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Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Nobody: 9:48am On Dec 24, 2013 |
Arsenate: wtf is the girl yapping about? she murdered 3 innocent beings; terminated 3 destinies, yet she expect to go scot free and have a happy fulfilled life? she deserves more than she's gotten.yes she murdered 3 human beings but the man is also an accomplice to murder because his sperm is involved.she didnt impregnate herself so he shouldnt think he has gotten away with it.moreover no human being or an accomplice of murder gets away with it. Even if he decided not to marry,fine,but when the lady told the guy she is pregnant,i am sure the man must have said their usual lines ' we didnt agree about having a child,i am not the father of that child or go and abort it'.if he said any of the 3 or more,he is as guilty as the abortionist or the lady that opened her vag1na for a child to be aborted,EOD! 1 Like |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Nobody: 9:55am On Dec 24, 2013 |
Cykik: can't you read. Keep blaming the grl. As if,if you saw her you would open that your dirty mouth to say that nonsense to her. In her pain, you may be the one she would kill.scattering the marriage is just an immediate solution,it is not a permanent solution.leaving it to God is the only solution as acid bath etc will only compound the problem. The only thing about Gods judgement is that it is slow,but when God decides to visit his judgement on an individual,i have not seen the man born of a woman that will escape it.it is usually brutal,slow and painful but before the judgement comes,it might take years.infact it might be after his kids are all grown up and he is retired from all his labour,thats when his own punishment will start.many atimes,women's own comes immediately but that doesnt mean Gods slowness to judgement will not happen 3 Likes |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Nobody: 10:11am On Dec 24, 2013 |
kulyie: scattering the marriage is just an immediate solution,it is not a permanent solution.leaving it to God is the only solution as acid bath etc will only compound the problem.but it can save the other grl from the hands of the fool. 2 Likes |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Nobody: 10:21am On Dec 24, 2013 |
Lol well i cant say about the girl because when some girls are in love,their brains and senses of reasoning is deactivated except few though Cykik: but it can save the other grl from the hands of the fool. |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Nobody: 10:22am On Dec 24, 2013 |
kulyie: you have said it all. Initially the culprit often felt like a winner and then slowly they start paying the price. 1 Like |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by lertee(f): 10:25am On Dec 24, 2013 |
I know where they sell otapiapia . |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by lomaxx: 10:28am On Dec 24, 2013 |
Foolish girls will always get pregnant, abort and claim she did him a favour by aborting. I mean what the fucq was she thinking was going to happen after she had unprotected sex with a man? That she will develop wings and fly? What happened to her knowledge of contraceptive? If the man was stupid enough not to use condoms, then she was more stupid not to have plan B. You have unprotected sex , wake up and celebrate the feeling ....then act surprised when the doctor declares you pregnant. You must be very foolish. There is one power you cannot take away from anybody. Even God cannot take that power from you. It's the power of choice. Anybody can choose to marry who he/she wants to without any explanation to anybody. You don't have to kill people over their choices . They didn't kill you to make yours. So why the sweat? 12 Likes |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by fyneboi79(m): 10:35am On Dec 24, 2013 |
lomaxx: Foolish girls will always get pregnant, abort and claim she did him a favour by aborting.Straight up man!!! Hi5!! 1 Like |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Nobody: 11:17am On Dec 24, 2013 |
Cykik: can't you read. Keep blaming the grl. As if,if you saw her you would open that your dirty mouth to say that nonsense to her. In her pain, you may be the one she would kill.. abeggi..pasn force ha b4 ..those helpless innocents she kill fa....is dt nt d worst betrayal...its just nature punishing ha 4 d life of those innocents..e neva strt sef....d man go face I'm own ma...turn by turn.... |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Nobody: 1:13pm On Dec 24, 2013 |
lomaxx: Foolish girls will always get pregnant, abort and claim she did him a favour by aborting. i need ur mail box address to send down your carton of heineken. u d man! |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Ghost01(m): 7:02pm On Dec 24, 2013 |
Shit happens, sugar! And time takes it all away. Life goes on, it has to. Don't destroy yourself in the process of getting used to being alone, 'cause the truth is that everyone, no matter the attachment(s), is alone. |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Nobody: 8:27am On Dec 25, 2013 |
It's really shocking that people see it as a fault of the victim. Na wa o. People wicked sha. 1 Like |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by shadelek(m): 12:18am On Dec 27, 2013 |
Comrade kenny: I don't really have much 2 say,cus u've actually help him achieve his motives by committing abortions....U jst have 2 let go,anytin u do from now on will definitely Hurt u more....I'll Advice u let God judge.....And you think God will actually jugde after 3 abortions? |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by shadelek(m): 12:24am On Dec 27, 2013 |
Here is the fact.... The most dangerous and wicked Man wants to marry the most decent lady. The guy is fed up of her coz she presented herself so cheap to him. Well, life goes on sha,let her wake up and have a better plan. Remember what does not kill you makes you strong |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by aventura: 12:31am On Dec 27, 2013 |
I've always asked myself this question. Why is it that women get surprised to hear that they are pregnant? Does Someone go into an exam hall and be surprised that he us unable to answer the questions knowing that he did not prepare for the test? GIGO: Garbage in Garbage out. As simple as that. The op has herself to blame. Not once but five times. That I'd stupidity if you ask me. If I was a girl I can never find myself in thus situation and that is the fact. If I hear of any murdered groom to be I would invite the police to this site through this op. What nonsense!!! |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by faitheverest(f): 12:37am On Dec 27, 2013 |
