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I Have A New Boyfriend :D But One Problem by Mindependent(f): 11:35pm On Nov 14, 2013
Hi guys!!!
I know I haven't posted for a while as often as I used to but I have a good reason grin

I just bagged myself the hottest most amazing man ever wink

Anyway the problem is that he is in another city and I was wondering if any of you that have been in long distance relationships or have experience with such could give me some useful advice.

I don't want the fire to burn out tongue
Thanks kiss
Re: I Have A New Boyfriend :D But One Problem by Nobody: 11:38pm On Nov 14, 2013
Mindependent: Hi guys!!!
I know I haven't posted for a while as often as I used to but I have a good reason grin

I just bagged myself the hottest most amazing man ever wink

Anyway the problem is that he is in another city and I was wondering if any of you that have been in long distance relationships or have experience with such could give me some useful advice.

I don't want the fire to burn out tongue
Thanks kiss
ok i'll think about it
#udeke
Re: I Have A New Boyfriend :D But One Problem by adezjamz(m): 11:38pm On Nov 14, 2013
Mindependent: Hi guys!!!
I know I haven't posted for a while as often as I used to but I have a good reason grin

I just bagged myself the hottest most amazing man ever wink

Anyway the problem is that he is in another city and I was wondering if any of you that have been in long distance relationships or have experience with such could give me some useful advice.

I don't want the fire to burn out tongue
Thanks kiss
communication, I'll say a crucial tool now

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Re: I Have A New Boyfriend :D But One Problem by boxer022(m): 12:01am On Nov 15, 2013
Congratulations on meeting your new love. About what you are asking for, I will advice that if you two really love each other, there should steady communication between the two of you so that you will not feel the distance. Any of you that is chanced should endeavor to travel the distance to see your love. Another thing is try to build trust in this your new relationship and I assure you the flame of love will never go off. Hope I helped? smiley smiley smiley smiley cool cool cool
Re: I Have A New Boyfriend :D But One Problem by laivwire(m): 12:10am On Nov 15, 2013
I'm in one currently. Its not easy but communication is key. We talk about 20mins every day but the effort is balanced on both sides. Trust is very important and openess. Also don't assume anything but ask questions when neccessary otherwise yu'ld be playing with high bp. Try and vist like at least evry 2 months. It helps. Give a physical gift also (my gf gave me a silver bracelet) every time its used, her thoughts always fills my mind. Ok I'll rest my case here. Wish you luck

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Re: I Have A New Boyfriend :D But One Problem by Xaviers(m): 12:46am On Nov 15, 2013
damn! i hate long distance relationship!!

how do people cope? undecided
Re: I Have A New Boyfriend :D But One Problem by lirusehn(m): 1:49am On Nov 15, 2013
mtchew
Re: I Have A New Boyfriend :D But One Problem by Nobody: 2:14am On Nov 15, 2013
Do not reveal urself tto himm yet! Lest he run n like tthe former one...


I pray to find some1 I'll eventually love(I have never)!!! Its a big issue 4me, n d ladies I keep on meeting re not helping matters in anyway, they keep on meking me see ladies as just sextools... God help dem
Re: I Have A New Boyfriend :D But One Problem by pasqal09: 6:13am On Nov 15, 2013
Long distance relationships don't exist! Period!! angry

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Re: I Have A New Boyfriend :D But One Problem by stunningjudy(f): 6:33am On Nov 15, 2013
pasqal09: Long distance relationships don't exist! Period!! angry
they exist wen the persons involved r committed. I evn believe some long distance relationships r better than avn a 'close non-existing' relationship.
Re: I Have A New Boyfriend :D But One Problem by wasak(m): 6:33am On Nov 15, 2013
pasqal09: Long distance relationships don't exist! Period!! angry
I've been in 1 for. almost 3 years now!
Re: I Have A New Boyfriend :D But One Problem by iyobs7(f): 6:33am On Nov 15, 2013
This advice is critically needed because I am into one right now. I am in India studying and she is in Nigeria. The love is very strong because I have known and asked her out for more than six years and she is my bestest best friend before she said yes Nov 9. I will be here for 3years and although the communication is good for noe but I fear for the worst. What must be done to keep the flame up? Am glad our parents are aware of the relationship can that hold the it up? Advice seriously needed
Re: I Have A New Boyfriend :D But One Problem by pasqal09: 6:45am On Nov 15, 2013
stunningjudy:
they exist wen the persons involved r committed. I evn believe some long distance relationships r better than avn a 'close non-existing' relationship.
Have u ever been in 1?

wasak:
I've been in 1 for. almost 3 years now!
And is this ur 3 year long distance relationship a happy one?
Re: I Have A New Boyfriend :D But One Problem by Danielle22(f): 6:59am On Nov 15, 2013
Long distance is a gud tinz, if u r redi 2 balance it wif trust n communication.........i say dis cos im in one rite nw tho we av our ups n down but we stil cum out of it biger n beta.........xo if u r comfortable go 4 it.
Re: I Have A New Boyfriend :D But One Problem by Nobody: 7:00am On Nov 15, 2013
Hmm..just passing by
Re: I Have A New Boyfriend :D But One Problem by pasqal09: 7:02am On Nov 15, 2013
Danielle22: Long distance is a gud tinz, if u r redi 2 balance it wif trust n communication.........i say dis cos im in one rite nw tho we av our ups n down but we stil cum out of it biger n beta.........xo if u r comfortable go 4 it.
Lady, out of sight is out of mind
Re: I Have A New Boyfriend :D But One Problem by stunningjudy(f): 7:09am On Nov 15, 2013
[quote author=pasqal09]
Have u ever been in 1?

yeah currently in 1 n its cool
Re: I Have A New Boyfriend :D But One Problem by wasak(m): 7:12am On Nov 15, 2013
pasqal09:
Have u ever been in 1?


