i met this chic in jand. we rolled for the first 3 weeks and i then asked her out in the 5th week

she is like i have a boy friend, (i guess she thought i was a playa cos she told me indirectly)

since then me don bone. we greet normally wen we meet at close length,

but i intentionally bone her some times i see her and she is like "why am i behaving like this bla bla , "

deeply in my mind, am like WTF is wrong with this chic? i don't need to hug and greet u everytime i see u

i asked u out and u said u hav a boy friend. (she has none. A friend of hers confided in me. Like she was dying for a guy and d guy no send her)

its now 10 months we still in jand and she still bores with why are u acting like bla bla,

I have since moved on, (got many friends as ladies ( no strings attached pls) and wen she sees me with them, she's kind of staring at us and

asking silly questions wen we see)

I thought if a girl does'nt like a guy, she would not send him whether or not he greets her?

landers make una heelep me for this one

she was just playing hard to get,u should have used ur head to try her again ,she might/would have accepted

How old is this your chika?

your story's summary is


both of you are acting like shildren

@poster

You are still young na

12yrs is a very very young age na

Shawty said the nigga
That she with ain't shit
Shawty said the nigga
That she with ain't this
Shawty said the nigga
That she with can't hit
But shawty Imma hit it, hit it,
Like I can't miss

She wants you like a Lolipop

She's only playin d hard to get game.
If yhu like her den put in a lil
more lines.she myte agree dis tym.

Gamine:

@poster

You are still young na

12yrs is a very very young age na

hmm[i]

na which GAME u use detect that one?[/i]

so why the pretence

Hard to get. When the other guy fails she will say yes to you.

Chika? Jand? Bone?

Mercy me!

@ Topic
OP, don't mind her jare, I think she has spent too much time in civilized society, she has forgotten how to deal with uncouth, immature Nigerian Guys who get mad and take it as a personal attack when a girl says no. The next time you see her, slap her face and say "Yes, I did it". I swear if that doesn't bring her back to her sense, I don't what will.

Good Luck, sha and don't forget to hiss, eye her up and down and say 'shoir" when you're done with the slapping.

So Nigerian guys who decide to move on after a girl rejects them are now uncouth and immature. Hmm

you stay they say you're stubborn
you leave they say you're immature.
what do women want

Sisikill:

Chika? Jand? Bone?

Mercy me!

@ Topic
OP, don't mind her jare, I think she has spent too much time in civilized society, she has forgotten how to deal with uncouth, immature Nigerian Guys who get mad and take it as a personal attack when a girl says no. The next time you see her, slap her face and say "Yes, I did it". I swear if that doesn't bring her back to her sense, I don't what will.

Good Luck, sha and don't forget to hiss, eye her up and down and say 'shoir" when you're done with the slapping.

na u be that girl

lol. oti o

[color=#006600][/color]you self she u think say u bi don? na so u fine? if u wan tell am of tell am if not bone.

he don bone, she no gree.

HCH3COO:

So Nigerian guys who decide to move on after a girl rejects them are now uncouth and immature. Hmm

you stay they say you're stubborn
you leave they say you're immature.
what do women want

they want you to loose the little pride you've got left

Abeg no mind them.

HCH3COO:

So Nigerian guys who decide to move on after a girl rejects them are now uncouth and immature. Hmm

you stay they say you're stubborn
you leave they say you're immature.
what do women want

No, moving on is not immature, refusing to talk to her anymore IS. Come on now, what is with the boning? What. . . is he trying to emotionally blackmail her? And to press home the point on how immature he is, he asks why she is bothered about him not talking to her. Gah! he's even lucky she is still talking to him. Me. . . I would added his name under my growing list of Schizophrenic guys. Talking and chilling one minute and then boning around the place the next, what nonsense?

We don't always get what we want and accepting rejection or failure in stride shows a certain degree of Maturity.

cescky:


na u be that girl

LMOA! How did you know? I didn't think you'd. . . wait a sec, which girl are you talking about? Is it the one from the other day with the thing at that place? Are you kidding me? God forbid! Please ooh, that is not me. I am the girl from the other place with the thing on that day.

