credit check and background check. Dam if i want someone with bad credit and a criminal record.

Ujujoan:

The most important thing to look out for is sincerity. Like someone said, you can be compatible with anybody you want to be compatible with; afterall compatibility is all about endurance and understanding.

Sincerity is a rare trait. I’ll stick with a guy who tells me the truth

nope u can't be compatible wt anybody ,no matter how much u try to pretend,the lies and pretences will be obvious,before a person is sincere to u,u both have to be compatible hence that gives him d chance to show his sincerity,but if u both r not compatible where and hw will he show u that hes sincere

compatibility goes a long way ,and hence brings out d sincerity in someone

Everytin about d person

and mostly hw the person treat other not urself co u ll get d same treatment if d love he/she profess has wean

Seriously, I don't know yet.

But when I find out, I'll come back and post it

- size of his wallet
- kinda house he owns
- kinda cars / how many cars he has
- if he's a mama's boy - - - - no no no no area
- blood group / Gynotype

bartigo:

what are some of the things to look out for before you say i do as a lady or as a guy before marriage

big breast

big yansh

huge appetite for sex

family background!

CARUSO:

big breast

big yansh

huge appetite for sex

LOL

@ topic, personality

StephenP, where have you been?
You're needed in the "Role Play" na.

@post
Am thinking that Personality, Family Background, & Responsibility plays a huge role.

Ruby_Pearl:

StephenP, where have you been?
You're needed in the "Role Play" na.

ROFLMAO!!!

Stephen, modify that.

Damn, you really got it bad. By the way, I don't know Rebellious has gone to.

Get online. Dont want to go offtopic

lucabrasi:

family background!

lucabrasi:

family background!

expantiate

personality, family - a woman raised in a stable, loving family is easier to live with.

what about spiriruality, you dont want to marry sm1 who has a totally different belief system u know

Ruby_Pearl:

Seriously, I don't know yet.

But when I find out, I'll come back and post it

nothing riles me more than a stupid username on nairaland!

Saying I DO! is a very sensitive issue so, alot of things have to be put in place first.
Compactibility,Religion,family,tribe and a whole lot more are really important to run a peaceful home.

her bank account (she gat to be financially stable)
family background, (if there've been cases of epilepsy,madness or low fertility)
if her father is dead (i no get money to bury any poor old man)
how many siblings she has (cant stand pestering in- laws)

bennygee:

her bank account (she got to be financially stable)
family background, (if there've been cases of epilepsy,madness or low fertility)
if her father is dead (i no get money to bury any poor old man)how many siblings she has (can't stand pestering in- laws)

hmmmmm

laughing at all the posts here

AEjiro:

Everytin about d person

and mostly hw the person treat other not urself co u ll get d same treatment if d love he/she profess has wean

I luv this! An experience person once told me that among the thins one shud look up is how ur patner treats other people, especially the aged, the downtrodden. is he compasionate to peoples irespective of race or background?

bennygee:

family background, (if there've been cases of madness)
if her father is dead (i no get money to bury any poor old man)
how many siblings she has (cant stand pestering in- laws)

Lmbo!


Topic - I think personality will be my major concern b'cos, nobody will like to be someone that he or she will not be happy with.

Just like what happened to me and, let me call her my x-gf now (even if she stil calls me til date).
I'v been hearin some kinda dirty things about her but do to the love and trust that I had for her, I decided not to allow that bother me (believeing she's stil what she was) until a close friend of mine traveled back home and told me that I should forget about the girl, that, she do come and visit someone close to his house but she never knew he always sees her (the guy even called me yesterday and told me the same thing)!

So, personality sums it all for "ME" (I don't know about you).