Someone posted this on my wall so I was thinking if you guys could comment on it.....

A lot of men act like they are doing a
woman a favor by asking for her hand
in marriage but let's think about this:
She changes her name, changes her
home, leaves her family, moves in with
you, builds a home with you, gets pregnant for you, bear ur children for
you, pregnancy destroys her body, she
gets fat, almost give up in the labour
room due to the unexplainable pains of
childbirth, even the kids she delivers
bear youw name. Till the day she dies, everything she does benefits you.
So who is really doing who a favor?
Dear Men appreciate your wife today
because it is not easy to be a Woman.

Bing a woman is Priceless!!!! Too bad
so many women of today don't even know their value.

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My husband will take my surname IJN

I am stealing this I swear.

Hmmm! too bad, a lot of women today don't know their value.

It is true there are high-headed men who think marrying a woman is a favor, or think all middle-aged ladies are so desperate for marriage they can manipulate them. But I am all to sure I am NOT that man . . . and I ain't the only one. So women should rest easy.

My advice to ladies is ::::::::::::::::: don't rush into marriage... Get a man who values you

fnep2smooth:

Bing a woman is Priceless!!!! Too bad
so many women of today don't even know their value.

True that

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fnep2smooth: Someone posted this on my wall so I was thinking if you guys could comment on it.....

A lot of men act like they are doing a
woman a favor by asking for her hand
in marriage but let's think about this:
She changes her name, changes her
home, leaves her family, moves in with
you, builds a home with you, gets pregnant for you, bear ur children for
you, pregnancy destroys her body, she
gets fat, almost give up in the labour
room due to the unexplainable pains of
childbirth, even the kids she delivers
bear youw name. Till the day she dies, everything she does benefits you.
So who is really doing who a favor?
Dear Men appreciate your wife today
because it is not easy to be a Woman.

Bing a woman is Priceless!!!! Too bad
so many women of today don't even know their value.

walai

Very sensitive........

MAJORITY of men don't think they are doing ladies any favour by marrying them. If you think a man reasons that way then you need to check to see if you are up to his standard cos inferiority is actually clouding your confidence. I doubt if a man would pick a life partner on the basis of just trying to favour her, though a man can pick a wife on the basis of she trying to favour him(if she's from a rich home ). I like the list of all a woman has to shed off just to please her husband written by the OP, but if men have to make their own list you guys will know you've got company. Ladies just like to complain...you for no marry na. Don't get me wrong, I appreciate the female gender but I think there's a campaign going on on social medias aimed at trying to make the women of today see themselves as more than they really are. I believe the feminists are behind it all. Ladies should know that what the OP listed above are what a woman contributes to a marriage. It is quite wrong to think man contributes nothing cos that's more like the aim of all these- push our efforts in their face till they start worshiping us. It's a man's world, the faster you understand that, the faster you start enjoying your man. In marriages, both sexes make sacrifices. Let's appreciate each other or else the devil will creep in and use the lack of satisfaction of one the couple to destroy the other cos he's a destroy who is destroying the earth, homes and almost destroyed heaven. No need to make a list like that of the OP cos it will lead to BOASTING and PRIDE which destroyed lucifer.

Mondisweets: My husband will take my surname IJN

if your surname doesn't sound like dangote, otedola or adenuga but like that of a palm wine drinker's name then...fill in the gap.

A woman who knows not her worth will invariably be treated like a rag..

You are treated the way u potray urslf..

Some women even beg men 2 marry 'em.. Tell me why such a man will not feel he is doing said lady a favour?

If a girl is obsessed with marriage and advertises it, her partner would likely act like he's doing her a favour. I wouldn't blame him either.

It's the same way many girls act like they are doing a guy a favour by dating him, when it's the guy that's going to spend time, energy and resources trying to make her happy.

When a lady is married to a man life . His burden increase by the number of the size of the family and he life his life that her life make be of meaning . His life is on her. No one is favouring each other and it is choice

fnep2smooth: Someone posted this on my wall so I was thinking if you guys could comment on it.....

A lot of men act like they are doing a
woman a favor by asking for her hand
in marriage but let's think about this:
She changes her name, changes her
home, leaves her family, moves in with
you, builds a home with you, gets pregnant for you, bear ur children for
you, pregnancy destroys her body, she
gets fat, almost give up in the labour
room due to the unexplainable pains of
childbirth, even the kids she delivers
bear youw name. Till the day she dies, everything she does benefits you.
So who is really doing who a favor?
Dear Men appreciate your wife today
because it is not easy to be a Woman.

Bing a woman is Priceless!!!! Too bad
so many women of today don't even know their value.

you see a 54 yr old man with a hot girlfriend-- '' that is a real nigga doing shyt like a boss ''

you see a 54 yr old woman with a hot boyfriend-- '' yeye woman. Your mates don marry born pikin for house,you dey here dey do sugar mummy. I bet your parents are proud of you ''

moral lesson - men are doing women a favour by getting married to them. End of story

in the other hand, you work all your life to have a wife, foot her bills, you spend all your dime to fix a wedding of which who takes the glory? if its not a favor why do they (women) borders so much when they age being unmarried? who told you all those things you complain is not what they yearn for? then what makes them women?

op no provoke the I in me

ERTHAENIGMA:
you see a 54 yr old man with a hot girlfriend-- '' that is a real nigga doing shyt like a boss ''

you see a 54 yr old woman with a hot boyfriend-- '' yeye woman. Your mates don marry born pikin for house,you dey here dey do sugar mummy. I bet your parents are proud of you ''

moral lesson - men are doing women a favour by getting married to them. End of story

Jah bless

The two posters above me need help... To get their heads out of their arsehole, coz its so far up...

Adaeze003: The two posters above me need help... To get their heads out of their arsehole, coz its so far up...

whatever, take it or not, ok can you say Amen to this MAY REMAIN SINGLER TILL THE AGE OF 55!

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