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Having Intimate Feelings/relationship With A Friend by ITbomb(m): 10:28am On Dec 07, 2013 |
The best advice I ever gotten from relationship talks is ' Marry ur friend ' . . But why do girls finds it difficult to develop sexual feelings for a friend preferring an unknown lover 2 Likes |
Re: Having Intimate Feelings/relationship With A Friend by ayamAJ(m): 10:39am On Dec 07, 2013 |
Sometimes dt frendship ends wen u declare ur intimate feelings 2 a close frnd...he or she might not see u dt way nd dt mit cause he or she to withdraw a little,so I say "as much as its good to date someone u really know,its as dangerous also" 5 Likes |
Re: Having Intimate Feelings/relationship With A Friend by ITbomb(m): 12:10pm On Dec 07, 2013 |
I really would love to know how dangerous it is , cos in a relationship we spend most time try to know n understand our partner , so why don't u go into a relationship with someone u already know very well 3 Likes |
Re: Having Intimate Feelings/relationship With A Friend by ITbomb(m): 8:38pm On Dec 07, 2013 |
K let me come out plain There is this wonderful female friend of mine , we talk , play together but when I want to press something , she will not get angry , she will just stylishly turn herself laughing n tell me to mind my business . Earlier in the year , a friend of mine came to my place n before u could know , they were hooked up and my friend even said she initiated a kissing stunt on him but for me peck na once a month. Luckily this guy don get transferred n their stuff cut prematurely but still no way for me . WHY As I dey type this , she dey bed with me now . She even know some girl wey dey come for me |
Re: Having Intimate Feelings/relationship With A Friend by princesa(f): 9:10pm On Dec 07, 2013 |
Am not the best in this things, but err...let me try. Maybe she wants you to come out clean and state your intentions, instead of trying to go round the corner with her. Your friend probably cut the goose chase and that's why she allowed him extra 'touching' If she's in your bed, means she likes you, but then you still have to tell her what it is you want, stop playing in the friendship zone and tell her you are aiming for more. Unless, she's pretending and acting coy...for nothing that is. You know you can't just understand some girls. #TeamArmChairCounsellors and in another development, IT, you're cheating on me? well tell that sissy, that am Mrs Bomb and she should be out before i return from school 6 Likes |
Re: Having Intimate Feelings/relationship With A Friend by ITbomb(m): 9:31pm On Dec 07, 2013 |
^^^ Before you return from school. |
Re: Having Intimate Feelings/relationship With A Friend by LarrySun(m): 9:32pm On Dec 07, 2013 |
Very hilarious stuff! In relationships, I've never been tongue-tied in my life, friend or foe. I'll tell you plainly if I love, like or hate you. To hell with the consequence! 5 Likes |
Re: Having Intimate Feelings/relationship With A Friend by ITbomb(m): 9:35pm On Dec 07, 2013 |
Somehow you will feel as if u r taking advantage of her closeness . At least I ve shown her my intentions , why can't she just take me in or get the hell outta my way 2 Likes |
Re: Having Intimate Feelings/relationship With A Friend by princesa(f): 9:41pm On Dec 07, 2013 |
ITbomb: IT don provoke sorry dude, I guess its a female thing - eating their cake and having it at the same time, me sef don tire. 2 Likes |
Re: Having Intimate Feelings/relationship With A Friend by Feraz(m): 9:43pm On Dec 07, 2013 |
Bros, it seems like you've been friendzoned or worse still, familyzoned... Seriously, if she doesn't reciprocate, just look elsewhere while being friends that is if you still can... 3 Likes |
Re: Having Intimate Feelings/relationship With A Friend by MaziOmenuko: 9:49pm On Dec 07, 2013 |
IT finally opened up I'm coming oh! Make I go invite others Larry-sun and princesa are already here! The party is not complete without foxy, maishot, efe, gluv and the rest of the crew ItBomb hahahahahahaha The other day, maishot was whining that his wife locked him outside; asking him to chose between Arsenal and her; now its IT I dey come, make I prepare special advice for you 1 Like |
