When you are already into a blossoming relationship that possibly might lead to the altar and then suddenly you stumble or bump (as the case may be) into an angelic creature whom you find perfectly irresistable and the next thing that goes on your mind is hw to hook up with this person (whether you are a guy or a lady) and yet there is someone in your life who needs all ur care and attention, yet u cannot let the new catch slip off your arms just like that. What are you going to do? Are you going to result in double-dating or u simply let go just like that even though you cannot stop thinking of this person.

What if to make it worse, ur relationship b4 meeting the 'new catch' is just 2 months or say probably 2 weeks? Comments please.

It all depends on how important marriage is to you. If it can wait then you can dump the alter boy and date the greek god. If marriage is the axis in which your world rotates then marry the alter boy and fantasize about the greek prince which in some way is cheating without the emotional baggage.

Make a list

Pros and Cons of the 2 and see who has more "cons"

although I would say this "angel" just might be the complete opposite once you get tangled in this triangle

girlsoswit:

When you are already into a blossoming relationship that possibly might lead to the altar and then suddenly you stumble or bump (as the case may be) into an angelic creature whom you find perfectly irresistable and the next thing that goes on your mind is hw to hook up with this person (whether you are a guy or a lady) and yet there is someone in your life who needs all your care and attention, yet u cannot let the new catch slip off your arms just like that. What are you going to do? Are you going to result in double-dating or u simply let go just like that even though you cannot stop thinking of this person.

What if to make it worse, your relationship before meeting the 'new catch' is just 2 months or say probably 2 weeks? Comments please.

Keep the 2 of em . . . . . It's worth the risk if u can multi-task!!!!
While u are it, remember the 11th commandment. . . . .Thou shall not be CAUGHT!!

Then my dear I would say your really not into the person you are seeing.  If you were really into the person you are seeing then no one else will be able to catch your eye.

How does that saying go again? "Better the devil you know than the angel you don't" I think that's how it goes. Anyway, that saying has never been any truer.

@Topic Ponder, you lust after one and love the other
Slow down, don't through away what you have because of new catch
Time will tell

Better late than, pregnant

The only "relationship" I respect is marriage. Any other type of relationship can be broken any time T.

as long as you remember that not all that glitters is actually GOLD.

rubi:

@Topic Ponder, you lust after one and love the other
Slow down, don't through away what you have because of new catch
Time will tell

you are wrong,because smtimes that one u think is urs might not really be urs

follow your heart girl friend,
i belive you know whatz best for you.thatz all i could say.

Stay with your guy its normal to fall for other people, it cd be just a crush and will come to pass if you dont nurture it.

If u find someone else that attractive then your present guy doesnt mean much to u. It may be time to re-assess your relationship with him. If this new guy feels the same way as u - also finds u irresistible, then i think u should consider that critically too. . . I think it is better to be happy than to live with the thought of someone else somewhere out there.

Just be careful, not all that glitters is gold and sometimes, the devil you know is a whole lot better.

Meetin a new guy. That real deadly wat if he just want to play u and leave

When you are already into a blossoming relationship that possibly might lead to the altar and then suddenly you stumble or bump (as the case may be) into an angelic creature whom you find perfectly irresistable and the next thing that goes on your mind is hw to hook up with this person (whether you are a guy or a lady) and yet there is someone in your life who needs all your care and attention, yet u cannot let the new catch slip off your arms just like that. What are you going to do? Are you going to result in double-dating or u simply let go just like that even though you cannot stop thinking of this person.

What if to make it worse, your relationship before meeting the 'new catch' is just 2 months or say probably 2 weeks? Comments please.

That my dear is called, eating your cake. . . . and attempting to have it!

Brash!:

Well apparently it is now possible to eat your cake, share your cake and have it at the same time!

Lol!