Me and my loving, caring, beautiful and generous fiancee have decided to end the long time relationship because of our genotype incompatibility. Although, it hurts to say goodbye to a lady who is the dream of every man to have as a wife; but I just have to let go.
We found out that we are both AS, and we all know the implication of this. We would not want to take any risk in the name of love. We just have to end the relationship peacfully. Oh! This is very painful. Can I ever meet someone like her again? If I have the power to change this, I would have done that without hesitation. But God have reason(s) for everything that He does.

hummmmmmm this is serious oh, God will help us all sorry about that dear

Sorry my bro

@op sorry,... a friend of mine also lost a relatnship of 2 yrs to this same issue.....pls o, to the guys wen asking d gal out, asking after her genotype shud b one of questns u shud ask her wen gettn to knw each other more to avoid all dis hrt brks (and dis applies to d gals too)

OP, its a hard decision to make yes, but its for the greater good.

its lovely to see a couple who think with their brain instead of their so called hearts... U've made d best decision, may God bring someone even better to both your ways soon...

Ladybianca: @op sorry,... a friend of mine also lost a relatnship of 2 yrs to this same issue.....pls o, to the guys wen asking d gal out, asking after her genotype shud b one of questns u shud ask her wen gettn to knw each other more to avoid all dis hrt brks (and dis applies to d gals too)

I tried to find out about her genotype after few weeks of meeting but she told me that the one she did when she was in the school proved AA. But when she did another one at a recognized hospital it revealed that she is AS.

@ OP

There is a test you can run to determine the genotype of a baby while still in the womb. I don't know the name of the test, but it doesn't seem to be so popular. I have a friend who is AS and got married to her AS boyfriend. When she took in they ran the test and when the baby's genotype was discovered to be SS they did a blood transfussion. The whole process is deathly expensive and normally I would just advise AS couples to path ways. I just dropped this so people know there is still an option and decide what they want to do.

My friend and her baby are healthy by the way

Godmother: @ OP

There is a test you can run to determine the genotype of a baby while still in the womb. I don't know the name of the test, but it doesn't seem to be so popular. I have a friend who is AS and got married to her AS boyfriend. When she took in they ran the test and when the baby's genotype was discovered to be SS they did a blood transfussion. The whole process is deathly expensive and normally I would just advise AS couples to path ways. I just dropped this so people know there is still an option and decide what they want to do.

My friend and her baby are healthy by the way

What if the baby turns out to be SS? Does that mean abortion?
Op you did the right thing. It is definitely well.

^^ You do a blood transfusion. Its what my friend did cos her baby was SS. But the process is really expensive. I don't know if this technique is in Nigeria sha cos she's in the US

@op!Take heart!it is jst beta this way.tho it hurts.had fellow who had a girl child (ss)it was no joke!jst take heart

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You took the decision. Move on. You live to love , and not the other way round.

Meanwhile, an advise to you all out there. Once you start liking that guy/girl, it wouldn't hurt to ask about their genotype before feelings starts to get serious. We will have one less person to blame God for consequences.

Op you've made the difficult right decision.. May you find the bone of your bone and the flesh of your flesh

Godmother: ^^ You do a blood transfusion. Its what my friend did cos her baby was SS. But the process is really expensive. I don't know if this technique is in Nigeria sha cos she's in the US

Did you mean to say allogeneic haemopoietic bone marrow transplant? It's curative but the risks associated with the procedure are quite enormous. Not to talk of the cost.

Optimal approach to these things is not to get involved from the onset. No one should bring a child into this world to suffer.

[quote
author=Timijo]I tried to find out about her genotype after few weeks of
meeting but she told me that the one she did when she was in the school
proved AA. But when she did another one at a recognized hospital it
revealed that she is AS. [/quote]



too bad, sorry dear........I'm an AS too, xo i make sure i dnt go into a serious relationship with anyone who is like me (AS)

*sobs*op,take heart oo*crying*i hope u find sum1 lyk ha....so painful

I appreciated everyone who has comforted me, may the good Lord give u ur heart desire.

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well..im a medical laboratory scientist...according to my practise...we can always advise...we do not decide for couples concerning genotyp incompatibility. Consequently, we have had couples who still went ahead and thank God...they still had normal children without d genetic disease. U can have all children to be AA,AS, or even SS. Prenatal diagnosis is also an option to find out d foetal genotype using d foetal red cells. So...it is your choice. Good day...www.wazobiablog.com

There re 3 questions I never fail to ask any lady I am getting close to.
1.....whats your name?
2.....where re you from
3.....whats your genotype
But it isnt fair why does AS get one way ticket but AA gets an additional return ticket.

Timijo: I tried to find out about her genotype after few weeks of meeting but she told me that the one she did when she was in the school proved AA. But when she did another one at a recognized hospital it revealed that she is AS.

Have her take a third test. Hospitals can get it wrong too.

ogugua88:

Have her take a third test. Hospitals can get it wrong too.

Ogugua any need opening nursing n healing wounds?
Dude u made d hardest but best decision. Shows u love her n ur unborn kids enough not to put dem thru dat challenge in future.

Cold faya: Ogugua any need opening nursing n healing wounds?
Dude u made d hardest but best decision. Shows u love her n ur unborn kids enough not to put dem thru dat challenge in future.

One test shows AA and another shows AS. Personally, I'd take a third to be sure.

Eya thats the best decision. still remain good friends

ogugua88:

One test shows AA and another shows AS. Personally, I'd take a third to be sure.

Well u v a good point there tho.

OP, pele. I was once in your shoes sometimes ago, so I understand how it feels. Just TAKE TIME TO HEAL!

Good decisions! May d good Lord bless both of u n grant u life companions.

Eze Promoe: Wow.
Dumbfounded.
Maybe what should be done is, men falling in love with a ladies, and then asking for their genotypes alongside their numbers and addresses

Very important. .....would try it someday.....nne wats your genotype? .....bet she ll assume that I am a vampire on a scavenger hunt.