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Singles' Corner:::: by J3da: 8:58am On Dec 17, 2013
This Is For Ladies: 7 SIGNS HE'S NOT THE ONE FOR YOU AND YOU NEED TO MOVE ON.....

1. YOU FEEL JUDGED
One of the biggest signs he’s not the one is that you feel like you are being judged. If you feel like you can’t be yourself or if you feel like he’s judging you when you are being yourself, it’s a safe bet that he’s not the one. The right guy won’t ever judge you.

2. NO EMOTION
Well, this one is pretty obvious. If he isn’t showing any emotion, or any real emotion, after dating for several weeks – or even months – chances are pretty good that he isn’t the one. If the guy you are dating is actually into you, he will certainly have some sort of emotion. He may not say “I love you” right away, but he will surely let you know he has strong feelings for you with some sort of emotion.

3. YOU’RE NOT A PRIORITY
If he is always going out without checking in with you, or if he constantly makes plans with you and then breaks them to do something else, you are not his priority. If you aren’t his priority, it’s a safe bet that he isn’t the one.

4. YOU CAN’T COMMUNICATE WITH HIM
Communication is one of the basic foundations of a successful relationship. If you find it difficult to communicate with him, regarding issues, your feelings, or even just everyday events, then you can probably safely say that he isn’t the one.

5. YOU DON’T TRUST HIM
Trust is the number one essential ingredient for a successful relationship. If you don’t trust what the guy you are dating tells you, you don’t trust where he has been and you just don’t trust anything he does, then you shouldn’t be considering packing your bags; you should be doing so while you are reading this.

6. HE LIES
Have you ever caught your guy in a lie? I’m not talking about a little white lie regarding an outfit you’re wearing so that you can actually get somewhere at home either; I’m talking about a real, true hurtful and harmful lie. If your guy has lied about where he has been, where he is going and who has been hanging out with – or anything else as serious as this – you need to ditch him because he isn’t the one.

7. HE ISN’T INVESTING
You can’t be the only one making an effort in your relationship; and you can’t be giving more than he is. If you feel like it’s a 60-40, a 70-30 or a 90-10 investment (your investment being the higher number), you need to walk away. A successful relationship requires a 50-50 investment, and the right guy will want to make that kind of investment.

Dating can be tough. However, just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean that you should stick it out because you are afraid of being alone; if the guy you are seeing is showing any of these signs, it’s best to pack up and move on.

What’s your stance on this?

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