Re: Having Intimate Feelings/relationship With A Friend by ITbomb(m): 9:58pm On Dec 07, 2013 |
@Feraz , the friendzone stuff is not a problem to me , I broke a friendzoned wall to someone's heart last year n I could do it again but I'm not sure about going steady with her but she should make a friend happy once in a while. . @Mazi, See y I no bin wan go direct, SMH . |
Re: Having Intimate Feelings/relationship With A Friend by princesa(f): 9:58pm On Dec 07, 2013 |
ITbomb: Shown? I meant talk. Like open ur mouth and talk about it. Don't know but i think showing doesn't just cut it. Man up, talk to her, hear what she has to say, know your stand with her and make your decision. Showing me you are interested in me doesn't move me, if you've not asked, am not assuming or going to read your mind, so that i don't jump the gun and imagine things where they are nothing. She might be trying to be cautious too. The key is communication. Enuf said. 5 Likes |
Re: Having Intimate Feelings/relationship With A Friend by MaziOmenuko: 10:01pm On Dec 07, 2013 |
The truth is that you are in the 'Friend-zone'. Once you fix yourself inside that zone, its hard to get off! I can imagine how you feel when you saw the spark between your friend and her . Trust me, its happened to me b4; and its not a pleasant experience! Has she told you that you're like a brother to her? Hahahaha! I heard that once . You really don't have to listen to princesa; she's just plain jealous Now let's get serious. You're in the friend zone and its hard to undo. She loves your company and maybe scared the relationship thing may just ruin it all... Or (the hard truth)... She doesn't see you as a bf material! She sees you as a nice friend, a calm, easy and good lad; wonderful confidant and advisor. She doesn't see much to fall for; or better still, you haven't shown her much to trip her. Girls like good guys, but prefers 'bad' guys for dating. When it comes to marriage, trust me, you'll be her number one choice; but right now, she needs a rugged guy to make her moan and scream! She doesn't see that in you. You need to stop playing the gentle man card and go for the kill! I'll be right back with more if you so need it. Right now, I can't stop laughing 14 Likes |
Re: Having Intimate Feelings/relationship With A Friend by MaziOmenuko: 10:04pm On Dec 07, 2013 |
Jmoor is here already! He will soon go all religious on you You don enter one chance be that! 1 Like |
Re: Having Intimate Feelings/relationship With A Friend by princesa(f): 10:11pm On Dec 07, 2013 |
Mazi_Omenuko: lol, now that you're here, i can rest easy cos my IT is in good hands, afterall, what do i know? and yes am jealous that lady is playing with my IT |
Re: Having Intimate Feelings/relationship With A Friend by MaziOmenuko: 10:13pm On Dec 07, 2013 |
ITbomb: We have treated ur case before but I will still ask Ifa , it may be a case of spiritual wife This was your response to someone else in your similar dilemma What goes around sure comes around Wait, make I consult amadioha, it could be a case of familiar spirit 7 Likes |
Re: Having Intimate Feelings/relationship With A Friend by ITbomb(m): 10:16pm On Dec 07, 2013 |
@Mazi , to be sincere the friendzone stuff is not a bother . This is a nice girl I would really love to have as a wife but if I'm to go all the way n talk like Princesa said right now and peradventure she agrees , my life will be one hell of a complication. All I'm asking is to please a friend once in a while at least for the fuel I burn to give her light to watch movies , charge phone , sleep on my bed , small recharge etc 1 Like |
Re: Having Intimate Feelings/relationship With A Friend by plainmirror(m): 10:21pm On Dec 07, 2013 |
