onyinye2:

Oka go and be cheap. And all you going to get is cheap girls who only buy things with coupons.

You mean it is bad to buy something with coupon?
tell me u have never gone to a boxing day;s sales?
na wa for yu oh, the more you talk, the more you are making me think that u too like money oh.

StephenP:

On the first date, she better be ready to go to Chevy's or Olive Garden.

Olive Garden? well that is your cup of tea, but personally if i was a dude i wouldn't take no girl there on the first date. Because pending this girl is a GD, well she gonna make you bring out your pay check. or you betta go get hair net to start washing plates.

dreeldee:

Nope you're wrong, if you're the expensive type, nothing could be more befitting of your status than you giving me a treat instead of expecting me to spend 100s of dollars on a first date

oh goodness gracious. opportunist.

onyinye2:


oh goodness gracious. opportunist.

lmao so what do you call yourself for expecting same of a guy huh

$$Rhino:

You mean it is bad to buy something with coupon?
tell me u have never gone to a boxing day;s sales?
na wa for yu oh, the more you talk, the more you are making me think that u too like money oh.

Oka yal are getting me wrong. To me money is a necessary thing but it aint everything. Personally on the first date, i rather you come over to my house and eat what i prepared. Oka or go to your house and see how you cook. But if you are going to take me out for our first date, yes im going to expect you to pay, and im not going to take advantage of it. And besides i dont eat much any ways. i might just order a salad and call it a day.

dreeldee:

lmao so what do you call yourself for expecting same of a guy huh

I call myself Onyinye.

Speaking of first dates.

You pursue, you pay, simple.

For those girls who think that a guy should always pay no matter what, if it was you who pursued, atleast have some sense and bring money just in case, if the guy offers, that's cool, but don't automatically think the guy must pay, espcially if you were the one who asked him to come on a date with you.

Can you imagine asking somebody out on a date to one fancy restaurant, you suck the restaurant dry as in devour every crumb that comes your way, chew and grind every bone as if your life depends on it, when it is time to pay the bill, you are just sitting there like a sack of yams waiting for the guy or girl to pay up when it was your idea in the first place to go. The girl/guy thought that considering the fact that you pursued, you would have brought money to pay, both of you have no money, it's either you do a runner, or it's dishes for the rest of the night. Enjoy Yaselves, Nansense.

:p

word ibk word i concur

onyinye2:

Oka yal are getting me wrong. To me money is a necessary thing but it aint everything. Personally on the first date, i rather you come over to my house and eat what i prepared. Oka or go to your house and see how you cook. But if you are going to take me out for our first date, yes im going to expect you to pay, and im not going to take advantage of it. And besides i don't eat much any ways. i might just order a salad and call it a day.

well said now, so what if u come to my house and i cant cook, will u be willing to cook, aand also, while you are cooking, hope, i will be allowed to be cooking something else within and in you.

ibkaye:

Speaking of first dates.

You pursue, you pay, simple.

For those girls who think that a guy should always pay no matter what, if it was you who pursued, atleast have some sense and bring money just in case, if the guy offers, that's cool, but don't automatically think the guy must pay, espcially if you were the one who asked him to come on a date with you.

Can you imagine asking somebody out on a date to one fancy restaurant, you suck the restaurant dry as in devour every crumb that comes your way, chew and grind every bone as if your life depends on it, when it is time to pay the bill, you are just sitting there like a sack of yams waiting for the guy or girl to pay up when it was your idea in the first place to go. The girl/guy thought that considering the fact that you pursued, you would have brought money to pay, both of you have no money, it's either you do a runner, or it's dishes for the rest of the night. Enjoy Yaselves, Nansense.

haha

Rhino agbaya

dreeldee:

Rhino agbaya

wetin be my crime oh, no be cook we dey do?
you got some bad mind, i might have to use bleach to clean ur mind

what do you want to be cooking within and in her?