Sorry dear,life goes on! Live your life like a giant,like d world's greatest,like nothing happened,like he never existed. Be focused in life and you will live to tell the story to the younger generation! No matter what,you are not a cheap girl! 2 Likes |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by aventura: 12:43am On Dec 27, 2013 |
prettyjo: @ claremont...pls, dnt be a fool.Read in between d lines.Merry xmas to uand why is she a fool. Have you aborted a baby before? |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by GeneralShepherd(m): 12:45am On Dec 27, 2013 |
kennygee: This is why issues like Acid baths and murders happen. How can you use a woman like that and toss her away only to marry someone else? Hell knows no fury like a woman scorned. Trust me, if the lady kills the guy, she will willingly and happily go to prison and serve what ever sentence she has to. If you have no honourable intentions for a woman, leave her the hell alone. Spare me the drama,anybody that can't handle rejection is a sociopath and should be behind bars |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Licensed2Kill(m): 12:46am On Dec 27, 2013 |
Pictures or it didnt hapn. |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by lifestyle1(m): 12:47am On Dec 27, 2013 |
Hmmmmmm |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by KenJak(m): 12:48am On Dec 27, 2013 |
claremont: You spoke very well sir. And if she eventually kills the guy too,then she's a complete murderer killing many people either willingly or not cos those aborted pregnancies might be twins,triplet or more. |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Nobody: 12:49am On Dec 27, 2013 |
2s£xy: Hmmm..2sexy has forgiven somebody and is preaching forgiveness ! Am happy for you bro |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by bolaji3071(m): 12:51am On Dec 27, 2013 |
[color=#006600][/color]nawao |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by dharmie(f): 12:54am On Dec 27, 2013 |
[quote author=aventura]I've always asked myself this question. Why is it that women get surprised to hear that they are pregnant? Does Someone go into an exam hall and be surprised that he us unable to answer the questions knowing that he did not prepare for the test? Mistakes DO happen. Nothing is 100% foolproof GIGO: Garbage in Garbage out. As simple as that. The op has herself to blame. Not once but five times. That I'd stupidity if you ask me. The OP is aware of her mistakes... Would your decision be different if the guy left her after 2kids? If I was a girl I can never find myself in thus situation and that is the fact. Well you're not a girl. It's convenient to judge. Maybe you should walk a mile in her shoes... But you CAN'T If I hear of any murdered groom to be I would invite the police to this site through this op. What nonsense!!! May there be no such occurrence. @ OP pls tell her time heals, she should give time some time |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Nobody: 12:59am On Dec 27, 2013 |
The only thing I fear is Karma. What goes around comes around. |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Tabs2B(m): 1:05am On Dec 27, 2013 |
Wow such a touching story and a pathetic one @ that. But that guy must be 2face 2nd, everytime him hit na pikin.If he continues this way na village em go born. Lady, I understand how painful u feel but killing him won't solve your problem it would only hunt u thru the rest of your life. What u need 2do let your past go, though is not easy but is possible so u can forge ahead for a better future for your self. In life shits do happen. Life goes on !! |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Nobody: 1:10am On Dec 27, 2013 |
@ OP "We both enjoy the moments and i gave my all to keep us together. I lost my decisions to him, i tried not to wrong him, he was my total desire for a man, and how would i want to lose him?" ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ That is where she got it all wrong. I don't blame her, but its the problem with 'all' ladies(nigerians). --She enjoyed the moments, yea. #1 "Giving all to keep us together" is foolishness. #2 "He is my total desire for a man", who said she was his desire? #3 "how would I want to lose him?". Girls and ladies, don't make ur desires blind you from reasoning. And don't make a guy ur desire cos u tink he wld be a good husband. Just stick to enjoying the moment, and hope it turns out well. Don't "give all to keep him," it wld only mak u miserable when he is gone. "Giving all" doesn't guarantee he will give back, and don't expect it, and don't assume he owes u back... U gave all, remember? 1 Like |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by castrokins(m): 1:11am On Dec 27, 2013 |
Ok |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Blackeard(m): 1:15am On Dec 27, 2013 |
D-Explorer: What?? Please kill the nigga its allowed!! |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by AmaechiLinus(m): 1:17am On Dec 27, 2013 |
I can't interfer 'cos when u agreed 4 him i was nt there. |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Nobody: 1:24am On Dec 27, 2013 |
@ Op,Sorry you experienced all that. Time may not heal all wounds but you'll definately feel much better as you try to move on with your life. Turn to God and ask Him for strength and guidance. Learn from your mistakes, allow your self to heal physically,psychologically and emotionally before getting into another relationship. And if you can, stay off premarital sex. It would be one of the best decisions you'll ever make. I wish you well on this journey. |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by IfyChuky(m): 1:31am On Dec 27, 2013 |
It so hurts me how silly some cud be. Its quite obvious dat some are commenting for fun , yl others are seeking to reveal their foolery from their bag of Abundance. It aint a thing of d new how smooth matters turn out to be worse.. But as Irk-some as it seem, I pray God grants her relief. Who ever blames her to have bn an Abortionist for d sake of protecting their mutual interest, Is but being a renounced fo-ol ('m sori). I think she was trying to save guard their tomorrow, thus she cudn't afford bn a barrier. She possiby cud have made repeated misteks, dats understandabl, but God knows it aint d best of tyms to start casting blames. I'm of d thought that she had mostly done most of her deeds at d blindfold of love. Mehnnn... Such is terribly pitiable, bt I pray she finds d gut to let go! Vengence only grants one self-imposed satisfaction, but it aint worth d stress. She beta lets go for Good: #JustLeaveAm4God! 2 Likes |
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