Baxilexi:

they want you to loose the little pride you've got left

See this right here is the ododo of the oro. You guys have the "Do you know who I am?" mentally, that's why you take it as a personal affront when a girl says no . .  get all "Emi!  Me? Me? She said no to me? A whole of me? The son of Baba Elewe Tutu from Iyano meje not Iyano meta. . . me? Nah, Nah, Mba, Mba, she gots to pay the price and after swearing from floor to top, you bring out the other multiple personality and start boning up and down the place. *Rolleye*

It ain't that serious, bros. . . it really isn't.

Sisikill:

No, moving on is not immature, refusing to talk to her anymore IS. Come on now, what is with the boning? What. . . is he trying to emotionally blackmail her? And to press home the point on how immature he is, he asks why she is bothered about him not talking to her. Gah! he's even lucky she is still talking to him. Me. . . I would added his name under my growing list of Schizophrenic guys. Talking and chilling one minute and then boning around the place the next, what nonsense?

We don't always get what we want and accepting rejection or failure in stride shows a certain degree of Maturity.

He did not refuse to talk to her anymore.  He said he ignores her sometimes. I know it's immature that he does it intentionally, but if the guy has nothing further to discuss with her why should he have to force himself.  Asking a girl out does not automatically equal a ticket to talk to her everytime I see her.  Maybe the first time he ever talked to her was the day he asked her out, meaning they weren't friends before.   The girl in questioned seemed like she didn't want to let go even after she rejected him.  Getting jealous when she sees him talking to other girls is a little immature too.  This is a case of hard to get that backfired on her.  It's his turn to play hard to get   .
He's wrong for intentionally ignoring her, but that's not exactly because "Nigerian guys" behave like immature, uncouth punks after rejections.  Guys generally react defensively when their ego take a slight hit.  I would feel a bit funny after a rejection too . . specially if I truly liked the girl.


A lot of guys need a lesson on how to be friends with girls that reject them. It ain't easy o

Sisikill:

See this right here is the ododo of the oro. You guys have the "Do you know who I am?" mentally, that's why you take it as a personal affront when a girl says no . . get all "Emi! Me? Me? She said no to me? A whole of me? The son of Baba Elewe Tutu from Iyano meje not Iyano meta. . . me? Nah, Nah, Mba, Mba, she gots to pay the price and after swearing from floor to top, you bring out the other multiple personality and start boning up and down the place. *Rolleye*

It ain't that serious, bros. . . it really isn't.

Sisi see as you dey throw bobos under the bus like this. So many girls get all crazy freaky when they don't get the attention they desire from a guy they like. Have you ever seen behaviors of these girls? Some of them stalk him, talk bad about him to every girl on campus, look for a girl he likes and take her out. . .
Let's not even talk about those girls that won't leave you alone after you break up with them -- Gurrgh!

iice:

rofl, on a roll sisi.

 

HCH3COO:

He did not refuse to talk to her anymore.  He said he ignores her sometimes. I know it's immature that he does it intentionally, but if the guy has nothing further to discuss with her why should he have to force himself.  Asking a girl out does not automatically equal a ticket to talk to her everytime I see her.  Maybe the first time he ever talked to her was the day he asked her out, meaning they weren't friends before.   The girl in questioned seemed like she didn't want to let go even after she rejected him.  Getting jealous when she sees him talking to other girls is a little immature too.  This is a case of hard to get that backfired on her.  It's his turn to play hard to get  .

He's wrong for intentionally ignoring her, but that's not exactly because "Nigerian guys" behave like immature, uncouth punks after rejections.  Guys generally react defensively when their ego take a slight hit.  I would feel a bit funny after a rejection too . . specially if I truly liked the girl.


