There are a lot of single ladies out there who are supposed to have been married but still remain single. Most have had relationships and for some reasons such relationship failed, with them being the primary cause of such failures, while some haven't even had the any.
Most times this is as a result of certain reasons that these ladies may be ignorant of

So here are some of those probable reasons why a lot of ladies who seek to marry still end up remaining single.

*Displaying Bad Attitudes
Some ladies tend have very repulsive attitudes that most men can't tolerate. Such attitudes might include being rude, being arrogant, being too hotheaded, not being able to heed to advice and basically not to carrying theirselves in a fashion that is morally acceptable.
Some ladies display egocentric characteristics and believe that men should worship the floor they walk while they are free to act as they like and most men are repelled by such
And most of the time, when all this bad attitudes are pointed out to these ladies, they still don't take heed and still continue in them.

*Ignorantly Joining The Feminist Band Wagon
The cause of feminism is growing rapidly during this our time and a lot of ladies just ignorantly claim to be feminists without even having a complete understanding of what feminism really entails.
These ladies, due to the certain standards they set and their requirements of the opposite sex, they tend to repel men instead of attract them.
Because of their lack of understanding of the concept of feminism, some even begin to grow a gradual dislike for men which they display through certain characters which cause men to pull away from them.

*Placing Too Much Emphasis On looks
A lot of ladies see their looks as their ultimate charm for attracting men. They see it as the only thing men want, and become oblivious of the fact that physical appearance is just a part of the requirements of wife, and they pay less attention to other parts of themselves that might need development.
Instead of them to build on their other qualities, they put all the effort and place too much attention to their looks and ignore certain aspects of themselves that need improvement.

*Not Putting Themselves Out There
There are ladies who sit around whine day to day about being single, waiting for fate to step in or magic to happen.
These ladies forget that life doesn't owe them anything, and that they have to strive and take the bull by the horns if they want to get what they want.
Of course it might be difficult for a lot of ladies putting themselves out there, as there are a lot of hindrances such as the nature of job, certain personalities traits and all that,
but that doesn't mean they shouldn't try to bring themselves out of their comfort zone.

Also, a lot of ladies fear rejection because they might have tried some relationships in times past but failed, and they let this fear creep into them and they become hesitant in wanting to commit to any new relationship.
They fail to understand that they a husband isn't just going to appear at their doorsteps They have to go out, meet people and engage in certain activities aimed at broadening their social circle.

*Being Too Desperate
Due to the fact that most ladies are so eager to marry, most show so much desperation and they end up putting too much pressure on their partners.
Some become to pushy and they constantly pressurize their partners into marrying them quickly, and this can be too demanding.
Men see that overly persistent attitude as a red light and some might even start placing meaning to it and at the end loose interest in the relationship.

*Making Themselves A Burden To Men
A lot of ladies, especially during dating tend to be too financially dependent on their partners for everything and this results in them becoming a nothing but a burden to their partners
They fail to realize that most men want women that can support them financially, not women that would just stay lazy around and expect men to just throw everything on their tables.

*Having Overly High Expectations
A lot of ladies set unrealistic expectations of the kind of man they want. Most of these standards tend to be absurd and unreasonable and it ends up limiting their choices.
You see ladies wanting their "dream' men to have particular physical characteristics, have certain educational status, attain a certain financial height, belong to a particular social class, and more often than not, they don't find men who possess all this qualities in one and keep on searching and searching until it becomes too late.

*Being Too Critical About Everything
A lot of ladies are too critical and judgmental about issues and they tend to always look at things from a pessimistic point of view.
They always tend to see nothing good in anything and they always look for someone to blame their predicaments on. All this can be really frustrating for their partners
Some are not even appreciative of little and always expect more.
They even go all the way to blame their partners for their own wrongs and most men just can't live with them.

*Not Taking Good Care Of Themselves
Although ones physical appearance isn't the most important thing men seek, but definitely, it's the first thing they see.
A lot of ladies tend not to pay too much attention on how they look, or how they dress.
They don't take care of hairs, their shape, their weights and generally, the way they look, some even dress shabbily and tattered and at the end wonder why men don't approach them.
Men are generally attracted to ladies that are attractive and if a man doesn't see a lady as such, he doesn't pay attention to her.

