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What To Do When The Girl You Love Has A Boyfriend by Cyb3rhack3r: 9:37am On Nov 13, 2014
f the girl you like has a boyfriend and you still
want her, you really need to be thorough.
After all, if she has a boyfriend, you really do
need to steal a girl from her guy and you can’t
do that without all the details.
So in this part, I’m going to tell you the five not-
so-obvious moves and the five sneaky dirty
things you can do to steal a girlfriend from
right under her guy’s nose .

Undercover moves – Five not-so-obvious
signs


Here, we play safe and keep it simple. We don’t
really want to scare her away just because she
has a boyfriend. Make her like you first, lover
boy.

Get to know everything she can tell

This is important if she has a boyfriend. Once
you’re friends with her, you need to become
something more than that.
So talk about her favorite dates, her kind of movies,
the little annoying stuff she’s done, and everything
else.
Just to warm her up, you start off by narrating the
time you ripped your pants off while trying to
jump into a girl’s house. Just as long as you open
up, she will too, and you know what, she’s going
to love talking to you!

Are you better than him?

The test of manliness. Talk about her guy. Pop the
question. Ask her what kind of a guy he is. If
you’re getting into her good books, she will keep it
simple. Then ask her what she thinks of you.
Compare both the scores out aloud. Laugh and talk
about what you can do to tilt the balance in your
favor. And
then get back to talking about how they met, and
more blah, blah and blah about her guy.
Make her love you!
She’s in love with her man, but that could change.
Impress her, be a man around her. Give her the space
when
she meets her pals or is on the phone when both of
you are together, so she can be comfortable when
you’re
around.
Remember her special days, her deadlines, and
anything else, even if it is really trivial. Show her
that even her
little things are really important to you. And wait for
the good times.

Be her other guy

Now get this straight, you be her other guy, not her
back-up guy. If you find that she’s just using you
as her
Man Friday when he’s not around, walk out.
She should respect you and want you. Don’t go
trailing her at every opportunity you get. If you
really want to
steal a girlfriend, you need to keep it slow, and talk
to her once in a while, at least once a day if you
work at the
same place, or alternate days or less if it’s over the
phone. Let her miss you when you aren’t around.
Drive her to
work if you can, give her the attention, and
basically, treat her like a princess when you’re
together.


Give her what her guy can’t give

Pamper her. You may not be around her all the time,
and her guy may be. But that doesn’t matter.
Because your
one hour around her can do more damage to him
than all day.
Talk and be genuinely interested in her. If you get a
call when she’s with you, see if you can cancel and
call
back, and let her see that. She should know how
special the times both of you share is to you. And
more than
anything else, maintain intense eye contact with her
when both of you talk. Make her feel like she’s the
only
thing in the world you care about when you’re with
her.

The Five Sneaky Lil Signs
– Getting down and dirty
Dig all info

She has a boyfriend already. And there may be a
few things she knows but she won’t tell. And any
info about
her is good info. That’s where her pals come into the
picture. If you know them in the first place, then go
on and
ask a few things about her. But very discreetly, of
course.
You don’t want them to know you’re hitting on her.
And admit it, if you do like her, you’re definitely
going to
want to talk about her.

The annoying mo-fo, her boyfriend
Find out more about her guy from any source you
can get. There may always be a few skeletons that
could be
dug out here. So he doesn’t believe in holding doors
open for a woman? The next time you talk to her, tell
her the
story about a man who doesn’t open doors for
women, and how annoying that is.
See, that’s like letting her know her guy isn’t all that
great, without actually talking about him. On the
other
hand, talk about how much you live by the code of
chivalry. Discreetly, of course!

“Bump” into her

So you know things about her. Good. Does she hang
out on weekends at a particular place? Did her
friends tell
you that? Excellent. As long as she hasn’t told you
that, and you’ve figured it out yourself, go for the
kill.
Accidentally bump into her at the same place, and
pretend like your “surprise” meeting is a damn sign
from
heaven that you guys have to be together. Ask her
out to coffee or lunch. You know, these occasional
bumping
scenarios could actually take you somewhere.

