Hello ladies and gentle men in the house, Im a newly employed young lecturer in one of the federal tertiary institutions in nigeria,I have nobody Im dating presently and I believe this my new job will offer me the opportunity of meeting the lady of my choice but how to approach such person is what baffle me, please get me clearly guys Im not saying I dont know how to woo a girl of my choice, the bone of contention here is what are the ways do you think your fellow nairalander can follow because I dont want students and other people to believe that I want to use undue influence or my position over any lady and I want to maitain a high level of secrecy about the stuff, so house your matured contributions are highly needed.