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8 Ways On How To Have An Exclusive,mature,(and Healthy) Relationship by priscaoge(f): 11:35pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
Happiness in a relationship is as a result of constant self- improvement between lovers. Do you want to have a long-term relationship, built on the ground of happiness and intense exclusivity? Read on for the best of satisfaction... 1. The need of togetherness. You need to have a good time together. You need each other's company. Affection is only derived through togetherness. Being around each other improves the bond and seriousness in your relationship. You know each other's likes and dislikes faster, which allow the both of you to decide a future. 2. Being apart. While togetherness is the first and most important element in a relationship, it doesn't call for dependency and lack of self-balance. Relationships are important part of life but you need to patronize your career and other things. You need to understand the time to work and the time to love. One secret of a happy long-lasting relationship is time-balancing. Balance your commitment between your friends, families, job, hobbies, etc. 3. Communication matters. A relationship that doesn't communicate, doesn't cultivate. Good communication is very essential in creating a healthy, exclusive and exciting relationship. Just talk about anything. Ask anything, and say anything. You should be comfortable and fearless about talking about anything with your partner, or you're going to end up frustrated in dissatisfaction . 4. Creating trust. Trust is derived through constant transparency and communication. When trust collapse, jealousy sets in, which always brings about infidelity. Be transparent to gain trust. Forgive and rebuild your relationship, instead of dwelling in the faults of your partner. It's only when you forgive freely, do you give the chance for your partner to become a better person. 5. Support your partner. Do not always settle on the receiving side, be a giver of 'support', emotionally and physically. Every relationship has it's ups and downs, but the only thing that makes a happy ending is when the two hold on to each other in truth and harmony during depressive moments. 6. Honesty and truthfulness. Lies and deceit, regardless how professionally fabricated, always get exposed, leading to a conflicting and heartbreaking pressures. You suppose to have a sweetheart as a partner; why plan a deceit? Be truthful, even when you're not too right. 7. Self-respect. Everyone deserves and desires some respect in a relationship, but no respect shall be rendered to him who lacks self-respect. You must make yourself worthy of respect before you will be respected. You control how someone treats you by controlling yourself. 8. Do not try to change people. You cannot change people. The only thing that men can do to men is to influence them to improve. For when improvement becomes significant, we call it change. Improvement is gradual and you have to let people build their own lives the way they want and in the pace they desire. Instead of going the hectic way in changing your partner, focus on yourself. Be the best example you want to see in people, and let your 'presence' do the talking and the influencing. 1 Like |
Re: 8 Ways On How To Have An Exclusive,mature,(and Healthy) Relationship by waleadex(m): 11:51pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
Well written!!! 1 Like |
Re: 8 Ways On How To Have An Exclusive,mature,(and Healthy) Relationship by Obiorahifeoma(f): 9:34pm On Nov 19, 2013 |
Exactly! 1 Like |
Re: 8 Ways On How To Have An Exclusive,mature,(and Healthy) Relationship by vivaciousvivi(f): 10:00pm On Nov 19, 2013 |
Nice one. Thanks OP 1 Like |
Re: 8 Ways On How To Have An Exclusive,mature,(and Healthy) Relationship by Nobody: 10:54pm On Nov 19, 2013 |
@Op thumbs up;...very nice..... 1 Like |
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