Giving Up Too Easily
A lot of women who might not be having it good in a relationship just tend to throw their hands up in the air and say, “I give up, there’s no point continuing"
But they fail to realize that not every guy they meet is the perfect guy
They forget that each experience be a learning experience, and they get discouraged easily.
They fail to understand that there are always trying times in every relationship and patience and perseverance is needed for things to work things out.

Written By Misssclassy

having overly high expectations

this should top your list miss,

I call it 'screening'

majority of single ladies out there are now full of high expectations from their 'to be' husband. And this set of Ladies can't work for money but their request from God on the kind of man they want is so high than tension wires.

You want Rich, tall, fair, handsome, caring, famous husband but you forget what's in your destiny note book. not all ladies will end up with your dream guy cos we all have our future written down already so if you continue waiting for 'Mr right' I pray you don't grow old while waiting.

The poor guy you are avoiding might end up winning a jackpot tomorrow

The rich guy you are praying to end up with might become poor over night

stop your screening and end up with that guy that can't do without you. that guy that keeps checking on you even after you have rejected him so many times. A rethink can be a good idea miss screener

^^^ she is surprisingly right.
She has also surprisingly written a long post.

In other news,

challenge me. For each like i get, i will cover a page in my maths textbook.

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Please don't like again abeg.
There is no way I can finish that many pages nah

Hmmmm...

Ladies dun suffer

well done classy

you don use tell us why u still dey single....ok

For the 1st Time in a Long while, am Agreeing with Misssclassy.....And its Good to Know that she Understands the Fact that Feminism is also a Factor that Can Hinder a Woman being Married

Lemme break my fasting before i comment properly.

Welcome to the train misssclassy

just in case....

But who in the world announced you an authority on this subject? Crass ideas as usual, mere attempts to score cheap popularity.

and the post already has 1000+ shares?


what sort of nönsense is this?

I smell falconey

Antoinne:
But who in the world announced you an authority on this subject? Crass ideas as usual, with attempts to score cheap popularity.

is she not right
Or you just resent her because of her bitchy attitude, hence this attack

falconey:

misssclassy is inform.

Abeg dash am another 250 shares

Nicely put .. All true ..
Nice one missclasssy

LadyBoss1:
Nicely put .. All true .. Nice one missclasssy

plus superiority complex: some feel they are imperative. Pride can contribute to the ill luck

Teempakguy:
is she not right
Or you just resent her because of her bitchy attitude, hence this attack

That's not an attack. It's an opinion. Write-ups like this are the reasons Nigerians stay ignorant. Any Tom, Diiick or Harryc wakes up, grabs a pen and begins making verdicts on other people's lives. Tell me, what's wrong in "joining the feminism band wagon", if that makes a lady satisfied? Is marriage the pinnacle of a woman's achievement? Do you know how many poor souls will read this and begin inferring things that are not actually wrong with them?

I beg to disagree with articles like this that paint subjective issues with a color brush. They certainly don't encourage a lady to keep her head up and hold her shoulder high. There's more to living than marriage. And behavior should be by themselves and not fashioned to nick a husband.

WOW!!

you said it all !!

i just hope, they listen real good

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darkenedrebel:
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This guy is jealous it's like he needs falconey service

darkenedrebel:
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Misssclassy!! Well thought out,Nicely written, beautifully coordinated.
Kudos!!

Antoinne:

That's not an attack. It's an opinion. Write-ups like this are the reasons Nigerians stay ignorant. Any Tom, Diiick or Harryc wakes up, grabs a pen and begins making verdicts on other people's lives. Tell me, what's wrong in "joining the feminism band wagon", if that makes a lady satisfied? Is marriage the pinnacle of a woman's achievement? Do you know how many poor souls will read this and begin inferring things that are not actually wrong with them?

I beg to disagree with articles like this that paint subjective issues with a color brush. They certainly don't encourage a lady to keep her head up and hold her shoulder high. There's more to living than marriage. And behavior should be by themselves and not fashioned to nick a husband.

what the hell are you talking about
Everything she listed above has nothing to do with gender suppression or feminism.
She is simply advicing against bad attitude that have been universally accepted to be so.
You cannot continue to commit attrocites and hide under that canopy of feminism.
Besides, this whole post is clearly for a specific set of people. People that want to marry. Take it or leave it.