in a family, who do u think should be the FOOLISH one 4 the family to be in peace and move feward in life. ( husband or wife)

both of them should be positively foolish

foolish ke
or you mean patience

tope2000:

foolish ke
or you mean patience

it means alot of things,read carefully ,its called reading inbtw d lines

tope2000:

reading inbtw d lines needs intelligence,d last time i checked u had it,where has it gone to?

as a yoruba adage says enikan ma je ewure ki enikeji je aguntan(for a succesful marriage one person has to act like a goat and the other like a sheep)

rampagain:

reading inbtw d lines needs intelligence,d last time i checked u had it,where has it gone to?

i think say my head don pafuka today
the engine don knock oo

but is FOOLISH really the word to use

i dnt think u guys understand wht i am saying i said, who do u think should be foolish in a family (husband or wife) waiting 4 your reply.

dreswa20:

i dnt u guys understand iwht i am saying i said, who do u think should be foolish in a family (husband or wife) i am waiting 4 your reply.

i said both

there comes a time in d mans life dat hes got to play d foolish part,likewise d woman,so both

or is my english too difficult for u to comprehend?

in a family, who do u think should be the FOOLISH one for the family to be in peace and move feward in life. ( husband or wife)

boh parties

Most often its required of the woman or wife to be compromising n patient but i think both should at one time be foolish for the sake of peace depending on the situation.

I will refuse to say being foolish, but i would rather refer to such as being the bigger person.
I think the man shd try to be the bigger person and allow the woman to rant and vent all she has in her and afterwards, she will be fine.

$$Rhino:

I will refuse to say being foolish, but i would rather refer to such as being the bigger person. . .

God bless you

_{Foolish ko, foolhardy ni}

Foolish ? na wa o

The only one directive God gave to MAN regarding his wife is to ''LOVE HER''. If MAN is to be the ''Head of The House'' as the bible instructed MEN to, then HE should lead by being first to ''Apologize'' and ''Ask for Forgiveness''. That is the Value and Power of becoming the ''Servant-Leader''. In my own words its not foolishness rather its meekness, being modest, docile, humble & gentle, this is what ''Maturity in Men'' is all about '' dud, wake up!!. 

@ OP,

U have me puzzled a little, I personally don't think patience or tolerance

necessarily equals FOOLISHNESS if thats what u are implying,

Its a marriage and both parties need to want the marriage to succeed,

I think the both should overlook thing some times, the wife doesn't have to act foolish while the husband wise in order to make a happy family. if hand join wash hand na hand dey clean abi.?

both parties