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Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Nobody: 12:42am On Dec 19, 2013 |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Nobody: 12:44am On Dec 19, 2013 |
chaircover:frolicking ke? frolicking loun loun,i reject it in jesus name,i reject it with fire and brimstone 8-) ileobas position is still there o,nobody is dragging it with her,not even me |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Nobody: 12:45am On Dec 19, 2013 |
chaircover: ^^^ SH read my response to babygirlgoodnight,sweet dreams :*:*:* |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Miner13: 7:00am On Dec 19, 2013 |
chaircover: But kulyie is looking mr. millionaire so she can just jump into a golden palace where merry making is 2nd to none. That's why many women turned to a kicking ball,they are the type that it's always on the run and end up settling with the riff-raff |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Miner13: 7:07am On Dec 19, 2013 |
kulyie: lmao chaircover is just blowing things out of proportion for reasons best known to her. if you do not know get it now and grab a copy to your brain, that standard of yours just sound like you are a gold digger, which i still you are not. Kulyie answer this again, did you start walking, making a good and clear conversation, starts schooling and starts making and rejecting friends the day you were born? |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Miner13: 7:24am On Dec 19, 2013 |
[quote author=kulyie] I am not saying a starter cannot get married,let him at least CHILL JUST A LITTLE BIT AND SET THINGS STRAIGHT LIKE PUTTING THE BASICS TOGETHER E.G GETTING A STABLE JOB.EVEN IF THEY PAY HIM 5NAIRA PER MONTH,ITS STILL COOL SO FAR IT IS STABLE.AFTER THEN,THE WIFE CAN COME INTO THE PICTURE,COMPLEMENT HIS EFFORTS AND MAKE THINGS WORK SECONDLY,I AM NOT SAYING A WOMAN CANNOT MARRY A STARTER,BUT NOT EVERY WOMAN THINKS LIKE THAT.SOME DONT MIND MARRYING A STARTER AND BUILDING THINGS UP,I AM NOT SAYING HE CANNOT FIND THEM,IT WILL TAKE THE GRACE OF GOD ESPECIALLY IN OUR CENTURY. :* And you are one of those looking for already established home. Just prepare yourself for a possible war because you could end up being the 2nd wife or the 1st wife |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by pickabeau1: 7:28am On Dec 19, 2013 |
interesting debate so far.. coogar on point! kuly.. a woman should support her husband since they are equal anyway and there is no difference we will grant you a concession to bastardise any man that cheats on his woman so that the equation can balance |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by deols(f): 7:33am On Dec 19, 2013 |
coogar: It will not happen to me simply because I won't marry a bush man. I knew a man who said it doesn't matter if I couldn't cook. I can but what if circumstances would not allow it. Not all men carry food for head like it is the most important thing to life. One only has to find the good one. What if she can actually cook but he wants it in some special way that she was never exposed to? hahahaha - nice idea! See you. Very quick to go against women but think you can do as you like. how much of your partner can you learn before marriage. do women not beg their friends to help with the cooking when they are expecting their boyfriends? how is he to know the food was not cooked by his partner? you really dunno how this desperate babes pretend before they cop the ring. true colours glow after marriage, rarely before. A lot, if you are smart. You once mentioned how much smartness is in you to be able to tell the suissive by how she talks and sits..It has suddenly become uneasy?? And who knows, he could have brought about the change in her. He changed and she reacted by shouting. nah - this lesson is for every yet-to-be-married woman out there. go & learn how to cook. the standards of nigerian men are now high. we will not put up with rubbish regardless of the academic qualifications of the wife. How about learning to cook your own food?? Abi you want to starve ni? Imagine that your wife gets sick, you would ask her to cook still? and you won't be able to be of help to her and your children?? The next generation of men won't be lazy, I believe. They will know how to cook and clean for their own good. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by deols(f): 7:39am On Dec 19, 2013 |
Miner13: First of all, who are you?. I have only two things to tell you. 1. Respect yourself. The next time you insult me, I will give it back to you. You don't know me. You have no right whatsoever to talk to me like you did. 2. Don't reply me if you can't type in a way that I can understand you. Maybe, go back to school before quoting me again. |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by deols(f): 7:41am On Dec 19, 2013 |
babygirlfl: My opinion hi5. You are soooo on point. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Nobody: 7:55am On Dec 19, 2013 |
I wonder what's so strange about this matter. Man buys wife(dowry/bride price?) from retailer(parents?), product is defective. Man returns good for after-sales service and people are busy running temperature over that? Abeg, make we hear word. |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Miner13: 7:55am On Dec 19, 2013 |
deols: I am mr wind and you mrs do not touch me. But get this as well i am always blowing around you. If you stand the point that i don't know, wel, your post here speak a million about you. Next time, learn to respect either young or old |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by tintingz(m): 8:06am On Dec 19, 2013 |
deols:Sorry sis, a man that say this to you @bold is deceiving you, either you start learning how to cook now or immediately after you are married before he start showing you his true color. |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by deols(f): 8:11am On Dec 19, 2013 |
Miner13: You sound confused. First, you need to be sent to where you can be taught to properly read and write and then, be taught to reason. Was any of my posts on this thread directed at you before you went haywire referring to my brain?? Who needs to learn to respect the young and the old if not you?? The likes of you are the Op abi?? You are a bush man and should be sent back to where you came from..mtchewww You are a waste of time. I can't have a reasonable conversation with you. See this as the last. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Miner13: 8:12am On Dec 19, 2013 |