Who’s that guy?
Remember, for you, her boyfriend is of no value. So
treat him like one. Unless you know him on first-
name basis,
refer to him as ‘your boyfriend’ when you talk to her.
She may talk about how much she loves him, and
blah, but
it doesn’t matter. And at times, when she goes on
and on about him, yawn pointedly and make sure
she knows
it’s a fake yawn. But do make sure you laugh after
you do that, you’d want to make it seem like a joke
instead
of a rude gesture.

Same workspace
Sometimes, we end up liking a girl in the same
workspace. And to make things worse, her boyfriend
could work
there too. So when you’re talking to her once in a
while, there’s a fair chance that he’d end up joining
the
conversation too. Don’t lose your enthusiasm here, but
stay away from flirty comments. But the second he
walks
away, thank your lucky starts loudly and get back
to your flirty talk.
A line that goes like, “Thank you God, at last, I can
get a few minutes with this beautiful girl without
her
boyfriend around!” not only gets the point across,
but also sounds humorous.
She has a boyfriend and you really want to know
how to steal a girlfriend. Follow these tips and she’ll
fall
in love with you even before you ask her out.

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Has A Boyfriend by Ploy(m): 9:46am On Nov 13, 2014
If you do these to my ototo poyoyo, I will take your name to baba place and ... You know now.

I'm not a thief but if you steal from me, you are in trouble.
Period

I love this babe die, chasers
Keep off
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Has A Boyfriend by jnrprof(m): 9:47am On Nov 13, 2014
Why would any sane guy want to chase after a girl with a boyfriend?? imagine another guy hitting after your own girlfriend

There are plenty single girls out there, move on and make your choice from one of them!
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Has A Boyfriend by Nobody: 9:52am On Nov 13, 2014
jnrprof:
Why would any sane guy want to chase after a girl with a boyfriend?? imagine another guy hitting after your own girlfriend

There are plenty single girls out there, move on and make your choice from one of them!
Plenty single girls?? Abeg na earth u dey abi na Jupiter??

Yes! There r stl single ladies but they are very very very very few

In most cases...u either take someone's bae or u ensure u r d highest stakeholder

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Has A Boyfriend by swagwu(m): 9:57am On Nov 13, 2014
i will test dis tips with ur girl frnd if it works that means its correct grin grin
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Has A Boyfriend by Lordabas: 10:15am On Nov 13, 2014





If she has a boyfriend i suggest you don't interfere and break up their relationship.
Its against the man laws.
A man shall not hit on, flirt, or try to steal another mans woman

Seriously undecided
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Has A Boyfriend by ghost1718(m): 10:41am On Nov 13, 2014
Cyb3rhack3r:
[b] f the girl you like has a boyfriend and you still
dude see u, let me ask u something. If i steal ur girlfriend with this trick, what will u do?? And will u be happy about it i hate braking my fellow guy heart. So dont do bad to fellow guy
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Has A Boyfriend by Afrok(m): 10:52am On Nov 13, 2014
Hmmm... All these write Ups is just to thief another guy's property (girlfriend)? How will U feel if nah U be the guy? Anyways sha, person wey steal something,nah him fellow thief go still come steal am.

If only U can use the tips above for a single lady, she'll not only be urs but urs forever tongue.
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Has A Boyfriend by LBlessing(f): 10:52am On Nov 13, 2014
OP is MisterStealYourGirl smiley





Hmmm... Thinking about the guys in my life who do these. And I actually thought they were just being nice... Lolz

Thanks for the heads up OP
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Has A Boyfriend by Nobody: 11:15am On Nov 13, 2014
Op is looking for frontpage. But, come to think of it, why would you want to steal your fellow guy's girlfriend? Yet, you would be calling all these single girls who have affairs with married men names. Talk about double standards!
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Has A Boyfriend by Whizzdom(m): 11:22am On Nov 13, 2014
Hmmmm .... It seems naija people sabi do love doctor ooo

Instead of facing your books ... you are busy doing Love Consulting

You sud be flogged with a bard wire grin grin grin
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Has A Boyfriend by Nobody: 11:27am On Nov 13, 2014
Doesn't make sense. It's becomin rare seeing gf snatcher nowadays. If I get 2 see a girl I have crush on having a bf. I delete d feelings immediately.

