On a trip to Lagos I met a guy, I was catching fun in a club in VI on a Saturday, I was staying at a hotel in VI. I was dancing and dancing alone, I dont take alcohol hence I had my water, this guy persisted for nearly 2hrs as I was ignoring him, insisted on buying me a drink and upon hearing I do not drink bought me a pitcher of juice.

When time came for me to leave I was going out to call the hotel cab and come back inside to wait for them to confirm they have arrived. The guy insists on driving me however I refused, unfortunately the cab driver was not picking my call then I figured let me just let this guy drop me.
When we got to my hotel, we chatted for a while outside and I ended up giving him my name and number and we would meet for breakfast the next day after church which we did.
He seems like a pleasant enough guy... then the next day after our full day date (Monday) he gives me N100k (less than 48hrs after we met). Two days later I was going to market to get fabrics and he gives me 20k. Please note I did not ask him for a single dime nor was I intimate with him. Don't you think this was too soon for such money dashing? He wants us to date even though I live in another country.

manytinz: On a trip to Lagos I met a guy, I was catching fun in a club in VI on a Saturday, I was staying at a hotel in VI. I was dancing and dancing alone, I dont take alcohol hence I had my water, this guy persisted for nearly 2hrs as I was ignoring him, insisted on buying me a drink and upon hearing I do not drink bought me a pitcher of juice.

When time came for me to leave I was going out to call the hotel cab and come back inside to wait for them to confirm they have arrived. The guy insists on driving me however I refused, unfortunately the cab driver was not picking my call then I figured let me just let this guy drop me.
When we got to my hotel, we chatted for a while outside and I ended up giving him my name and number and we would meet for breakfast the next day after church which we did.
He seems like a pleasant enough guy... then the next day after our full day date (Monday) he gives me N100k (less than 48hrs after we met). Two days later I was going to market to get fabrics and he gives me 20k. Please note I did not ask him for a single dime nor was I intimate with him. Don't you think this was too soon for such money dashing? He wants us to date even though I live in another country.

...ok.so u charge 100k Somali dolla an hour.. That's about £15 an hour in London

He is tryin to make u fall in luv with him through money

If u know u won't date him in d future, then u can reject any further "cash" he gives u (if it makes u feel better).

If u like him and want to date him, call him and hav a nice chat wit him abt how wrong he is to try to buy people's luv wit his money.

Thanks Ab025.
He wants to invite me back to Nigeria n cover all expenses however I am hesitant accepting cash or having him spend money as with most men this tends to come with expectations I am sure I will not fulfil. And on the other hand I don't want to sound like I am accusing him by telling him that he mustn't expect anything in return as he hasn't suggested anything sexual to me.