A lot of guys need a lesson on how to be friends with girls that reject them. It ain't easy o

LOL. Okay, I'm gonna use semantics as my defense here. . . I said immature uncouth Nigerian Guys. I didn't say all Nigerian were immature and uncouth. Is he Nigerian? Yes. Was his behavior immature? Yes. Maybe the uncouth part is where I misstepped but everything else still stands. ^{Does it hold water?}

HCH3COO:

Sisi see as you dey throw bobos under the bus like this. So many girls get all crazy freaky when they don't get the attention they desire from a guy they like. Have you ever seen behaviors of these girls? Some of them stalk him, talk bad about him to every girl on campus, look for a girl he likes and take her out. . .
Let's not even talk about those girls that won't leave you alone after you break up with them -- Gurrgh!

Nah! Not even not even close to the matter at hand. I mean this is like comparing apples to oranges. I'm sorry but there is a vast difference between PRE-Relationship Psychosis and POST-Relationship Psychosis.

One goes crazy after a yes I will go out with you, then kiss kiss, hug hug, then I love you, then You are the best I ever had lovemaking, then you're in my heart forever, then I live only for you, then I want to be around you for the rest of my life, then se won be sorin meja ni? I said I need my space, Gawd, then we need to talk, then I don't feel anything for you, then it's over.

The other goes crazy after a simple no.

How can you even compare?

LOL. Okay, I'm going to use semantics as my defense here. . . I said immature uncouth Nigerian Guys. I didn't say all Nigerian were immature and uncouth. Is he Nigerian? Yes. Was his behavior immature? Yes. Maybe the uncouth part is where I misstepped but everything else still stands. Does it hold water?

The uncouth part was slightly off but, yes, you hold some water. Both their actions are immature.

Sisikill:

 

Nah! Not even not even close to the matter at hand. I mean this is like comparing apples to oranges. I'm sorry but there is a vast difference between PRE-Relationship Psychosis and POST-Relationship Psychosis.

Yes I did! I also mentioned pre-relationship freakishly psychotic behavior o.  It was a good analogy to show that men, women, boys and girls all posess traits of immaturity sometimes when they can't have the things they want.  I actually think men handle it better  . Call me biased.  The guy here fashi'd[i] her after she said no but she refused to let him go.  In addition to all that, why would she continue feeling on this immature dude that's dogging her?  Some girls are attracted to these kinds of assholes who act immature to prove a point. 

One goes crazy after a yes I will go out with you, then kiss kiss, hug hug, then I love you, then You are the best I ever had lovemaking, then you're in my heart forever, then I live only for you, then I want to be around you for the rest of my life, then [i]se won be sorin meja ni? I said I need my space, Gawd, then we need to talk, then I don't feel anything for you, then it's over.

The other goes crazy after a simple no.

How can you even compare?

Omg ! You blew it totally out of proportion.  How do you even begin to quantify how badly the guy was hurt after the rejection?  He could have been feeling this girl for ages, yet all it took was a simple no to shatter his hopes of ever having the girl of his dreams  Abeg o.

And please for the psycho girls out there that just don't  understand that when it's over, IT IS OVER! Go away! Stop calling me, asking me where I am, begging to come over to my house, constantly checking up on me, asking who I'm currently dating, stalking me.  It's over.

HCH3COO:

And please for the psycho girls out there that just don't  understand that when it's over, IT IS OVER! Go away! Stop calling me, asking me where I am, begging to come over to my house, constantly checking up on me, asking who I'm currently dating, stalking me.  It's over.

ROTFLMAO! This sounds like a heartfelt plea.

Any particular girl in mind?

I hope she contines stalking you, that's what you get for toying with people's emotions.

Goodness, on this particular section alone, I can count how many hearts you've broken.

You. . . you heartbreaker you.

Sisikill:

ROTFLMAO! This sounds like a heartfelt plea.

Any particular girl in mind?

I hope she contines stalking you, that's what you get for toying with people's emotions.

Goodness, on this particular section alone, I can count how many hearts you've broken.

You. . . you heartbreaker you.

Sweetie, I'm not a heartbreaker o.


let's network now.
kilo nse e

May be you are a player, the girl is trying to know the kind of person you are not that she does not want you. So, you should understand.

Having a mean look on ya face i think.