happy new year everyone. i am a lady in my early twenties in a relationship wit a man in his late twenties. we have known each oda for abt 3years now bt startd d relationship officially 2013 .dis guy as bin caring understanding nd above all godfearing. he visited me during xmas nd new year. and he gave me is phone to watch movies nd play games. most times wen he goes out he leaves his phone wit me. it happened dat i decided to go through all d application on his phone bt to my greatest surprise i found out dat he and one girl as bin exchanging unclad pix of each oda. i was so surprise cos i took him for a xtain broda. he can pray well nd he is fervent. he didnt kip dis pix in d gallery nd he neva knew dat i could get to where he saved dos pix of himself nd d gal. now am so disappointed in him bt av nt tld him wat i saw. nairalanders shld i just avoid him nd stop pickin is call or tell him abt it.

Eyah, better avoid him.

I'm available..

U started d relatnshp dis yr(just 5 days old 2day) and u av been seein tinz..anyway,aldsame,erm erm erm..dont knw wat to say..API SUNDAY..yipee

am sure u nt expectin 2 date a saint.........................all d same u tell him wht u saw on his phone,talk extensively wit him ova d issue nd guard ur heart.....dat doesnt mean u shldnt luv him,jst b careful nd b watchful

olumaxi: U started d relatnshp dis yr(just 5 days old 2day) and u av been seein tinz..anyway,aldsame,erm erm erm..dont knw wat to say..API SUNDAY..yipee

You didn't read the post properly, she officially started the relationship in 2013.

Sighs ... The situation is difficult To be honest he may be a bad guy or a christian struggling with masturbation or pornography or a user one of those boring sites like 2go and badoo. if he is a bad guy then you need to be careful cos he must be sharp. Forr him to leave his phone with you. That itself is a form of psychology to gain ur trust. He might have been seeing this lady before he started dating you. or it cld have been a one of thing. I advise a little patience. Now that it is official, you have more liberty as the one and only. The First question you should ask yourself is does he love you? if the answer his yes, his he caring and do you love him? does he acts like a christian? if the answers are yes then dont raise it up with him. It too early to raise this issues, since you went sniffing around his phone in the first instance. you dont want to open the can of trust, Atleast for now. If he is really cheating on you " the hole with get bigger and you will see more signs. When you spot this greater signs, then you can confront him. Patience my dear I know it hurts, and pls dont start acting funny when you see him cos he wld suspect something is up and you will be forced to talk. Just relax and enjoy the relationship I knw it difficult but you can do it, act like a fool but open your eyes . gather more evidence.

olumaxi: U started d relatnshp dis yr(just 5 days old 2day) and u av been seein tinz..anyway,aldsame,erm erm erm..dont knw wat to say..API SUNDAY..yipee

Did you read well at all? Or you jumped to comment? She said she started the relationship officially in 2013 and here we are,in 2014. Or do you still think we are in 2013?

Did u expect that all dis while b4 u guys started ur r/ship, he wasn't seein any other lady

Na wa for u o...

he is free to even send his nude pics to Afrocandy then if he likes, afterall u were nt his galfriend wen he did that.

And how do u mean u are dissapointed in him cos he is a gud christian and knows how to pray much? Will man live by being "a good christian" and " knowin how to pray" alone...?

Even u tooo....are u a saint or are u without any fault too..??

gbemies: happy new year everyone. i am a lady in my early twenties in a relationship wit a man in his late twenties. we have known each oda for abt 3years now bt startd d relationship officially 2013 .dis guy as bin caring understanding nd above all godfearing. he visited me during xmas nd new year. and he gave me is phone to watch movies nd play games. most times wen he goes out he leaves his phone wit me. it happened dat i decided to go through all d application on his phone bt to my greatest surprise i found out dat he and one girl as bin exchanging unclad pix of each oda. i was so surprise cos i took him for a xtain broda. he can pray well nd he is fervent. he didnt kip dis pix in d gallery nd he neva knew dat i could get to where he saved dos pix of himself nd d gal. now am so disappointed in him bt av nt tld him wat i saw. nairalanders shld i just avoid him nd stop pickin is call or tell him abt it.

What stop you from typing in plain English? What with all these irritating shorthand?