I don't dress provocatively. As a matter of fact I can't stand exposing the body in a provocative manner. Is there something else that attracts such guys. I'm considering stepping out of my relationship of 3 weeks cos the guy is mounting serious pressure on me. And this is a guy I met in church, we attend the same church. If I'd met him in a club would have understood, not that I club sef.

I know a girl wif d same complaint too, some girls are juss damn sexy, guys lust for tits alot too o, mayb itz d tits. 1st to comment!!!

op @ on wat i observe 4rm ur picx u luk fuckin palatable to be bleeped.....wit nice nd well shaped bo.ob

U don't really have to dress provocatively to attract men who just want sex. If u have voluptuous features then they will b attracted to you.

how do we help dis one

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how do we help dis one

Lol...

Do you have sexy hips. if yes, then that may be part of the cause. For me, that's what I look up in a woman. the area of not exposing your body in an provocative manner, Even if you wear a long gown or short skirt which is very much below the kneel, it doesn't matter. The eyes see beyond the clothes.

Maybe u hav a strong sex-appeal....

Ur brain needs oil change! Oniranu

Dear as a lady u will attract different species of men...u don't have to blame ur self for any reason...since u are certain that u dress okay...just keep on doing the right things and I belive @ the right time the right man will come...and again, I think I disagree with ur relationship...I think he gat other mission he hope to achieve..but it won't make u to get nasty @ men....rather use wisdom and smiles to really make em understand ur true person...and that will convert the reasonable once and even make em to respect you...they are jst being men..all the best to you!

naijaborn001: Ur brain needs oil change! Oniranu

Pls go back to bed pls. I need mature responses

@ All
I'm not too big in the bossom area but I ve got hips and a moderately big behind. Should I start wearing "mary-amaka' gowns cos I'm tired. I just want a genuine guy that would love me

Still_stan: Dear as a lady u will attract different species of men...u don't have to blame ur self for any reason...since u are certain that u dress okay...just keep on doing the right things and I belive @ the right time the right man will come...and again, I think I disagree with ur relationship...I think he gat other mission he hope to achieve..but it won't make u to get nasty @ men....rather use wisdom and smiles to really make em understand ur true person...and that will convert the reasonable once and even make em to respect you...they are jst being men..all the best to you!

This just made my day! Thanks a lot for this post. I was begining to think there was somthing wrong somewhere. Now I can relax and be myself

what else do men want? Why you making this a big deal? You think he wants to pray for you or give you money? Haba?

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Gurl friend

males are not always turned on by just ur mere physique.
It might be the way you talk,
u knw,most gurls are natural nawty chatters,
u might not even notice it but that alone sends an appealing signals to guys around u..

By the way....
Did i mention that u have a strong sex appeal..
#Peace

How do u pick ur guys or rather how do u choose guys that pick on you .
Even in church , u might tend to be falling for love-vendor up player brothers while ignoring the good ones with moderate income .
Learn not to be swerved by gifts , caring n physical and don't just wait for a guy to be toasting u , instead make an effort to know guys well n position urself to be notice by the one u believe is respectable .
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Again , don't just wait for guys that get attracted to u , select a good guy and get attracted to him

king of pool: op @ on wat i observe 4rm ur picx u luk fuckin palatable to be bleeped.....wit nice nd well shaped bo.ob

Pervert..perveeeeeeeert..

Op its because d guyz u re meeting are clumzy nd dnt knw hw to play their cards. if they are sharp guys they would av finished bleeping you nd would have moved to the next game before you realise they want jst sex talk much of coming to nairaland to rant .

Godmother: I don't dress provocatively. As a matter of fact I can't stand exposing the body in a provocative manner. Is there something else that attracts such guys. I'm considering stepping out of my relationship of 3 weeks cos the guy is mounting serious pressure on me. And this is a guy I met in church, we attend the same church. If I'd met him in a club would have understood, not that I club sef.

i didnt see anything much beautiful in ur pics as to warrant the widely self acclaimed attractiveness.beauty is in d eye of d beholder yes i know.but that is if there is anything to behold @ll.dont think im trying to be ridiculous far from it rather a good friend is d one who tells u d truth unmixed.i'll rather suggest u think abt ur problem totally from another angle because the issue of beauty or attractiveness is dead here.should u care i'll oblige to give u more benefiting tips that wil help u.remember i say if u cares.im d type dat like to tell u d truth in black and white.unless ur not d one in dat pics

Don't blame yourself,in trying to gather the grain,you will come across shaft.

You will need to check yourself too,what's your relationship with the guy,do you talk to him,or behave seductively when with him,being provocative goes beyond dressing,it can be reflected in other ways,which is prompting the guy to get to promise Land.

The truth is that everything begins with you.

where is ur picture op ?

Godmother:

Child go back to bed pls. I need mature responses

@ All
I'm not too big in the bossom area but I ve got hips and a moderately big behind. Should I start wearing "mary-amaka' gowns cos I'm tired. I just want a genuine guy that would love me

If ur cute and don't mind being the 'side chick'. BTW ur not a virgin now so why the stingy behaviour. Is it cos he's not showing pre-intimacy commitment?

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If ur cute and don't mind being the 'side chick'. BTW ur not a virgin now so why the stingy behaviour. Is it cos he's not showing pre-intimacy commitment?

steeewwpid post, so because she isn't a virgin, she should become public toilet??..

@op, because people will like to see your pic, you removed it from your profile? ..
Anyway, keep being yourself, serious guys will still come, all men aint after sex, ok?

My dear, stop portraying yourself as a sex figure to men. That's all. Don't tell me you have dis and dat. I am a man and know that some women are discovered only when you take them to bed. U'd wonder why they had been hiding all their endowments.

It is not a compliment when a man tells a lady that she is sexy. You have just been reduced to a sex figure. Can u tell the queen of England that she is sexy? Let men tell you that you are beautiful. Let them apppreciate ur beauty b4 ur sex appeal. If u push sex in their faces, they'd go for it and leave u afterwards.

Maybe you have dumped the serious ones because of unreasonable reasons, anyway where you meet a guy doesn't mean what his action will be, get focus on your studies/work or bussiness and don't act like you are in need of serious relationship because men always afraid of that and is turn off.

Just be yourself and don't be too forward

talk2davoo: i didnt see anything much beautiful in ur pics as to warrant the widely self acclaimed attractiveness.beauty is in d eye of d beholder yes i know.but that is if there is anything to behold @ll.dont think im trying to be ridiculous far from it rather a good friend is d one who tells u d truth unmixed.i'll rather suggest u think abt ur problem totally from another angle because the issue of beauty or attractiveness is dead here.should u care i'll oblige to give u more benefiting tips that wil help u.remember i say if u cares.im d type dat like to tell u d truth in black and white.unless ur not d one in dat pics

you just made her take down the pics >

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Ehya

.happy new month. Waiting 4 my birthday.
@ op word of advise watch think like a man. Choose ur category and apply it.

Mine is opposite

Op guess u be 'oloju wase wase'

Godmother: I don't dress provocatively. As a matter of fact I can't stand exposing the body in a provocative manner. Is there something else that attracts such guys. I'm considering stepping out of my relationship of 3 weeks cos the guy is mounting serious pressure on me. And this is a guy I met in church, we attend the same church. If I'd met him in a club would have understood, not that I club sef.

Your hands aren't clean. You need to consult 'Ndem Ibibio' for cleansing asap. Dont forget, age is no longer on ur side.