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Is This Love Or Obsession? by Yemlizzy(f): 5:09pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
I really need to be enlightened as iam so confused.Been going out with this guy ever since ASUU strike began and even at the earliest stage of our been together he always reminds me that i look so much like his late mom but suprisingly seeing her pictures i see no clearcut resemblance between us and often wonder why he says so and knowing he loved his mother could not make me dissuade such thoughts from his mind as i know whats it like to lose ones mom.What iam so scared of is the fact that whenever he expresses his love for me what follows suit is to tell me that iam just like his mother in all ways.....could this love or obsession? |
Re: Is This Love Or Obsession? by Kween1: 5:13pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
Reject it o cos u can't possibly resemble a dead and gone person 4 wot? not love abeg. |
Re: Is This Love Or Obsession? by Lovetinz(m): 5:45pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
Please take care of that kid. |
Re: Is This Love Or Obsession? by zeb04(f): 5:46pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
I dnt see any wrong oh,mayb he jst sees his mom in u probably in character nd oda stuff. Afta al he has nt anytin harmful 2 u 3 Likes |
Re: Is This Love Or Obsession? by greedie1(f): 5:55pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
its not obsession, you possess good qualities just lyk his late mum. Do u know what it means for me to tell a guy that he reminds me of my DAD? its a compliment, be happy 3 Likes |
Re: Is This Love Or Obsession? by Nobody: 5:57pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
Call it whatever you like, except love. |
Re: Is This Love Or Obsession? by vizkiz: 6:11pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
Hv u tot of hw many qurls he tld dt same statement badt quys sha...come 2 tink of it sef, wuh wuld happen when ASUU calls off n d ''mumie boy'' qoes back 2 school? i quess u quys r nt in same school riqht? N m also quessinq he's qat oda qurls there dt are his mum's ''look alike'' |
Re: Is This Love Or Obsession? by Olugbenger(m): 9:51pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
Op, you need advice. |
Re: Is This Love Or Obsession? by Nobody: 10:21pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
U remind him of his mother and he's still dating you? That's disgusting! |
Re: Is This Love Or Obsession? by baralatie(m): 3:52am On Nov 16, 2013 |
Qhal: U remind him of his mother and he's still dating you?tank u 4 dat answer! |
Re: Is This Love Or Obsession? by Dygeasy(m): 9:27am On Nov 16, 2013 |
Qhal: U remind him of his mother and he's still dating you?Don't Be Dumb Haba! 1 Like |
Re: Is This Love Or Obsession? by Dygeasy(m): 9:28am On Nov 16, 2013 |
vizkiz: Hv u tot of hw many qurls he tld dt same statement badt quys sha...come 2 tink of it sef, wuh wuld happen when ASUU calls off n d ''mumie boy'' qoes back 2 school? i quess u quys r nt in same school riqht? N m also quessinq he's qat oda qurls there dt are his mum's ''look alike''Face The Issue At Hand Abeg |
Re: Is This Love Or Obsession? by vizkiz: 11:51am On Nov 16, 2013 |
Dygeasy: Face The Issue At Hand Abeg so which 1 was ah facinq D 1 in ur azz |
Re: Is This Love Or Obsession? by Nobody: 2:44pm On Nov 16, 2013 |
Dygeasy: Don't Be Dumb Haba!What's dumb abt that? |
Re: Is This Love Or Obsession? by buoye1(m): 10:52pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
Lovetinz: Please take care of that kid.see old man!what's wrong abt wat d guy said? |
Re: Is This Love Or Obsession? by buoye1(m): 10:52pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
zeb04: I dnt see any wrong oh,mayb he jst sees his mom in u probably in character nd oda stuff. Afta al he has nt anytin harmful 2 uthat is it. |
Re: Is This Love Or Obsession? by buoye1(m): 10:53pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
gree-die:Thank U |
Re: Is This Love Or Obsession? by buoye1(m): 10:55pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
vizkiz:Grow up |
Re: Is This Love Or Obsession? by buoye1(m): 10:58pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
I think the guy is talking about your inner beauty"ewa inu" since you don't resemble his mum......Talking about d gud character u posses! |
Re: Is This Love Or Obsession? by linpok: 1:39pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
Looking at it from a different angle,it could be that: 1»»the guy must have been so attached to his late mum,and may have seen some traits of his late mum in you. OR 2»»its one of those "one liners" some guys use to enter into the promise land. #IMO. 1 Like |
Re: Is This Love Or Obsession? by Yemlizzy(f): 5:42pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
linpok: Looking at it from a different angle,it could be that:Lol your number two sounds so unlike it.Funny you. |
Re: Is This Love Or Obsession? by linpok: 6:47pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
Yemlizzy: U hav to shine ur eyes ni o!!! |
Re: Is This Love Or Obsession? by Yemlizzy(f): 8:40pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
linpok:What if i tell you that i shine my eyes wella and that makes it as big as Segun Arinze's own.....hahaha |
Re: Is This Love Or Obsession? by linpok: 5:17am On Nov 25, 2013 |
Yemlizzy: Lmao! Even if ur eyes big pass Segun's own *10...it takes a "second" fr anitin to hapn,hope u knw sha |
Re: Is This Love Or Obsession? by Yemlizzy(f): 9:11am On Nov 25, 2013 |
[quote author=linpok] Lmao! Even if ur eyes big pass Segun's own *10...it takes a "second" fr anitin to hapn,hope u knw sha[/quote Lol u sef enh |
Re: Is This Love Or Obsession? by linpok: 11:00am On Nov 25, 2013 |
[quote author=Yemlizzy][/quote] Lol! Abi d guy don even enta d promised land tey tey sef |
Re: Is This Love Or Obsession? by ivyy(f): 11:22am On Nov 25, 2013 |
Olugbenger: Op, you need advice. |
Re: Is This Love Or Obsession? by HisRib(f): 11:32am On Nov 25, 2013 |
sexkillz: Call it whatever you like, except love. Why can't it be love? He sees his late mother's qualities in her and that makes him love her even more. What is wrong with that? |
Re: Is This Love Or Obsession? by UjSizzle(f): 11:57am On Nov 25, 2013 |
I'm not even sure what this means. Personally i have a problem with people comparing me to someone else especially their mother, but I guess that's a compliment for some guys--especially those who were attached to their mum. It would probably mean you possess some qualities he saw/sees in his mother and loves you for it. OR the less pleasant interpretation could be that he has mummy issues and has found someone else(YOU) to leech on . In this case, i'll you to take your bags and pointy shoes and run. But his bringing up his mother everytime he tells you he loves you just doesn't sound right to me In fact it sounds everything but ok. |
Re: Is This Love Or Obsession? by Mynd44: 12:03pm On Nov 25, 2013 |
That's weird. It is not love but I don't know what it is |
Re: Is This Love Or Obsession? by Olugbenger(m): 12:27pm On Nov 25, 2013 |
sexkillz: Call it whatever you like, except love. Mynd_44: That's weird. It is not love but I don't know what it is just imagine! 4 Likes |
Re: Is This Love Or Obsession? by Olugbenger(m): 12:27pm On Nov 25, 2013 |
ivyy: |
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