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Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by qtx(m): 12:26pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
@OP, are you following these replies? if really you do then , i just want to say that two wrongs cant make a right. I have seen a woman passing through even worse than your case in the hands of a young man only for her to be dumped for another woman, she almost died but was consoled , a few years later the said guy after marrying the new guy died in a car accident. What am i saying, God may be trying to take you away from calamity unknowing to you. Some men will run away that way getting there they will start runing into one problem or the other then they will begin to look for the initial girl they abandoned. I am not praying the guy in question should have problems. but i am saying God has a plan you do not know about that is in your favour. Dont kill yourself and dont kill him either, God said in His great book" As the heaven is far from the earth so are my ways far from the ways of men", What God has for you you may not phantom. My advise is clean your tears, repent and ask God for forgiveness. Draw closer to Him and soonest He will give you your own rightful man that will never leave you and would stand by you come rain or sun to build your own happy family. Yes it is very possible that is when you would even realise that you would have made a great mistaken had it been you got married to the irresponsible guy that left you. It is well with you my dear. the Lord is your strength. 1 Like |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Zippora: 12:27pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
The signs were there all along but she refused to see, blinded by one sided 'rove' |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by greggng: 12:29pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
I can't blame you for anything cos no one is above mistake. When I was ready for my nysc my girl friend got pregnant and I told her I wasn't ready cos am yet to get a job and I don't want the child suffer. She refused to abort the baby and her reasons was that she has done it several times since she started dating me. I was mad at her cos I felt betrayed cos I only got to know the last incident. She has given birth to a baby boy but I cannot marry her cos I felt she had killed must of my babies. If you ve aborted the baby pls go on ur knees and pray for forgiveness and dedicate ur life to christ. You will see a decent man that will come for u and both of u will leave happily.don't even try to kill him cos it will increase the number of people u ve already wasted. If he loves u he will come back begging |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by ceaz4r(m): 12:34pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
The good guys are never good enough for you ladies. You always prefer those who treat you like poo. What kind of love will make you blind to the obvious? & in all your exposure in life, you never heard of Condoms? Next time, cut your womb out to prove love (or stupidity). Let me correct an impression. Not all men are bad or wicked as you put it. Some men turned 'bad' cos of the experience they got from women they tried to show care & love. |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Bimpe29: 12:45pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
A three time murderess. |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by honEmirate(m): 12:48pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
WHY all these insincerity and mischief..... You r here advising her to leave d revenge to GOD when she acted against d will of dat supreme being by starting wiv pre-marital S*ex and later progressed to MURDER of 3 innocent souls 1 Like |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by StepG: 12:57pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
2s£xy: |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Clinton207: 1:01pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
hello gurl i̶̲̥̅̊ read through Ūя̲̅ story and i̶̲̥̅̊ am so short of words,but all i̶̲̥̅̊ can say is go back to God and ask him for forgiveness, cus U̶̲̥̅̊ have offended him committing fornication den proceeding to murder 3 innocent generations,just don't think of any futher of offending God. Turn to God he can pick U̶̲̥̅̊ from Ūя̲̅ state of mess and turn U̶̲̥̅̊ into a wonderful message 1 Like |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by obosirow: 1:04pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
Wow! very pathethic and touching story! I feel for her. Condemnation will not bring solution. What she needs is healing for her soul. She is hurt and need a touch of love which brings healing to every hurt. Killing Chris will only incur guilt and more heartbreak to her fragile heart. Forgive and let go and move on with your life dear; a great future lies in wait for you. Let Jesus rule your heart NOW and turn your shame into fame and give you a new name. We hurt Jesus by rejecting his love; He yet forgave us all our inquity and healed all our diseases. Jesus is what and who you needs now. Ask Jesus to come into your life, Forgive your sins, heal your soul, Establish his love in your heart. |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by katsim(m): 1:14pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
My dear live him don't kill him if you do that makes it four persons you have killed please let God judge him, God knew how to deal with him that he will regret and never in your life sleep with any man before marriage. Cos some time when one get married and is waiting on God for child bearing once you did abortion the man will start telling people that you did abortion that is why you don`t have a child. Just ask God to for give you and pray with psalm 51v 1~end. Please try and advise people to keep their baby to me if I were you that 1st time I will keep the baby. Just come close to God and abstain from sin believe me God will give you a man better than him my love it is well. I am married if you would't mind call me I will like to pray with you God is able just call me we need to. Talk and pray together 08033200028 please let him be this is not the end of you like you future is bright my love don't mind him he must pay for that. And any time you are with a child for a man just tell the person and the parent of the person and you parent if the person says no just keep the child that kind of child are stars but we don't know it I have seen one like that my brother`s friend now the guy is money is self so let him be he is not God believe me God knows the best. |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by leonard509(m): 1:33pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
