pls i nid 2 knw dis

We bin datin 15month now,durin dis period i was pregnant twice but miscarry both,he has plan 2 cum wit is family 2 c mine but at d long run my dad said he should give 2 more yrs 2 finish my education,serve and den get a gud job,but he told me he can't wait after pleadin he agree but now request 4 sex more dan b4."people do say a guy dat ask 4 sex always is not ready 2 marry"....did he stil want me as his wife or he just want to have sex wit me until is tired den tell me it is ova....we both countless numba of sex b4.

I won't comment till I understand the OP's post!

I think he is ready while you are not. He may get tired and move on before you are ready either because it gets so monotonous or because he isn't too sure of your commitment since its your dad's decision to wait and not yours. More so, must you serve under your dad's roof? Does he have a good job by his definition to give you after service? Does been married disqualify you from getting the job? And many more questions you should ask yourself.

NEPHEMY: We bin datin 15month now,durin dis period i was pregnant twice but miscarry both,he has plan 2 cum wit is family 2 c mine but at d long run my dad said he should give 2 more yrs 2 finish my education,serve and den get a gud job,but he told me he can't wait after pleadin he agree but now request 4 sex more dan b4."people do say a guy dat ask 4 sex always is not ready 2 marry"....did he stil want me as his wife or he just want to have sex wit me until is tired den tell me it is ova....we both countless numba of sex b4.

First of all don't lie to yasef cos u r not deceiving anyone... miscarriage or abortion?
How can u miscarry two babies without being in a marriage? were u planning to keep the baby or wat?
2. if you truly miscarried two babies then sister there is something wrong with you!!!
3. He had requested for your hands in marriage b4 so why are you still doubting if he is ready for marriage? Do U even understand ursef sis?

^^ you don talk am finish. I was even goin to tell her to wait till she becomes pregnant since that has become the tool her mates use to gauge how committed a man is only to read say she don throway two, untop say the man still want am. She no know wetin she want.

Whats the difference between miscarriage and abortion??

iyke926: Whats the difference between miscarriage and abortion??

In miscarriage,you have the intent to have/deliver the baby,but due to some complications or unforeseen circumstances the pregnancy is lost...while abortion on the other hand is the opposite i.e no intention to have a baby and as such the baby is terminated.

if you really miscarried two pregnancy he wont even want to push thru with marriage cause what are the odds you wont miscarry all ur unborn kids... and you are the one that seems nt ready to me...

NEPHEMY: pls i nid 2 knw dis

You can't know until he tells you. But looking at the circumstances around your relationship, you got a 25% chances.

gals ehn smh

I just dey observe

@op, if u r d man, will u go ahead n marry dis girl? Ur Answer is ur advice

ednut1: gals ehn smh

I think 95 % of girls are so confused, you wonder how they 'manage' through everyday. The remaining 5 % are on a pedestal called 'over sabi' which has ruined a lot of them.

Vessi: I won't comment till I understand the OP's post!

I too didn't understand wot sh was talking abt.
1st sh said sh has bn pregnant twice&misscarried so daat means sh's bn f*ckin d guy b4 now so now he's requestin 4s*x.

Ppl opening lame threads just 2get attention plus their lousy command of English whch can mak somone blind.

Please bring that stool for me. Man got to sit