And is this ur 3 year long distance relationship a happy one?

if it's not a. happy one I wouldn't have been proud of mentioning it here!
Re: I Have A New Boyfriend :D But One Problem by pasqal09: 7:14am On Nov 15, 2013
Distance has always been a major reason for the collapse of relationships. There have been many testominies to it here on NL, I've had a horrible experience myself so I wouldn't advice anyone to go into one.
Re: I Have A New Boyfriend :D But One Problem by pasqal09: 7:15am On Nov 15, 2013
wasak:

if it's not a. happy one I wouldn't have been proud of mentioning it here!

Yeah, u are happy but is she happy?
Re: I Have A New Boyfriend :D But One Problem by aariwa(m): 7:26am On Nov 15, 2013
The beautiful and alluringly sexy Rokiatu can give you a sound advice on long distance relationships.i think she has experienced one LOL
Re: I Have A New Boyfriend :D But One Problem by tellwisdom: 7:37am On Nov 15, 2013
Mindependent: Hi guys!!!
I know I haven't posted for a while as often as I used to but I have a good reason grin

I just bagged myself the hottest most amazing man ever wink

Anyway the problem is that he is in another city and I was wondering if any of you that have been in long distance relationships or have experience with such could give me some useful advice.

I don't want the fire to burn out tongue
Thanks kiss

Re: I Have A New Boyfriend :D But One Problem by haitto99(m): 8:45am On Nov 15, 2013
am in ilorin, my gf is at port harcourt....and wv been dating for five yrs, even with dat d love is so strong........it can work out
Re: I Have A New Boyfriend :D But One Problem by slurfizzi: 9:26am On Nov 15, 2013
Long distance relationships r never real..some lasts a year or more but in reality it isn't the relationship that's lasting..its just that u guys r communicating and seeing no reason to quarrel. I really wonder why people say I've not seen my bf for 3yrs and u still see him as ur bf..abeg lets be realistic

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Re: I Have A New Boyfriend :D But One Problem by pasqal09: 9:47am On Nov 15, 2013
slurfizzi: Long distance relationships r never real..some lasts a year or more but in reality it isn't the relationship that's lasting..its just that u guys r communicating and seeing no reason to quarrel. I really wonder why people say I've not seen my bf for 3yrs and u still see him as ur bf..abeg lets be realistic
Abeg help me tell them
Re: I Have A New Boyfriend :D But One Problem by banjicom(m): 9:48am On Nov 15, 2013
check out this blog about what you can do to keep your long distance relationship
http://allaboutlongrelationship..com/
Re: I Have A New Boyfriend :D But One Problem by Danielle22(f): 12:25pm On Nov 15, 2013
pasqal09:
Lady, out of sight is out of mind
I disagree
Re: I Have A New Boyfriend :D But One Problem by pasqal09: 12:56pm On Nov 15, 2013
Danielle22:
I disagree
I didn't say it for u to agree
Re: I Have A New Boyfriend :D But One Problem by Danielle22(f): 2:56pm On Nov 15, 2013
pasqal09:
I didn't say it for u to agree
Ok nw we r cleared
Re: I Have A New Boyfriend :D But One Problem by Nobody: 3:23pm On Nov 15, 2013
wasak:
I've been in 1 for. almost 3 years now!
cheesy

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Re: I Have A New Boyfriend :D But One Problem by ogeoflyf(f): 3:36pm On Nov 15, 2013
[quote author=tellwisdom][/quote]


One of the times wen I type lmao!! and m actually lmfao!! grin grin
Re: I Have A New Boyfriend :D But One Problem by wazobiaforu(m): 4:16pm On Nov 15, 2013
Long distatnce relationship is real and promising , just that there are some major things that is needed to do to keep it in form

* discuss on how long this will be before you will finally be together and where you are to settle down, when there is a known time frame then endurance will be at check

* if you live within a country, plan on your visitation packaging with suprises, it maybe every two weeks, monthly and make sure you are together witnin 3 months at most

* never make a wrong conclusion because he/she called in a noisy environment or you heard a voice under, build a trust

* media/internet is one of the strong way to keep a relationship in form, make use of it, its engaging and loving to use your partner as your profile and display pictures and vice versa.

* try to talk every morning and night, you can pray together and have time for gisting even gossiping make a distance relationship a sweet one ( eg, I can't wait to meet your noisy neighbour )

* call others family often just for greeting and that will make them also support their child waiting for her partner

Lastly be sincere with one another .

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