I met this lady few months ago. We started as friend and later became lovers. She is a decent girl and that what's still giving a back-up till date. I mean, she plan to have her first sex on our marriage night. I love her so much, I find happiness with her anytime she is with me. The problem now is that, she is sexually not attracted to me. What should I do. I want to resolve this issue before we get married and at the same time I don't want to lose her. Please Mod, I will like if this topic is transfer to front page. I really need your advice now. Thank You.

Ao do u mean sexualy not attracted to u?.she said she'll av ha 1st sex on ha honey moon..marry ha n c...ful stop

Why would u marry a girl that's not sexually attracted to you?..hw will u guys make babies? Or later u will start complaining that's she's a cheat..Move on dude., go find a girl who finds you attractive

how did u knw she s not sexually attracted to u.she not giving u sex now doesn't mean she s sexually not attracted to u.in most relationship,d guy loves faster than d gal.give her time,study her.u met few months ago so knw her a lil more.

Bro her pic or ur lying

rill: Bro her pic or ur lying

u can help me with ur mama pix

Thou shall not fornicate!

Op, she is being conservative, that does not mean she's not sexually attracted to you. you stated in your post that 'she wanna have her first sex in her wedding night'. If she shows you she's attracted to you sexually, she's likely going to break break her promise. hold on to your girl.

Now, I'm not talking of her keeping her virginity till that day, what I'm saying is even if she requested for sex, I'm not always arose (I mean being erotic) to her

Lol......now I understands you better. Why marry somebody you're not sexually attracted to?. That's the AGAPE type of love you're feeling bro.

Konji never wire am

cute bobo: u can help me with ur mama pix

cute bobo: Now, I'm not talking of her keeping her virginity till that day, what I'm saying is even if she requested for sex, I'm not always arose (I mean being erotic) to her

You are you own problem. Do you have low self esteem for whatever reason as not to be aroused? Go figure out yourself

Go_n_Die: Konji never wire am

maybe Johnny boy no dey respond to stimuli

shizzle11:


maybe Johnny boy no dey respond to stimuli

my john thomas dey hard well well.

cute bobo: Now, I'm not talking of her keeping her virginity till that day, what I'm saying is even if she requested for sex, I'm not always arose (I mean being erotic) to her

aaaahhhh finally he said what he really meant. change the topic to "i dont find her sexually attractive"

poster you can't marry someone you are not sexually attracted to. You will cheat, you will abuse her and you both will be unhappy. Do you both a favor since it's only been a few months and either talk about it with her (maybe you can maturely figure out how to spice things up) or let her know how you feel and end it. Don't waste time.

Your greatest sex organ is your mind. if your mind is not in it, it wont work. If you already know within your mind that you don't find her sexually attractive then the problem will persist.

OP rephrase the title approriately.

Surely u must have at least found her attractive initially na. Cmon we all dream of all those models but few of us get to marry dem.

If u truly love her and want to marry her, then talk to her abt it and try to get her in shape if she isn't. Like someone said, it's a thing of d mind.

OP confess. Are you gay?

#SMH#...English don enter one chance..

cute bobo: Now, I'm not talking of her keeping her virginity till that day, what I'm saying is even if she requested for sex, I'm not always arose (I mean being erotic) to her

"even if she requested foo sex...."
hom did u come about this tot.al u calculating is s£x.
Either u guys compromised or it aint tru abt dis relatnshp.

Its ur mind playing tricks, it might be becos you have a strong and pure feelings for her. You said you do have normal and healthy erecktions, so don't work ursef up. You'll do fine with her, you only need to calm down.

barack_o_handso: OP confess. Are you gay?

just teLl me u want a partner, idiot

Execution of English by firing squad.

cute bobo: Now, I'm not talking of her keeping her virginity till that day, what I'm saying is even if she requested for sex, I'm not always arose (I mean being erotic) to her

There's a general rule of thumb for guys, if you have a girlfriend that can't make you hard in 30 seconds flat & nothing is wrong with you, break up!!

cute bobo: just teLl me u want a partner, idiot

Just tell the truth and don't keep the poor lady's hope hanging.