But why you go commit abortion firstna those babies wey you flush dey pursue you so. . .if to say your mama abort you and GOD giv you chance to do am something,,you go buy ice_cream for am? ? ? ? . . .all these girls of nowadays. .u abort first one,,e no do u,,second one,third one. .haba . .infact it serves you right!! You don't even deserve a sorry!! |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by katsim(m): 1:34pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
Please ladies don't abort a child because of any man that the same man will commend you for that in life see let me tell you sex is not love and another thing is that some ladies are use to ask for money for men so they too ask for sex that it is. As for me I don`t ask for money and I don`t go to my friend`s house we met at mr bigg`s and I don`t eat there so some of them will now ask me to pay for my self while he pay for him self so no room for sex if you love me wait for me that was how I got married some said they can`t cope I asked them to live and later they came back begging to marry me that they have not seen a girl like me but they I am marry so I can`t help please know whom you are to me I am a queen I don`t know about you. Why must you allow them to toy with your body? Marriage or no marriage my body is not for sale |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Mulahmanbmr(m): 1:49pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
Wait o she dey Madt ni 1..,2..,3 she just dey open her legs Smh no sense of using condom |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by uglyBetty1(f): 1:50pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
The story is indeed a sad one. Nobody needs to be blame, but one thing we need to pray is that we should not find our selves in such condition. The lady should not even think of killing the man because dt is worst. She might end up in jail. She should try and forget the guy. I know its not easy but God will help her. I know of a lady that was with a guy for 15 years and the guy ended up marrying another person though it hurts, but d lady went on with her life. May be the guy was not the one for you nd u cant force a guy to marry you. Take heart, ur own will come. Just ask God for forgiviness for the souls u aborted and visit motherless babies home and spend some time there. Our loving God will definetly forgive you and give you a better man. |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Odehfamily(m): 2:35pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
Please any Update on ASUU Strike?? |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by mirob(f): 2:52pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
kulyie: As usual they are at it again.well i dont feel sorry for either of the 2 parties because with in a matter of time,their judgement will come.apparently the girls own is first,its for certain judgement will be visited on the man. God will definitely punish this man that made you to become so hard hearted in matters concerning love. |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by CooldudeY2J: 3:29pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
This is y i don't believe in sex b4 marriage @ Op seek peace with God he is willing and ready to heal u. Shalom |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Tallesty1(m): 3:41pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
temi4fash: Mehn,, dis is so scary i cant believe some of the comments m reading on this thread.... Karma is already dealing with the gal, dumping is the price for her first abortion, more are yet so she better repent and pray. |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by DExplorer1: 3:42pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
qtx: @OP, are you following these replies?Yeah, she was here an hour ago. |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by ikennaya100(m): 3:51pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
sorry pals, I don't want to be sentimental ova this. U committed 3 abortions and now planning to kill. God have mercy on u and ur ex lover. Sex is meant for married people and not for d singles. if she had obeyed this, nairalanders wouldn't have head this. No man who truly wants to marry a lady will support her to do abortion, no matter what d reason might be. One big problem I have noticed wit ladies is that, they see sex as luv. and for men sex is no luv. A man doing everything for a woman plus quality sex does not mean he will marry u. Be wise ladies! Girl I know how bad u feel, but try to forget him completely. firstly, go to hospital for necessary checkups. that will give u reason to let him go, reparckage urself , find reasons to look good and wait for ur real man. make sure u close ur legs from men until u Ar married. hapi x-mass.sorry pals, I don't want to be sentimental ova this. U committed 3 abortions and now planning to kill. God have mercy on u and ur ex lover. Sex is meant for married people and not for d singles. if she had obeyed this, nairalanders wouldn't have head this. No man who truly wants to marry a lady will support her to do abortion, no matter what d reason might be. One big problem I have noticed wit ladies is that, they see sex as luv. and for men sex is no luv. A man doing everything for a woman plus quality sex does not mean he will marry u. Be wise ladies! Girl I know how bad u feel, but try to forget him completely. firstly, go to hospital for necessary checkups. that will give u reason to let him go, reparckage urself , find reasons to look good and wait for ur real man. make sure u close ur legs from men until u Ar married. hapi x-mass.sorry pals, I don't want to be sentimental ova this. U committed 3 abortions and now planning to kill. God have mercy on u and ur ex lover. Sex is meant for married people and not for d singles. if she had obeyed this, nairalanders wouldn't have head this. No man who truly wants to marry a lady will support her to do abortion, no matter what d reason might be. One big problem I have noticed wit ladies is that, they see sex as luv. and for men sex is no luv. A man doing everything for a woman plus quality sex does not mean he will marry u. Be wise ladies! Girl I know how bad u feel, but try to forget him completely. firstly, go to hospital for necessary checkups. that will give u reason to let him go, reparckage urself , find reasons to look good and wait for ur real man. make sure u close ur legs from men until u Ar married. hapi x-mass. |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by shineeye1: 4:09pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