fresh_dude: I wonder what's so strange about this matter. Man buys wife(dowry/bride price?) from retailer(parents?), product is defective. Man returns good for after-sales service and people are busy running temperature over that? Abeg, make we hear word. that is the part of our culture that is baffling. Imagine a starter spending close to 3m to get a woman. But that's not the issue. His action is too barbaric. If i am in his shoe, we can be under same roof for more a month she would have every good things at her disposer. But i'l not taste her food, we sleep differently. If she's a reasonable woman i think with this she should pour out her mind if there is anything wrong. |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by deols(f): 8:20am On Dec 19, 2013 |
tintingz: Sorry sis, a man that say this to you @bold is deceiving you, either you start learning how to cook now or immediately after you are married before he start showing you his true color. I can cook though..and he was not deceiving me. I know of a family. The husband does not allow his wife to do anything in the house. He wants her to look clean all the time. and he employed people to do these things for the family. You all need to stop talking like all men are like you. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Miner13: 8:20am On Dec 19, 2013 |
deols: I am the op in case you don't know, but i am not the husband type and i will never be. Can't you just type without abuse? |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Miner13: 8:28am On Dec 19, 2013 |
@deol i am not the way you are thinking. Ok i get a supply to deliver this morning and am almost late. See you later. MERRY XMAS AND HAPPY NEW YEAR IN ADVANCE. Hope to see more of your post. SHALOM! |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Nobody: 9:09am On Dec 19, 2013 |
I am not looking for any mr millionaire.ill rather make my millions myself. read through my posts and you will get my point Miner13: |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Nobody: 9:11am On Dec 19, 2013 |
Gbam again! I wonder why miner thinks life is a 1way road and everyone thinks the same way deols: |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Nobody: 9:25am On Dec 19, 2013 |
I am not saying a eoman shouldnt support her husband.go back to my post.i am not going to repeat myself again pickabeau1: interesting debate so far.. coogar on point! |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Nobody: 9:28am On Dec 19, 2013 |
I hope the 1st paragraph is not for me it better be youre not referring to me to your question,i am sure you can answer that yourself Miner13: |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by deols(f): 9:35am On Dec 19, 2013 |
kulyie: I am not saying a eoman shouldnt support her husband.go back to my post.i am not going to repeat myself again You have made yourself clear jare. Some people decide to read the wrong meanings. I thought differently at first, but when you explained, it became enough. |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by dinachi(m): 9:38am On Dec 19, 2013 |
deols:@ bolded walahi the husband fall my hand!Very soon the wife will ask to be excused from bed duties. I just don't know why some men think that treating their wife like a trophy is the way to go. My wife must cook my meals baring any unforeseen circumstances. Nobody else will take charge of my meals. It is one of the reasons I married her in the first place. Maybe, the husband may soon hire other people to perform bed duties when the wife is tired. I just dont understand some men. I think some men needs sex change operation ASAP! |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by pickabeau1: 9:41am On Dec 19, 2013 |
Since you believe women can support men without expecting anything in return or subjecting the man to verbal assault or abuse that the man is useless or sth. In that case all is well and dandy kulyie: I am not saying a eoman shouldnt support her husband.go back to my post.i am not going to repeat myself again |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Nobody: 10:00am On Dec 19, 2013 |
Onislolenu ni won ni deols: |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Nobody: 10:03am On Dec 19, 2013 |
Marriage should be about MUTUAL BENEFIT ASSURANCE.women are not mother christmas.woth that you should understand or do men give wirhout expecting anything in return?when you answer that,thats the answer to your question. pickabeau1: Since you believe women can support men without expecting anything in return or subjecting the man to verbal assault or abuse that the man is useless or sth. |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Nobody: 10:05am On Dec 19, 2013 |
Then you need a chef.there is more to a wife than cooking.when you are not wonbiliki wobiya dinachi: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by tintingz(m): 10:16am On Dec 19, 2013 |
deols:So cooking will make someone dirty? I just don't know what to say to that man seriously. If the wife can cook and they employ a househelp that's fine but a situation when the wife can't cook anything for the family? I really pity for the children. |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by tintingz(m): 10:25am On Dec 19, 2013 |
dinachi:LOL...probably cooking the wife in bed since cooking his dirty to the husband |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Sissie(f): 10:49am On Dec 19, 2013 |
tintingz: Sorry sis, a man that say this to you @bold is deceiving you, either you start learning how to cook now or immediately after you are married before he start showing you his true color. Their are men like that, who are not bothered about their wife cooking their meals, they hire a cook immediately they get married. |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Sissie(f): 10:50am On Dec 19, 2013 |
dinachi: Funny enough men like that are actually much more satisfied sexually, wife isn't tired to attend to him anytime. |
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