Hmmm, first date even, a restaurant is not ideal to me 

Maybe like cinemas and then your house or mine

He wants to cook on her bakassi while she cooks on the stove.        Ashewo!

$$Rhino:

well said now, so what if u come to my house and i can't cook, will u be willing to cook, aand also, while you are cooking, hope, i will be allowed to be cooking something else within and in you.

Nwannem nwoke, if i were to come to your place and you can't cook, of course i would be more than willing to help. I love to cook. But if im helping, yeah you are helping to. You aint going to sit down and watch t.v. while im cooking. Mba. And don't even try to start cooking something else up because i will instantly turn the fire off. and afterwards, we both help clean up. not just me or just you.

ibkaye:

Hmmm, first date even, a restaurant is not ideal to me

Maybe like cinemas[b] and then your house or mine [/b]

For family introduction abi cooking in and within  

this thread is turning to something else with all this cooking within and in her

HCH3COO:

For family introduction abi cooking in and within  

Yes, before I start dating someone, I will surely introduce him to my parents, we can just chillax  

Whoever initiated the first date gotta pay, which in most cases is the guy.

ibkaye:

[b]Yes, before I start dating someone, I will surely introduce him to my parents, [/b]we can just chillax  

VERY DANGEROUS!!! my father is VERY intimidating igbo man. He is a real village man. I will first go on the first date to check him out first and see if he handle Nnam.

chiogo:

Whoever initiated the first date gotta pay, which in most cases is the guy.

Well, I actually agree with you on that.

chiogo:

Whoever initiated the first date gotta pay, which in most cases is the guy.

Abi o, so for me, the guy will always have to pay on the first date because i can never and will never pursue, olorun ma je, eh eh eh eh

onyinye2:

VERY DANGEROUS!!! my father is VERY intimidating igbo man. He is a real village man. I will first go on the first date to check him out first and see if he handle Nnam.

My dad too came from the village, yoruba village to be exact, but he is understanding and knows that I am responsible therefore trusts me, My mum on the other hand, tense Hausa lady, I know she will ask me so many questions, but that's what mothers do abi  

chiogo:

Whoever initiated the first date gotta pay, which in most cases is the guy.

Sorry i can't agree, the guy should always pay on the first date.

onyinye2:

Sorry i can't agree, the guy should always pay on the first date.

Eh!? So if the girl is the one that did all the toasting, all the begging for the guy to come on a date with her, he is the one that should automatically pay!? My dear, you are paying too much attention to 'tradition', let's be resonable about this

ibkaye:

Eh!? So if the girl is the one that did all the toasting, all the begging for the guy to come on a date with her, he is the one that should automatically pay!? My dear, you are paying too much attention to 'tradition', let's be resonable about this

Hey this is what i was brought with. The guy pays on the first date.

you think i'll pay after toasting me and asking me out on a date you'll only embarrass yourself at the restauraunt or wherever i swear

dreeldee:

you think i'll pay after toasting me and asking me out on a date you'll only embarrass yourself at the restauraunt or wherever i swear

Roflmao abi o!

onyinye2:

Hey this is what i was brought with. The guy pays on the first date.

That should not be your mindset abeg, you are the one who pursued, therefore attempt to pay, in most cases, the guy most likely will offer, even seeing you attempting to pay may impress him. But don't just keep it it mind that the guy must pay.

Can You Imagine 

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I think it's the person that initiated the date.

Person who asked the other for a date or th eperson that has enough money.

ibkaye:

Eh!? So if the girl is the one that did all the toasting, all the begging for the guy to come on a date with her, he is the one that should automatically pay!? My dear, you are paying too much attention to 'tradition', let's be resonable about this

i have said it that Onyinye watches too much hollywood romance movies with attachment.
Just make sure you bring money sha. If not, you go wash plate tire, clean table die.

Im just saying that on the first date, the man should pay. But if i was the one who did the "toasting" then i would probably invite you over and cook you dinner then take you out.

LASIEFAIRE:

i have said it that Onyinye watches too much hollywood romance movies with attachment.
Just make sure you bring money sha. If not, you go wash plate tire, clean table die.

Please dont allow my name to be in any of your post.