I’m confused and worried, I just found out
that my new boss is the man my wife
dumped a few years ago to marry me.
Apparently the man was planning to marry her and
even saw her through her university days
financially and also supported her family.
My wife and I met during our NYSC, fell in love and
got married shortly after. My wife found a way of
breaking up with her ex (my new boss).
Now 4 years into our marriage, there’s a big issue.
I just got this really good job and my direct boss
happens to be the man my wife dumped for me.
Unfortunately he knows who I am because he
confronted me back when my wife left him for me,
but since I started this job, he hasn’t said anything
to me but I noticed he excludes me from most of
the activities that concern staff and I suspect he’s
trying to sabotage me.
He hasn’t done anything yet, I’m just worried that
he has bad plans for me. Should I quit or should I
wait to see what he’s up to? I don’t look forward to
going to work at all.
What's do I do?

hmmmm...

talk 2 im abt it...and if he do lyk a md person abeg pack well oooo...u ar a man u cant beg....wimps

Psquare- uncle please tell us a story.
me- uncle please tell us another story......

Ur past is hunting u abiii. U shldnt av made a woman break anoda man's heart, she could do same to u too.
Anyway, just be positive n do ur work deligently.

Op that was in the past, even if you were the cause of the dumping, take it as destiny, men understands better with their fellow, he too could, and if he is married now the that past is totaled.

my 1naira opinion

Quit your job.

Exponental: Ur past is hunting u abiii. U shldnt av made a woman break anoda man's heart, she could do same to u too.
Anyway, just be positive n do ur work deligently.

I didn't cause der brekdown

Godnifemi:
I didn't cause der brekdown

if nt u den who? What was ur actions like during dat period. Do u knw hw painful it feels 2 b dumped by a women after all dis financial assistance in her education, nt only her education, her family as well. Women can b nonchalant and foolish ooo!
My friend u beta get ur mind prepared for any eventuality. Pray hard as well.

oP na dye be that for you oh

Godnifemi:
I didn't cause der brekdown

is he married now?

@op, juss act normal, if he seeks trouble don't giv it to him. . ."trouble makers expect you to fight back, conquer dem wit your peace"

jimmy4x:
is he married now?

Yes he is

Akuneshiobike: if nt u den who? What was ur actions like during dat period. Do u knw hw painful it feels 2 b dumped by a women after all dis financial assistance in her education, nt only her education, her family as well. Women can b nonchalant and foolish ooo!
My friend u beta get ur mind prepared for any eventuality. Pray hard as well.

I know but while we were dating she didn't mentioned him n I feel mayb she doesn't love him

Godnifemi:
Yes he is

hmm go about your normal life, nothing will happen. be diligent in your work, and most of all acquire a skill you can use to build your side business incase the hammer falls down. But do you know its when you think of doom often enough it comes to you? my advice, dont visit this thread again and live your normal life, love your wife, the stars will align for your favor (that is if you dont put your hands in evil doings or thoughts)

Be a man about it, dude.
Your confidence alone would scare him shitless, cuz trust me, even though he's ranked higher than you, he'll always feel inadequate around you.
In an attempt to 'measure up' he might try to knock your self-esteem down a few notches by either trying to humiliate you in public or in front of your wife by deliberately black-balling your promotion or what-what. But trust me, the second you arrange a personal meeting/lunch with him outside the workplace and let him know you're aware of his petty boyish antics, and how the woman of his dreams dumped him for you, I tell you, he would practically do his best to AVOID you. Even personal shame no go fit gree am to look you directly in the eyes anymore. But most importantly, he wouldn't want to fire you or pick on you, cuz he might not be sure how much dirt you've got on him.
No amount of money can heal a man's fractured ego.

What do you want us to do? Fight for you,or what,see NECO question.

@ op I guess your the LIBer that posted the story on lindaikejiblog but something tells me you just lifted the story from LIB. http://lindaikeji..com/2013/12/dear-lib-readers-my-new-boss-is-my.html