Pls nairalanders...am in a relationship whereby the lady is 3yrs older than me,we both love eachother,she's a workingclass,but am still a student graduating nextyr,now her mother warns her to cut of d relationship cuz am still schooling..pls what can i do..thanks

Her mother has probably told her to call off the relationship because you are yet to graduate and will most likely not be ready to marry her when mommy thinks she has to settle down.


What can you do?

1. Prove mommy wrong. Show this girl that you're worth the wait. You may have to work extra hard to make this possible or you'll just end up wasting her time. A promise of marriage isn't enough if she can't see any progress.

2. You can let her go. Love isn't everything.

uj_sizzle: Her mother has probably told her to call off the relationship because you are yet to graduate and will most likely not be ready to marry her when mommy thinks she has to settle down.


What can you do?

1. Prove mommy wrong. Show this girl that you're worth the wait. You may have to work extra hard to make this possible or you'll just end up wasting her time. A promise of marriage isn't enough if she can't see any progress.

2. You can let her go. Love isn't everything.

uj_sizzle: Her mother has probably told her to call off the relationship because you are yet to graduate and will most likely not be ready to marry her when mommy thinks she has to settle down.


What can you do?

1. Prove mommy wrong. Show this girl that you're worth the wait. You may have to work extra hard to make this possible or you'll just end up wasting her time. A promise of marriage isn't enough if she can't see any progress.

2. You can let her go. Love isn't everything.

uj_sizzle: Her mother has probably told her to call off the relationship because you are yet to graduate and will most likely not be ready to marry her when mommy thinks she has to settle down.


What can you do?

1. Prove mommy wrong. Show this girl that you're worth the wait. You may have to work extra hard to make this possible or you'll just end up wasting her time. A promise of marriage isn't enough if she can't see any progress.

2. You can let her go. Love isn't everything.

Yes..i hav to work harder.thanks

uj_sizzle: Her mother has probably told her to call off the relationship because you are yet to graduate and will most likely not be ready to marry her when mommy thinks she has to settle down.


What can you do?

1. Prove mommy wrong. Show this girl that you're worth the wait. You may have to work extra hard to make this possible or you'll just end up wasting her time. A promise of marriage isn't enough if she can't see any progress.

2. You can let her go. Love isn't everything.

yeah, i agree with u..
Just be urself..Cook correct ewedu soup and put 'something' there...
She will change...trust me

DK Jaleel:
yeah, i agree with u..
Just be urself..Cook correct ewedu soup and put 'something' there...
She will change...trust me

DK Jalel...lolz,maybe i should add locustbeans.

Firstly, your focus and priority is to graduate, I know ASUU isn't helping matters. Then get a job after nysc, it might take longer than expected. If she's still single then go for her. What will be will be. No go pursue goat when u no get yam. When u get the yam, trust me, the number of goat wey go full your house ehn!!! That lady that's 3yrs older than you would be a forgotten issue. Thank me later

gbanikiti: Firstly, your focus and priority is to graduate, I know ASUU isn't helping matters. Then get a job after nysc, it might take longer than expected. If she's still single then go for her. What will be will be. No go pursue goat when u no get yam. When u get the yam, trust me, the number of goat wey go full your house ehn!!! That lady that's 3yrs older than you would be a forgotten issue. Thank me later

Thanks bro