My GF of 5 years out of the blue one day broke up with me. It was truly a shock, I didn't even see it coming. It turns out, there is someone else. From my own research, this person has not been in her life very long. I don't know how or when they met, but suddenly I am out of the picture. Our relationship has been through so much. My year long deployment, the death of her mother, and us taking care of her disabled sister. I just don't understand how this came to be. And now she's gone away with this other person for the weekend. It's been a month now and I'm still hurting as if it was the day of the break up. I have this knowing inside of me that she is my soulmate, my one and only. I waited my whole life for her. I always had a feeling since I was younger that I was only meant to be with one person. I dated but never felt anything for anybody. Not until her. I WAS 26 THEN! I waited for the love of my life, my first and last for 26 years and all of a sudden it's gone. Our relationship had it's share of struggles, and I by no means would have won gf of the year. I know it might sound corny, but everything inside of me is still telling me that we are meant to be together. I had to let her go so we could both grow and experiance things and that life will eventually lead us on the same path again.

crackhaus: Destiny and love should not be used in the same sentence...my opinion!

Love is too dynamic to be tied to a person's destiny...why? Because it is an emotion.
Emotions are derived from feelings... Feelings are controlled by human impulses.
Destiny on the other hand is independent of human emotion and/or impulse. It is the super-natural force which guides or controls events.

The point here being, fate/destiny has no control over a human emotion such as love which is fleeting and can't be tamed.

Tripodmode: Well, if u asked me dis ques 4years ago, I wuld say I biliv in destiny cos I dated a girl den 4 almost 6years but we later broke up...even after d break up, I stil use 2biliv no mater wat apens, I ll still end up wid er. Well dats because I ddnt go out and search...now, am madly in love wid anoder girl n we' bin datin 4 almst 3years now..d girl am datin now is d love of my life n deres nofin(I mean nofin), I can't sacrifice 4er or do jus 2b wid er. So back 2ur ques, I DON'T BELIEVE IN DESTINY...GBAM

simdam500:

well spoken! Ryt now u not married... *assumin* d same way ur previous relationship hit d rock, d present relationship did, and ur previous gal finds d right key for d padlock to your heart* still assuming* wat would u call that? Destiny or it just life

Tripodmode:


Dat 1 na gobe o cos am madly inlove wid my present gf...I fink ill just commit suicide dan go back 2my former...well, if it apens, ill just rule it out as fate but I don't pray it apens o.. Love my present gf like kilode

Jenams: Go out n xplore bro. Dnt let hrt brk make u tink d world exist only in ur street. There r millions of girls better than ur ex. Find them.