We must first admit that most of our pains in life arise from our inability to follow God's clear prescriptions for living. We often get stung by our own prefered alternatives. As a result, we ought to own up to our failures and courageously bear them without sounding sanctimonious or seeking justice on lawless grounds. Truth be told, both parties to an unauthorised intimacy remain free of marital ties regardless of whatever commitment any party has made. The young man remains free to marry another lady as dictated by better judgment from self or parents or guardians. Same applies in changed roles. People should be careful in life . The greatest honour a lady can give herself is to close the thigh till she ties the knot. If you take the risk and gamble outside the rule- you are on your own! Bear the truth and you will be fine! As for this lady, the best advice is to take up the opportunity of a new begining on a well assured principle of life. 1 Like |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by SirCee: 4:19pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
My dear, your story is very pathetic and heart touching. However, I want you to thank your God that you are alive today. I am not a prophet of doom, but I want to assure you that your future is bright. God is telling you now and direct that the man in question is not your real husband, and that you will gnash your teeth if you ever make a mistake of marrying him. Be glad and trust in God, he can never and will never forsake you. What is happening might be painful to you as a human being, but in no distance time, you will overcome this and have a permanent happiness that knows no bound. Remain blessed. |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Nawtykid: 4:25pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
d babe dey craze wella!U did d first time,he told u 2 abort n u did.....d second time,same story, n u didn't smell a rat.....d third time,u went n took in again n aborted..........how do u expect him 2 marry u?lemme tell u eh,just 4get about it o!and ask Baba God 4 serious forgiveness cuz u re a killer! |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by adconline(m): 5:13pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
Toks2008:Keep basking in ignorance! U were callous and reckless to have s3xwithout protection a d then went to a quack doctor to carry out an abortion. You put ur lives at risk by having unprotected s3x and then subjected the girl to further risk by having her go for abortion at a quack clinic. Stop praising your stupidity and reckless lifestyle! |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Fennyflux(f): 5:15pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
After three abortions, dere's no big deal in killing d man cos she's already a killer. But dat wouldn't be the best thing to do in this case. I feel she shud let it pass tho its not easy but its possible and that shouldn't make her shut her heart to other proposals as there are still good guys out there. Her Mr. right will surely come. #its not like her womb is already damaged# |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Utchry: 5:19pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
wayforward: i need a wife Asap Ask for the girl's number. You can bring her succour by marrying her. Who knows, maybe you the chosen one. |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by adconline(m): 5:21pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
Oluwaseun Temmy: If i were you i will not try to abort the third pregnant, nd i will make sure that i m present on there wedding day, anytime pastor asked who doesn't want them to be joined together as one, then i will raise up my hand nd i will explain to them dat i m pregnant for him.You sound like a desperado who wants to trap a man with pregnancy. Selfishly protect urself. |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by adconline(m): 5:26pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
See how some women are talking of love as if it's something u can eat or cash at the bank.the guy in question neither promised marriage nor engaged her.. She was the only one who had her mind up on this marriage thing. She was desperate and wanted to use pregnancies to trap the guy. |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Utchry: 5:37pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
victorazy: "ALL women..." Is your mother a woman? If yes, that means she's inclusive of your definition of ALL WOMEN. Demented he-goat! 2 Likes |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by missvera(f): 6:56pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
Lesson learnt; Never risk your life all in the name of LOVE/LUST. |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by dsylvo(m): 6:57pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
GET ANODA MAN TO MARRY U AND GET BABIES 4 HIM, IT IS DAT SIMPLE. PLS LET UR EX LIVE HIS GOD GIVEN LIFE. PRAY 4 FORGIVENESS, REPENT & LIVE UR NORMAL LIFE. |
Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Deglo514(f): 7:00pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
Lady what u've done is evil before God and man, and tinkin abt anoda murder wil worsen d case. Pick up d broken pieces of ur life and go to God in repentance genuiely, He wil accept u and give peace of mind. Hope u've learnt ur lesson. Guys hardly marry any girl dey kn dat commit abortion, instead marry abortionist unknowly. Be wise! |
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