Mazi_Omenuko: The truth is that you are in the 'Friend-zone'. Once you fix yourself inside that zone, its hard to get off! I can imagine how you feel when you saw the spark between your friend and her . Trust me, its happened to me b4; and its not a pleasant experience! Has she told you that you're like a brother to her? Hahahaha! I heard that once . You really don't have to listen to princesa; she's just plain jealous Oga Maaaaaaazii ! You don't seem to have changed oo |
Re: Having Intimate Feelings/relationship With A Friend by MaziOmenuko: 10:27pm On Dec 07, 2013 |
plainmirror: Aahhhhh!!! My good friend! Long time no see! My battery go soon run down so make I use the small remaining bar laugh at my friend IT Friend-zone unlimited! See but don't touch; feel but don't consummate; imagine but don't create Friends for life!!!! 9 Likes |
Re: Having Intimate Feelings/relationship With A Friend by Nobody: 10:28pm On Dec 07, 2013 |
You have been friendzoned bro You are 6 feet deep into the friendzone 1 Like |
Re: Having Intimate Feelings/relationship With A Friend by mazizitonene(m): 10:31pm On Dec 07, 2013 |
friendly zone....stay clear!!!! |
Re: Having Intimate Feelings/relationship With A Friend by Nobody: 10:31pm On Dec 07, 2013 |
ITbomb: @Feraz , the friendzone stuff is not a problem to me , I broke a friendzoned wall to someone's heart last year n I could do it again but I'm not sure about going steady with her but she should make a friend happy once in a while. Are you ready to sacrifice your friendship for some fizzling emotion? I always thought friendship was more important though. 1 Like |
Re: Having Intimate Feelings/relationship With A Friend by princesa(f): 10:32pm On Dec 07, 2013 |
E be like say i go port to friendzone too? Eat ur cake and have it kinda zone. IT burns fuel and charges phone, yet nothing. Am gradually grasping the picture |
Re: Having Intimate Feelings/relationship With A Friend by ITbomb(m): 10:42pm On Dec 07, 2013 |
^^^ Don't you ever try it |
Re: Having Intimate Feelings/relationship With A Friend by Feraz(m): 10:44pm On Dec 07, 2013 |
ITbomb: @Feraz , the friendzone stuff is not a problem to me , I broke a friendzoned wall to someone's heart last year n I could do it again but I'm not sure about going steady with her but she should make a friend happy once in a while.There's still hope in the friendzone compared to familyzone which I think is the zone you are in... I mean, she's in your room and she's prolly thinking you can't do anything even if you see... Mazi_Omenuko: Maybe you should check this
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Re: Having Intimate Feelings/relationship With A Friend by temi4fash(m): 10:46pm On Dec 07, 2013 |
Choicegirl: when will d friendship not get strained abeg... he is gonna get tired if he cont lik dis |
Re: Having Intimate Feelings/relationship With A Friend by princesa(f): 10:55pm On Dec 07, 2013 |
ITbomb: aww honey, don't get angry, we've passed the bridge already, no more friendzone for me am jez talking about the future though #TeamFriendZone |
Re: Having Intimate Feelings/relationship With A Friend by losprince(m): 8:31am On Dec 08, 2013 |
@itbomb "GUY CODE" make the girl jealous, tell her that her friend is hot! make her think you are into some of her friends... 6 Likes |
Re: Having Intimate Feelings/relationship With A Friend by Nuzo1(m): 8:47am On Dec 08, 2013 |
Nothing excites a girl more than a mysterious douchebag. The moment they get to know you well, forget it. You will be sentenced to the jail of friend zone by default. 3 Likes |
Re: Having Intimate Feelings/relationship With A Friend by ITbomb(m): 9:15am On Dec 08, 2013 |
losprince: @itbomb "GUY CODE" make the girl jealous, tell her that her friend is hot! make her think you are into some of her friends...You are the man , I will try this n come back with situation report |
Re: Having Intimate Feelings/relationship With A Friend by UyiIredia(m): 11:40am On Dec 08, 2013 |
Maybe she's one of those women who think male friends shouldn't become male livers. But if she trusts you enough to be on your bed, that's a very good sign on the level of trust she his for you IMO. |
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