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You know how it is guys,a gal gives you all the trouble in the world.not only in trying to persuade her to give you a chance but also in playing all the tricks you learnt to get her into your bed.and once that happens she becomes so vunerable,calm and very respectful.Trust me now, once I "do" I go just start my own shakara .and the thing is the experiences are generally the same.from Amaka to Amina and from Amina to Bose.More like some Game if you ask me.if you don't hit you dont win but if you hit the trophy is yours.

I Can't stop wondering,why is that?why can't you have your respect and more even if you chose not to hit? why can't she love you more except you browse?I really dont understand.
whats your take guys? even the gals,confess now!

common Players. speak up!

A Girl Won't Respect And Like You Unless You "hit" Her.

Naah, don't think so

ibkaye:

A Girl Won't Respect And Like You Unless You "hit" Her.

Naah, don't think so

speaking out of loads of experience.Most of my friends share that school of thought too.

true talk. that's why they always complain their man changed afterwards, cos he is only trying to gain his respect he gave away when the chase was on.

You don't beat people to gain respect maybe if you respect them then they will respect you too
Hit them doesnt mean they respect you they just fear you.
BTW
what kind of girls do you date anywayz??

smooooooth:

true talk. that's why they always complain their man changed afterwards, because he is only trying to gain his respect he gave away when the chase was on.

cant blv you are supporting this non-sense

I dont think hitting a girl is the solution to earning respect!

It is out of order to hit a woman and not very cool thing at all if u hit a girl, _{if she wants to continue disrespecting, she would do!}

smooooooth:

true talk. that's why they always complain their man changed afterwards, because he is only trying to gain his respect he gave away when the chase was on.

Is that so ?

tope2000:

You don't beat people to gain respect maybe if you respect them then they will respect you too
Hit them doesnt mean they respect you they just fear you.
BTW
what kind of girls do you date anywayz??

can't blv you are supporting this non-sense

read between the lines lady.
hit as in sample, browse, register, open show, visitation et al not the physical abuse

@ post
it depends on how good you are. If you are no hoper under the sheet then they probably still won't give a damn about you but if your game is tight then da sky is simply the limit

hey tope the guy meant 'debe'u know like giving her the koko, not hit in the sense of beating, you know i wont subscribe to that naa.

anyway when the chase is on, the guy does all the calling, runnning around, and says all the sorrys even when he's right.
but after the hit, she calls most times, comes around everytime and says sorry even when no wahala.
thats what he is talking about. so na lie abi no be lie?

jay bee:

read between the lines lady.
hit as in sample, browse, register, open show, visitation et al not the physical abuse

@ post
it depends on how good you are. If you are no hoper under the sheet then they probably still won't give a damn about you but if your game is tight then da sky is simply the limit

Why is it with you sex is power?? not in all cases anywayz

Brash!:

I don't think hitting a girl is the solution to earning respect!

It is out of order to hit a woman and not very cool thing at all if u hit a girl, _{if she wants to continue disrespecting, she would do!}

well said , thanx

smooooooth:

hey tope the guy meant 'debe'u know like giving her the koko, not hit in the sense of beating, you know i wont subscribe to that naa.

anyway when the chase is on, the guy does all the calling, runnning around, and says all the sorrys even when he's right.
but after the hit, she calls most times, comes around everytime and says sorry even when no wahala.
thats what he is talking about. so na lie abi no be lie?

then i guess HIT is a very wrong choice of word to use

jay bee:

read between the lines lady.
hit as in sample, browse, register, open show, visitation et al not the physical abuse

i think it's obvious to every adult why the topic is A Girl Won't Respect And Like You Unless You "hit" Her.

tope2000:

Why is it with you sex is power?? not in all cases anywayz

Probably because a lot of deals, unanswered questions, mysteries gets solved during the hickie hickie
any dudes seen the eyes of 'em g/f's or concubines when they r very Hot and begging to be hit right at the centre of gravity (bulls eyes)?

Mustay:

i think it's obvious to every adult wht the topic is A Girl Won't Respect And Like You Unless You "hit" Her.

i thinks its obvious to some guys duh!

jay bee:

Probably because a lot of deals, unanswered questions, mysteries gets solved during the hickie hickie
any dudes seen the eyes of 'em g/f's or concubines when they r very Hot and begging to be hit right at the centre of gravity (bulls eyes)?

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

tope2000:

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

why r u hmmng?
got my drift?

a little

Hitting a chic is so not cool dude . . . .common . . .if you wanna pick a fight , . . .hit the basketball courts. . . .you will find a s**tload of brothers who will give you a run 4 your money

tope2000:

then i guess HIT is a very wrong choice of word to use

well,that's why the HIT is in quote.so you know I don't mean hit in the right sense of the word.

Nautillus:

Hitting a chic is so not cool dude . . . .common . . .if you want to pick a fight , . . .hit the basketball courts. . . .you will find a s**tload of brothers who will give you a run 4 your money

I mean F**K her big time.dont mean hit as in beat.digest the thread budy.

speaking out of loads of experience.Most of my friends share that school of thought too.

really

I guess its not always the case.some chics wouldn't give a hoot.

@topic

wrong!!!!

when you dont hit,they respect you more.After all what more can they offer you ?

Ekwensu!!!!
What kind stupidness is this? I have never heard such utter rubbish in my life. This is the pure example of being an idiot. Who told you these lies? What sane women respects her man for hitting her? i mean seriously. If a guy hit me, you betta look over a shoulder when im using kitchen utensils, and better sleep with your eyes open. Because if you hit me, oga, run for your life. Seriously, i will go Jet Li on you.

I understand there is a general belief in calabar that your wife expects you to beat her or else she wont cook sweet soup for you .
How true is that? so i can know whether to go and marry a calabar woman sharp sharp
Enough early morning practice

hey poster, berra change the 'hit' in ya post, everyone thinks u talking about beating your girl, when you actually mean Bleep.just shows folks here dnt read thru post b4 they respond.and u know what they say bout half baked comments.

OOOOOHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!
I see what you are talking about, you are talking about sex. Oka i see, i see. yeah i still don't respect you. Because you aint gonna be hitting nothing so you betta think of anutha way to earn respect. Seriously i doubt what you call respect is really respect. Just a feeling of satisfication. . . . at the time.

smooooooth:

hey poster, berra change the 'hit' in ya post, everyone thinks u talking about beating your girl, when you actually mean Bleep.just shows folks here dnt read through post before they respond.and u know what they say bout half baked comments.

lol

so u r here ibk. been looking for ya all over NL

onyinye2:

OOOOOHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!
I see what you are talking about, you are talking about sex. Oka i see, i see. yeah i still don't respect you. Because you aint going to be hitting nothing so you betta think of anutha way to earn respect. Seriously i doubt what you call respect is really respect. Just a feeling of satisfication. . . . at the time.

lol
glad you know "hit" means "bang bang bang"

onyinye2:

Ekwensu!!!!
What kind stupidness is this? I have never heard such utter rubbish in my life. This is the pure example of being an idiot. Who told you these lies? What sane women respects her man for hitting her? i mean seriously. If a guy hit me, you betta look over a shoulder when im using kitchen utensils, and better sleep with your eyes open. Because if you hit me, oga, run for your life. Seriously, i will go Jet Li on you.

ogi bu di Ekwensu!!!
you simple didn't read the content of my post or maybe you did but didn't get what the "hit" represent.if you observe you will see the hit in quote.I mean "ira nwanyi",I couldnt have meant to beat a gal my dear.that would be the most insane thing for a man to do alright.
so stop vibrating like you are going to kill some one