sonickay: 11 differences between dating a girl & a woman
A girl may be so used to feeling validated
through her looks and sexuality, that she
uses this as her primary tool to get what
she wants in life. A woman, knows her
worth is beyond her physicality.

1. A girl throws tantrums. When displeased,
upset or angry, she reacts just as she did as a
child when she didn’t get her way with her
parents. This often consists of screaming, pouting,
giving the silent treatment, being passive
aggressive and/or punishing. A woman still feels
the emotions of being upset/displeased, but has
cultivated the skill of responding versus reacting.
She comes to the table as an adult, and
communicates clearly what is bothering her.

2. A girl perceives herself as a princess and
believes people should treat her like so. She
is entitled and feels that she is owed and
therefore expects more than she appreciates. A
woman, has standards (what she holds herself to)
not expectations (what she projects on to others).

3. A girl uses her physical beauty as her
currency and basis of value. A girl may be so
used to feeling validated through her looks and
sexuality, that she uses this as her primary tool to
get what she wants in life. A woman, knows her
worth is beyond her physicality. A woman bases
her value on her intelligence, her strength, her
integrity, her values, her contributions, her
humanity.

4. A girl banks on a man to be her financial
strategy. A woman plans to be financially
independent – she banks on… herself. And if she
so happens to enter a relationship dynamic where
it makes sense for her partner to be the primary
breadwinner, it’s considered a bonus, not the
expected life line.

5. A girl sees the world from a place of lack
and scarcity. She competes and will even tear
down another in order to secure resources or a
mate. A woman helps other women. She knows
that there’s plenty enough to go around and takes
the high road of integrity to get what she wants.

6. A girl cannot be bothered with anything
domestic and is proud of the fact that she
cannot cook or clean. A woman understands
that being domestic is not a duty, but
understands that it is one way of taking care of
herself and others. She also understands that in
the event she wants to create a family, having a
person in the household who can contribute
domestically is important.

7. “A girl wants attention, a woman wants
respect. A girl wants to be adored by many. A
woman wants to be adored by one.” -anonymous

8. A girl does not respect her body. She has
not yet understood that her body and heart are
sacred, and that it’s important to be mindful of
how she treats it and who she shares it with. “A
girl cherishes handbags, diamonds and her shoe
collection as her prize possessions. A woman
cherishes her health, her sense of self, and her
talents as her greatest assets.” – N. Mah

9. A woman takes the time to reflect on the
type of human she wants to be , the example
she wants to leave and the vision for her life. She
has put thought into her values and what she
stands for. A girl has not established her moral
compass or values and consequently, is often
inconsistent. “After spending time with a girl, you
feel exhausted because she takes more than she
gives. After spending time with a woman, you feel
invigorated, because she empowers you with
possibility, and a passion for life.” – N. Mah

10. A girl has a checklist that prioritizes
superficial qualities above anything
else. Here is an example of how this checklist
may look: Hot, popular, wears skinny jeans, over 6
feet tall, rich.. This is the checklist of what a
woman may look for: High integrity, intelligent,
kind, good communicator, emotionally available…
Now, a lot of these differences require taking the
time to know someone to figure out if the apple of
your eye is indeed a mature woman, or someone
with an immature mindset. However, one of the
quickest filters that you can notice from the
beginning is this:

11. A girl plays games. A woman doesn’t.

Source: http://naijauncut.com/2014/01/03/11-differences-between-dating-a-girl-a-woman/

Dyt: Every grown man knows this na

Dyt: Every grown man knows this na

xynerise:
Na wa o. It has tay o. Happy New year

Dyt:

Na me be dis o
Wey my new year gift?
U back?

xynerise:
New year gift? U no happy as u see me this year?

Na tomorrow

Dyt:

Na wa u o
U can be stingy ehn *frowns*
Hian

xynerise:
I am stingy and proud of it

xynerise:
Na wa o. It has tay o. Happy New year

Dyt:

Na everyth wey u get u dey stingy with
Hi, stingy
Hello stingy
Smile, stingy
Hug stingy
Wetin u dey give sef?

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I'm sure the "Prof" who wrote this article is very very single...

xynerise:
Slap

Dyt: 11?
Hmmmm
I still play games with my man o
Get a new number, text/whatsapp him
Claiming like some new gals hehehheh
D dude will jst be like IDAYA, stop it
*i don't let no one do d games for me, I don it myself lol*
Its fun actually
Sometimes I wish d man cld jst ask me out over again, do shakara
Its romantic
My views


Btw na strategy be dat o, so if any lady tries such, he will jst call out my name
Hehehhehehe

Dyt:

Dey carry ur wahal go abeg

sonickay: That's cool. The dude simply assumes its Idayat, then watch out for xtaristics and signature of the new babe. If it matches with yours, he goes from "Red Alert" to "Yellow Alert" and "Green Alert" and vice-versa. "Idaya stop It jare!!!" Lolz

ellarry: ladies feels there is much more grounds to cover and more places to explore where woman has seeen it all

xynerise:
Don't you care for a slap?

How family jare?

Danhumprey: Nice article. I think you should use "Lady" preferably in place of "woman",as it make it more coherent.

Dyt:

Na everyth wey u get u dey stingy with
Hi, stingy
Hello stingy
Smile, stingy
Hug stingy
Wetin u dey give sef?

Dyt:

Na everyth wey u get u dey stingy with
Hi, stingy
Hello stingy
Smile, stingy
Hug stingy
Wetin u dey give sef?

sonickay: He isn't stingy, I can attest to that; he sang "Limpopo" and "Natural Something" throughout the new year. He must be planning a surprise for you. Abi Xynerise?

sonickay: I heard he has an "acid scar" on his face as well.