So when it comes to arousíng a woman and making her love the things you do in bed, you need to make her feel good about the things you do to her in her head.

When you’re in a new relationship, getting naked in front of each other is all it takes to get the bodies warm and ready for action. But if you want to have wild, passionate séx with a girl and make her love the things you do to her in bed, you need to do more than just drop your shorts.

Here are 10 things you can do to make her love it.

1. Take your time. This is something most men don’t give a thought about. More pre-intimacy. Guys know the rules, but they just can’t help it. All you want to do is stick the shaft and drive. But think about it, by delaying the penetration and enjoying the pre-intimacy, she’d feel more wet and will enjoy séx a lot more. Isn’t that worth the effort? And here’s another thing to remember. By extending pre-intimacy, you’re giving your mind and your little guy more time to prepare for séx. And by spending more time on pre-intimacy, you’ll reduce your chances of losing an erection midway.

2. Emotional connection. To enjoy séx better, girls need to feel connected to the guy emotionally. Well, this doesn’t make one night stands less séxy. But in a relationship where you’ve had séx a few times, you always need to focus on making her feel loved and emotionally connected to you. It’ll make her enjoy the night a lot more. Speak to her lovingly, kiss her all over her face and ears, and whisper sweet nothings into her ear as you prepare to make love. Get this right, and she’ll definitely feel more connected to you and even fall more in love with you.

3. Physical connection. When you have séx, the two bodies unite and become one. When you’re on top of the girl, make sure both of you are positioned well and feel comfortable. Neither of you can enjoy séx if your bodies don’t feel comfortable against each other. Breathe together and take in your breath just as she takes in hers. When your bodies unite and synchronize with each other perfectly, breathing and all, she’ll feel more connected to you and may even think she’s found the perfect match for her body.

4. Variety and games. Lovemaking is passionate. But too much of a good thing can bore anyone. So try to mix in the passionate séx with games and fun. Girls love having a nice time in bed, and it doesn’t always have to be about séx. Cuddle her, tease her, play with her clothes and just have fun with each other for a while before deciding to jump each other’s bones.

5. Set the mood right. If you want to have awesome séx, you need to set the mood right. You can use perfumed body oils and give her a massage for half an hour while focusing on her love spots, so you can make her feel Hot and relaxed, and extend pre-intimacy at the same time. You can even use porn if you’re not in the mood for something elaborate. Or both of you can go clubbing on a Saturday night and grind against each other in the club until you make her wet and want to take you right there. While you can’t create perfect séxual moods all the time, put in an effort to build the séxual tension up, and she’ll definitely orgasm a lot better.

6. Self esteem. For a woman, self esteem is one of the most important things to feel séxy about herself when she’s in bed with a man. When you’re making love with your girl, make her feel loved and comfortable, and compliment her body or any other specific regions that you find séxy. Women love a man who boosts their ego in bed. Overlook her awkward spots and don’t stop complimenting her body. And she’ll bring out the séxy minx inside of her who’ll feel confident and give you a better time in bed.

7. Make her mind go wild. Girls have an active imagination too. And if you can stimulate her mind into thinking dirty and naughty, she’ll definitely get wilder in bed. Recreate fantasies that she’ll enjoy, talk to her about the first time both of you saw each other naked, or remind her about the time both of you did something wild outside the house. And when you learn which fantasies turn her on more than the others, use those fantasies while having séx with her.

8. Give all of her your attention. For guys, there are just two parts of a girl’s body that occupies their attention in bed. But if you really want your woman to have a wild time in bed, don’t isolate yourself to just a place or two on her body. Focus on all of her, kiss her hands, lick her navel, kiss her toes, the back of her neck and everywhere else. If she moans or gasps, you know you’re doing the right thing.

9. Satisfy her. Can you really enjoy séx if you don’t finish yourself off? Of course, you can’t. And for girls, it works the same way too. Don’t get carried away while having séx and focus only on your own needs. Take it slow and warm her up, and don’t ejaculate until your woman has orgasmed first. Or if you’d like, try to orgasm together. But don’t end it before she’s had an orgasm. Even as you have séx, focus on her pleasure and work your way to make her orgasm. By doing that, you’ll feel more proud of accomplishing a good finish and keeping her satisfied.

10. Séx has to end with love. Just like pre-intimacy, afterplay too is rather important for a girl. For a guy, séx is just séx. But for a girl, séx includes pre-intimacy and afterplay to have a better impact. Cuddle up after séx and talk to each other for a few minutes. Add in a few kisses and compliments and she’ll love you for the great guy you are. Just don’t finish up, turn away and fall asleep. Pillow talk after séx can bring both of you closer and make her feel appreciated and loved.

And now that you know what women want in bed, try to make sure your girl has a great time when she’s in bed with you. Remember to focus more on her pleasure, and you’ll end up feeling on top of the world too!

nice tips but who will not know all this by now, is the person still in 2013

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