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Is Marriage Really A Neccessity? by thiefnubu(m): 5:02pm On Dec 29, 2013
As a young man of marriageable age,this question has kept popping up in my mind... most of our holy books enjoin us to tie the nuptial knot...society bestows you with some level of 'resposibility' once you are 'spoused'... the kids born under such union get to be recognized by law as legitimate heirs to your riches/ wretchednesss... the 'companionship theory'....the list of perceived benefits of the 'sacred institution' go on endlessly.
But in my opinion the institution of marriage is just akin to a flagship android device...it is overhyped, acquired and maintained at great cost, and at some point in the future, u are like, "how did I get here?"...At this point, you are doomed either way becaused it you are either too old or irredeemably tangled in the 'arrangement' to do anything about it... or u relaunch another 'Gulder Ultimate Search' for another perfect device... and the circle of wretchedness continues...
Personally I have no interest in getting married... life is already complicated in its 'follow come' state... Why complicate it further...
Air your opinions..... no matter how 'socially incorrect' they might be...

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Re: Is Marriage Really A Neccessity? by zaziakoni(f): 6:26pm On Dec 29, 2013
ur marriage is tiresome becos u are not interested, u neva shud have married
Re: Is Marriage Really A Neccessity? by Sagamite(m): 7:31pm On Dec 29, 2013
Hell no!

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Re: Is Marriage Really A Neccessity? by Nobody: 8:19pm On Dec 29, 2013
Not if you dont want it
Re: Is Marriage Really A Neccessity? by jmoore(m): 8:30pm On Dec 29, 2013
Your need is not my need.
Re: Is Marriage Really A Neccessity? by thiefnubu(m): 9:08pm On Dec 29, 2013
zazi akoni: ur marriage is tiresome becos u are not interested, u neva shud have married
dude, did u even read the thread?.... na wa o

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Re: Is Marriage Really A Neccessity? by Oyinprince(m): 9:49pm On Dec 29, 2013
i didnt really read d OP. Its not compulsory u get married, but if u knw u cant kip ur stuff in ur trousers, beta get married nd dont just mess around wit gals
Re: Is Marriage Really A Neccessity? by Sagamite(m): 9:50pm On Dec 29, 2013
Oyinprince: i didnt really read d OP. Its not compulsory u get married, but if u knw u cant kip ur stuff in ur trousers, beta get married nd dont just mess around wit gals

Because?

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Re: Is Marriage Really A Neccessity? by Nobody: 9:50pm On Dec 29, 2013
I share your opinion. Marriage is overrated for all the reasons. A more educated mind will see marriage as a mere means to an end. An end which by itself one can get to without marriage!
Re: Is Marriage Really A Neccessity? by Oyinprince(m): 9:59pm On Dec 29, 2013
Sagamite:
Because?
because sex outside of marriage is wrong, tho it luks normal to d world
Re: Is Marriage Really A Neccessity? by thiefnubu(m): 10:05pm On Dec 29, 2013
Oyinprince: because sex outside of marriage is wrong, tho it luks normal to d world

since it is normal to the world, who made it wrong?
Re: Is Marriage Really A Neccessity? by Sagamite(m): 10:07pm On Dec 29, 2013
Oyinprince: because sex outside of marriage is wrong, tho it luks normal to d world

Wrong how?
Re: Is Marriage Really A Neccessity? by Oyinprince(m): 10:34pm On Dec 29, 2013
Tinubu:
since it is normal to the world, who made it wrong?
No 1 made it wrong, its against God's plan for it(sex)
Sagamite: Wrong how?
u knw it is. We no dey religious section, mke i no type 2much yet
Re: Is Marriage Really A Neccessity? by Sagamite(m): 10:38pm On Dec 29, 2013
Oyinprince: No 1 made it wrong, its against God's plan for it(sex) u knw it is. We no dey religious section, mke i no type 2much yet

No, I don't know o.

Abeg educate me on why.
Re: Is Marriage Really A Neccessity? by Oyinprince(m): 10:45pm On Dec 29, 2013
Sagamite:
No, I don't know o.
Abeg educate me on why.
Not rite here, not rite now. Gudnyt
Re: Is Marriage Really A Neccessity? by JadeWilliam(f): 12:35pm On Dec 30, 2013
Ur post was incoherent&uncordinated.
I don't knw wot d of primary&secondary sch som nairalanders attended.
#not hating;just observing
Re: Is Marriage Really A Neccessity? by Nobody: 12:45pm On Dec 30, 2013
Op,op,op!!u no well
Re: Is Marriage Really A Neccessity? by oyinbogirl(f): 12:52pm On Dec 30, 2013
zazi akoni: ur marriage is tiresome becos u are not interested, u neva shud have married


He aint married nor does he want to by the sound of it. Dnt think u read it all....

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