Been having this feeling for a wyl nd tried solving it on my own but fall on my face every time. The tin is, my gf nd i often quarel (in fairness, i'm d one dt gets mad first), bt anytym dis happens, i feel bad nd moody. During dis period i do a lil spying on her to c wt she's up to. I often wnt to pologize bt ego wnt let me. V decided to seek advice from u - ma fellow NLanders.

Bro av been there man, and behaving like this does not solve any problem but rather may even make the girl hate you the more rather you should concentrate on becoming a better person and try finding out what really makes you angry with her, spying on her will only worsen things and make you get all sought of negative feelings and taught rolling through your heads, this on the long run will affecct your relationship with..so think about it carefully.

There could be no advice greater than the one you give to yourself. Use your head

don't let ur ego ruin ur relationship. it ain't worth it.

tnx guys.... Getting to work then tnx guys.... Getting to work then

When you say 'I am Sorry', attach a big Smile.
It works like magic.

Lovetinz: When you say 'I am Sorry', attach a big Smile.
It works like magic.

noted

You re not insecure, immature, or silly. Just Work on ur ego, been dere b4.

Lovetinz: When you say 'I am Sorry', attach a big Smile.
It works like magic.

Gbam! That's it! It doesn't take anything away from you. It doesn't make you inferior, buh only makes you a better person to yourself and to those around you. Moreso, do you have to die twice to know that humans ain't Mario? Something is wrong if you guys always quarrel, and something must equally be done to avert such quarrels in the future. One big thing that I feel is lacking of your relationship is understanding. If there is understanding, there will be less quarrel. Its inevitable to have a healthy and true relationship without having issues from time to time, buh you should be mindful of what brings about such misunderstanding and try to avoid them the best possible way subsequently.

As for your ego, drop it please because it ain't gonna help you. Like the above poster said; I AM SORRY with a smile could do the magic and you wouldn't have to be depressed or moody. To tell someone you are sorry when you actually are is never a weakness, buh a strength!

You have lots of work to do, I'd rather you get started asap...

You are Insecure, Immature and very silly.
But you have one redeeming factor . You have come to realise that you need to grow up .
Big boys don't waste time checking what their gf is up to , if u don't like anything u see or hear , ask her , if she doesn't give u a good answer , find out on ur own and make ur decision .
When u r angry , don't talk . Part of growing up is to keep ur head cool when others are losing theirs and saying 'I'm sorry' to save the situation .

ITbomb: But you have one redeeming factor . You have come to realise that you need to grow up .

well, dts comforting

dmcdad:
One big thing that I feel is lacking of your relationship is understanding.
You have lots of work to do, I'd rather you get started asap...

u r soooo on point, figured it out nd started work already.... Tnx for d words bosses.

taiwoliu: u r soooo on point, figured it out nd started work already.... Tnx for d words bosses.

Good...

naicae: Bro av been there man, and behaving like this does not solve any problem but rather may even make the girl hate you the more rather you should concentrate on becoming a better person and try finding out what really makes you angry with her, spying on her will only worsen things and make you get all sought of negative feelings and taught rolling through your heads, this on the long run will affecct your relationship with..so think about it carefully.

dmcdad:
Gbam! That's it! It doesn't take anything away from you. It doesn't make you inferior, buh only makes you a better person to yourself and to those around you. Moreso, do you have to die twice to know that humans ain't Mario? Something is wrong if you guys always quarrel, and something must equally be done to avert such quarrels in the future. One big thing that I feel is lacking of your relationship is understanding. If there is understanding, there will be less quarrel. Its inevitable to have a healthy and true relationship without having issues from time to time, buh you should be mindful of what brings about such misunderstanding and try to avoid them the best possible way subsequently.

As for your ego, drop it please because it ain't gonna help you. Like the above poster said; I AM SORRY with a smile could do the magic and you wouldn't have to be depressed or moody. To tell someone you are sorry when you actually are is never a weakness, buh a strength!

You have lots of work to do, I'd rather you get started asap...

ITbomb: You are Insecure, Immature and very silly.
But you have one redeeming factor . You have come to realise that you need to grow up .
Big boys don't waste time checking what their gf is up to , if u don't like anything u see or hear , ask her , if she doesn't give u a good answer , find out on ur own and make ur decision .
When u r angry , don't talk . Part of growing up is to keep ur head cool when others are losing theirs and saying 'I'm sorry' to save the situation .

Nothing left to be said.