Mynd_44: Is this some kind of joke?

stinggy: Ask Ifa

sкчscrαρεr™:
Damm! The op is so brainless, I doubt how you were able to secure a visa.

FlowerPower:

We have a comedian... I think the problem is that when a person has too many good choices, they end up not making a decision. I don't want to end up alone because I am being too picky .

stinggy:
I undstnd ur point nw. Not too bad to b picky especially as ds is a lifetime decision, we all wnt d best for ourselves. Mayb u shld try me too, I'm available also

Afro-k:
I'm an American don dey warrant unnecessary applications

FlowerPower: So I was dating a wonderful Hausa man who had everything I wanted in a man except he was a Muslim in Christian clothing. No matter what he said, the conversation always went back to Muslim practices and at the end of the day I'm not giving up my Jesus for anyone. Anyway I decided to back away from him because I didn't want to end up being married to a man who was secretly Muslim. My long time Igbo friend is still around. My family loves him, but I have never given our relationship a real chance because he is not a US citizen. He is a legal resident, but the horror stories I have read about foreign men and American women have scared me.
Recently he gave me some kola nuts, bitter kola, and as always prepared my favorite Nigerian foods. He described the ceremony when welcoming visitors into your home, told me Lekki would be a nice place to live, and said he needed to speak with his uncle (here in the US) about me. No matter who I date (American or Nigerian), I always end up comparing the person to him. He is God fearing, well educated, very sensible, and we are great friends. Besides the citizenship issue, I have another concern...




Is it true that most Nigerian men are not very interested in pleasing their wives intimately?

Vyolet: Is your problem about the hausa secret muslim guy,your igbo guy or the fact that you heard nigerian men arw not good intimately? You are not coherent unless you are joking around.

texanomaly:

First of all, where did you hear the bolded? smh... Are your parents Nigeria-American?

texanomaly:
First of all, where did you hear the bolded? smh... Are your parents Nigeria-American?

Vyolet: Is your problem about the hausa secret muslim guy,your igbo guy or the fact that you heard nigerian men are not good intimately? You are not coherent unless you are joking around.

FlowerPower:
I want a husband who is good in bed .

Lovexme:

Sample all eligible guys you can grasp, and if you're still not satisfied, you could mail me for some sexual healing:

FlowerPower:

No, no. It would be selfish of me to deprive all the other young ladies in the world .

I do have another question, since no one seems to have an opinion on Nigerian men and their intimate practices. My Igbo friend says if we marry, there must be a traditional, Christian, and court wedding. Why must there be 3 different ceremonies? Is this normal for everyone? Even if he is paying for it, it seems like such a waste of money.

You are asking too much... Na so you fine reach??

Enegod: this op likes dīck more than her life

tellwisdom:

You are asking too much... Na so you fine reach??

FlowerPower:

That is not true. However there is one thing I like that I have heard Nigerian men do not.



How am I asking for too much? He is the one who told me about the wedding ceremonies and requirement of the man. We are both professionals in the US, but I still think it is too much money for all that. I feel only a Christian wedding is required. His idea is that we can live in the US for half the year and Nigeria during the other half of the year. I said to him, any property he owns in Nigeria will never be mine. He claims as long as he leaves a will and we have sons that no one can take it from me. I told him I am afraid to visit the village and he says I must go to meet most of his people, but we can live in a place like Lekki. He has family here in the US and I think that should be sufficient. I admit I watch a lot of Nollywood movies and they have heightened my fears about going into the "bush". I also told him that I will not make as much money with the type of work I do during the 6 months we live in Nigeria, but he says I must always collect a "deposit" to make sure people will follow through. In the past I never considered marrying him, but as I get older I'm starting to seriously think about it.

Ok you know what?...don't marry him. How about that?

Amya: You seem to have a great guy, I wonder where all your doubts are coming from? Igbo guys I've dated are great in the sack, but I really don't think it's as much an issue of tribe as it is the individual.



You can always sample!