Some say, “It’s not love if you have doubts.” I say, “Sometimes, we just refuse to believe.” They say, “You can’t love somebody you haven’t met.” I say, “I haven’t met God but I love Him.”
Love always has its “errors.” Sometimes, we try to “refresh”, then realize that it’s best to “shutdown.” But the hardest part is to “restart” your life and “reformat” your heart!
Sometimes, you have to try not to care no matter how much you do. Because sometimes, you can mean nothing to someone who means everything to you. If we fall in love because someone makes us laugh, what happens when we no longer find them funny? If we fall in love because someone is beautiful, what happens when that beauty fades? If we fall in love because someone can provide for us, what happens when they lose their wealth? Because love defies all reasons, when you truly love someone, you just can’t find a reason, you just do.When it comes to love, it’s hard to know if you have the right one. Many promises have been made, but still, lovers weep, and left in sorrow. Why? Because words can’t immortalize emotions. Remember this: You can love two people at the same time. But never at the same degree.
A philosopher said that hate is not the opposite of love. Hating your ex doesn’t mean you don’t love him/her anymore. The fact that you are giving him/her such intense emotions means he/she has an effect on you and he/she is still worth your attention. Apathy is the opposite love. You can only say you’ve fallen out of love when you no longer care what he/she says or does. So how can you stop love? Unfortunately, you can’t. Love dies on its own. You’d just wake up one day and realize you’re over him/her. Don’t suppress and it will come naturally.