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Has A Boyfriend by Cyb3rhack3r: 9:38pm On Nov 13, 2014
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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Has A Boyfriend by ghost1718(m): 8:48am On Nov 15, 2014
wristwatch:
Doesn't make sense. It's becomin rare seeing gf snatcher nowadays. If I get 2 see a girl I have crush on having a bf. I delete d feelings immediately.
dude u talk sense-delete the feeling and move on with life
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Has A Boyfriend by Youngpo413: 6:11am On Dec 04, 2014
Treat her right,another guy will mean nothing to her...except she is naturally greedy.
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Has A Boyfriend by SeverusSnape(m): 6:49am On Dec 04, 2014
There's ONE thing i do when i discover the girl I love is in a relationship (committed).





FORGET ABOUT HER AND MOVE ON!...It's against 'the code' to snatch another guy's girl-friend.

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Has A Boyfriend by damselabi(f): 7:10am On Dec 04, 2014
AgapeCharis:
Plenty single girls?? Abeg na earth u dey abi na Jupiter??

Yes! There r stl single ladies but they are very very very very few

In most cases...u either take someone's bae or u ensure u r d highest stakeholder
Dia r countless single girls dat r just deceiving demselves dat dey r in a relationship.
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Has A Boyfriend by damselabi(f): 7:12am On Dec 04, 2014
D only reason y these ll work is if u r nt treating her right or she's just nt contented.
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Has A Boyfriend by Nobody: 7:29am On Dec 04, 2014
Ploy:
If you do these to my ototo poyoyo, I will take your name to baba place and ... You know now.

I'm not a thief but if you steal from me, you are in trouble.
Period

I love this babe die, chasers
Keep off
pls can u give me her no let me confirm if she's your GF.
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Has A Boyfriend by Aspireahead(m): 7:55am On Dec 04, 2014
join or start a queue.
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Has A Boyfriend by Ploy(m): 9:12am On Dec 04, 2014
ofiafuluego:

pls can u give me her no let me confirm if she's your GF.

some guys name are already on baba's desk to be attended to when due.

Do you want to join them?

Can you curse Islam in the presence of Osama?

I pity for you o grin
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Has A Boyfriend by Nobody: 9:25am On Dec 04, 2014
damselabi:
Dia r countless single girls dat r just deceiving demselves dat dey r in a relationship.
true tho
We're saying d same thing. They r all hooked up.
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Has A Boyfriend by Medunah: 9:30am On Dec 04, 2014
Funny some guys are willing to be boyfriend No2
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Has A Boyfriend by Promking: 9:55am On Dec 04, 2014
There are two things involved in such situations


Its either the person she's with is a player and sleeps around or keeping her as a side chick(back-up GF) or even hits her at times.....then you'll have a clean slate to initate these actions


But, if they're happy together, mister you're ntin but a greedy mo-fo who's nt happy seeing other folks happy.

As for me sha......Once the girl claims she luvs him, ma whole feeling for her perishes. Its against the 'Guy Code' to split a happy relationship.
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Has A Boyfriend by nickz(m): 9:56am On Dec 04, 2014
mtchwwwwww kill the nigga ASAP.........
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Has A Boyfriend by justmag(m): 9:59am On Dec 04, 2014
All these girls and I wanna chase a taken girl? Phuck that!!! 4 million girls in the world. Nobody gat time for that! !!
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Has A Boyfriend by IamLEGEND1: 10:14am On Dec 04, 2014
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