I want to ask if it is good to be checking your fiance phone especially when he or she drops it at the place where u can have access to it. The reason why I am scared is just not to give myself headache . Due to any sort of messages .

It's quite alright to do if you really love your partner, I have done so several times & I encouraged my wife to do so whenever she feels like, it will strengthens your mutual love & curb any sense of intruder in your relationship.
Any lady/guy who feels that's invasion has a skeleton in his/her cupboard.
@Op opinion defers

D fact dat she drops d fone anyhw is enuff reason for u to care less,focus ur energy on findin ways to enjoy d relationship dan lookin for ways not to enjoy it
Ijuta isi nkita iwere agba ya mee gini?

If u re checking d fone in her presence, deres nothin wrong with it buh if u re sneaking around just to check her fone, dats where d problem is, means u dnt trust her or sumfin

Nothing bad in doing that,My GF sometimes receive my calls,read my msgs and even knows my Password to my mail acct,Fb acct,sometimes when i see love msgs from guyz who are asking her out on her fone it makes me laugh alot,She doesnt delete it or try to hide anything from me

This is one of the ways to know if she is cheating on you or not. So if you are a guy or girl, check his/her phone only when you feel some signs of he/she cheating on you.

eluquenson: It's quite alright to do if you really love your partner, I have done so several times & I encouraged my wife to do so whenever she feels like, it will strengthens your mutual love & curb any sense of intruder in your relationship.
Any lady/guy who feels that's invasion has a skeleton in his/her cupboard.
@Op opinion defers

You are right but I think d op is talkin abt boyfriend and galfrnd. Cos to me there's a different.
But you said it all opinions differs..
@Op.
But checkin ya galfrdz messages might not sounds well tho. I don't need to check my babes phone cause she do updates me on pple who approach her on daily basis. Even those who send her cards n cash.

Lastly do respect each others PRIVACY

fijiano202: Nothing bad in doing that,My GF sometimes receive my calls,read my msgs and even knows my Password to my mail acct,Fb acct,sometimes when i see love msgs from guyz who are asking her out on her fone it makes me laugh alot,She doesnt delete it or try to hide anything from me

Bank acct nko

Seriously I am not even bother as long as she doesn't let me know.

Kay-baba:
I want to ask if it is good to be checking your fiance phone especially when he or she drops it at the place where u can have access to it. The reason why I am scared is just not to give myself headache . Due to any sort of messages .

If you do not want to kill yourself, NEVER try that as anything negative you discover will destroy the relationship as you will be using that against her. This should even be applicable with ladies too.

What you do not know cannot kill you but what you know. No two perfect people in the entire surface of this earth.If you go ahead to be checking every one's fault, you end of not getting along with any human being.

I do not check and cannot check. Cant even pick my partners fone, she can pick mine as I do ask her to help me pick my fone if I am off where the fone is.
Many guys are too fund of looking into a woman's bag, fone and most at times check her body to see if they can find a fault with her. I believe men that act like that are men with low ego. A woman can do anything within seconds and you can NEVER EVER find out if she decides to cheat on you. It does not take her anything to cheat.If she wanna be faithful, she can do all to be faithful no matter what. Only a bad woman acts negatively and when a man gives a faithful God fearing woman her due respect and honor her, she remains faithful.

Kay-baba:
I want to ask if it is good to be checking your fiance phone especially when he or she drops it at the place where u can have access to it. The reason why I am scared is just not to give myself headache . Due to any sort of messages .

If you do not want to kill yourself, NEVER try that as anything negative you discover will destroy the relationship as you will be using that against her. This should even be applicable with ladies too.

What you do not know cannot kill you but what you know. No two perfect people in the entire surface of this earth.If you go ahead to be checking every one's fault, you end of not getting along with any human being.

I do not check and cannot check. Cant even pick my partners fone, she can pick mine as I do ask her to help me pick my fone if I am off where the fone is.
Many guys are too fund of looking into a woman's bag, fone and most at times check her body to see if they can find a fault with her. I believe men that act like that are men with low self esteem. A woman can do anything within seconds and you can NEVER EVER find out if she decides to cheat on you. It does not take her anything to cheat.If she wanna be faithful, she can do all to be faithful no matter what. Only a bad woman acts negatively and when a man gives a faithful God fearing woman her due respect and honor her, she remains faithful.

Kay-baba:
I want to ask if it is good to be checking your fiance phone especially when he or she drops it at the place where u can have access to it. The reason why I am scared is just not to give myself headache . Due to any sort of messages .

If you do not want to kill yourself, NEVER try that as anything negative you discover will destroy the relationship as you will be using that against her. This should even be applicable with ladies too.

What you do not know cannot kill you but what you know. No two perfect people in the entire surface of this earth.If you go ahead to be checking every one's fault, you end of not getting along with any human being.

I do not check and cannot check. Cant even pick my partners fone, she can pick mine as I do ask her to help me pick my fone if I am off where the fone is.
Many guys are too fund of looking into a woman's bag, fone and most at times check her body to see if they can find a fault with her. I believe men that act like that are men with shallow minds. A woman can do anything within seconds and you can NEVER EVER find out if she decides to cheat on you. It does not take her anything to cheat.If she wanna be faithful, she can do all to be faithful no matter what. Only a bad woman acts negatively and when a man gives a faithful God fearing woman her due respect and honor her, she remains faithful.

No is not advisable especially in her absence,u r sure gona find wat u r looking for

Justeenaleo:
Bank acct nko

yes she knows my Atm card pin,i do sometimes keep the card with her but Honestly she hasnt for once used it or even check my account,sometimes i do tell her to withdraw on my behalf and take some cash for herself but naa shes an independent lady

fijiano202: yes she knows my Atm card pin,i do sometimes keep the card with her but Honestly she hasnt for once used it or even check my account,sometimes i do tell her to withdraw on my behalf and take some cash for herself but naa shes an independent lady

Hmm