Hi Naira landers,
This is an issue which i want us to respond to as it affects a cousin of mine sometimes ago, he woke up one day to find the bed wet with urine - where did it come from u may ask? from his girlfriend who was still asleep on the urine . if it where you what will you do?

Hmmm, Has she had a baby before? Lots of women who have had children suffer from weak bladders due to giving birth. Look up pelvic floor exercises for how to improve this situation. If its happened as a one-off then its probably nothing to worry about. If however, its a regular occurence then she probably has a weak bladder and needs to consider pelvic floor exercises. Is she drinking a lot of alcohol? This can also cause it, I've heard, because if you sleep drunk AND have a weak bladder then, well when youv'e got to go you've got to go, !

Alex, Intellectual Gangster.

u did not mention if this was a regular occurrence or just once in a blue moon thing, if it occurs regularly then:
incontinence could be as a result of what the 1st post said apart from pelvic floor exercise or kiegel exercise as stated she should watch what she eats and drinks ,could start taking medications under the care of a doctor of course, if her case is severe she could consider surgery.

Oh oh, Datz some wierd stuff

It has happened before , My friend was with his girlfriend and suddenly she bed wetted, What did we do, All we did was just wake her up ask her why this happened and all she could say was that it has always happened everywhere she goes that we should plz take her to a doctor or somewhere she will be cured, I think ladies do this a lot everytime.

Now, this is a serious affair

Women do it a lot, How about this you go with your boyfriend to a motel and u stay till the next morning and when he wakes up he gets to find out you did bed wet what are u doign to do?

thats some maaaaaaadd stuffz

Stick with him or her and help with the problem. Some people just have weak bladders, and it could have been you!!!
Study the trend and help approprately. Advisable to remind your partner to empty bladder just before he/she sleeps. If you wake up at night to empty yours you can wake your partner as well to do the same.
Help to prevent your partner from taking too much liquid stuff before sleeping

ha!

the party is definately over!

If it happens once , I will ask what happened and see if there is a reason why, (how embarrassing ) If it happens a second time, I would advise them to see a doctor immediately. If it is reoccurring , I will give them a one way ticket out the door, with a box of pampers! Ha!!!

:-x

ahaha

if she's above 20 and happens regularly, am calling off da relationship

If you as a guy were the one involved and
your baby left you, how would you feel?
You 2 should stick together like clue and
look for a solution to the problem. Guys before you do
any real evil to the sisters first put ypur sisters in
their shoes.

Obviously this is a medical issue (either psychological or physical) that should be referred to a medical professional.

If anyone advocates 'taking off' at the site of any medical issue then i think it's safe to say that we will all be alone if everyone heeded that.

this is a serious one,but i think it can be solved. Contrary to what kboy said,it is not only women who do this.Everyone can have such issues at different points,irrespective of sex.

I'd take him/her to a doctor,and stick with him/her till it's treated-and that's if i trully love this fellow.

It's obvious she has a weak bladder control. With the right help the problem can be resolved. Urinary incontinence can happen to men and women.

see a doctor or sleep on different beds!

See @amsky, @sista-jay, and @Busta have said it all!

Go see medical doctor who specialized in bladder inconsistencies solution by either surgery available, wonderful medication to control bladder or wearing adult diaper at bednight time!!!

Chaii!!! Bed Wetter? I don't even know what i would do, the situation is too shocking oo

You could treat the case as you treat that of a child,

Not drinking water after 9pm,
Force her to make use of the loo before she goes to bed
As others suggested, try pelvic exercises

if all else fails, you might want to consider getting her adult diapers, like th eones they use for old folk in retirement homes

Assuming you care that much and dont mind being peed on every now and again

Lmfao bed wet 4 way

I will give him a rubber mat to sleep on the floor

But if he insists on sleeping on the bed then we shall lay a plastic bag/nylon under or on top of the sheet

And make sure he wears a diaper before going to bed

if you haven't experienced this you may just be guessing.
@poster,
what you need to find out is how old she is and how regular? i was bed-wetting till 16. My parents almost killed me,every morning enough flogging,infact it got so bad that sometimes i get scared of sleeping because if i sleep as early as 6pm know for sure i will bedwet twice or thrice that night(6-10pm=round 1,11pm-2am=round 2,3-6am=round 3), i don't visit people and sleep over otherwise i get embarrassed, there was actually a period i had to tie my d**k so that when its coming i will know, FOR WHERE? i woke up and the bed was wet, i was almost cursing God because i couldn't help myself and the people around me were not helping issues. the bad part is: you will see yourself dreaming that you are actually peeing in a toilet not knowing its your bed.

i am confident it has a great relationship with age, and the frequency could also be a matter of concern. but if after a while(20years and above) you still experience it go see a doctor.

to your question, i experienced that with my girlfriend a certain time, just once in over 4 years, thats nothing to worry over. i could see she was really embarrassed, i had to really make her feel its no big deal, that i have always been a victim, i asked her to go shower while i undressed the bed and offered to wash the bed sheets and her clothes.

I would bed shit

PERVERT9:

I bed shit

PERVERT9, you too is suffering from bladder disorder. Well allow the Doctor examine you before is too late. Urine is far better than shit.

@poster
Mr. Poster please allow your cousine and his girl friend fix their own problem. and stop gossiping.

anyway sha, i advise your cousine to take the urine as part of the fun.

im going to buy him/her lots of napkins  . . .

In boarding school (High) we saw a lot of this things. I believe if u are past 15 yrs & still bed wet Its a Problem.

@poster,is it frequent or just happened once?
emotional imbalances,fears and phobias(post traumatic stress syndrome or even after shock effect) and even nightmares might lead to bedwetting.
however persistent bedwetting in an adult might be as a result of kidney/bladder problem (not limited to women that have had babies please)
drinks and late night eating are other causes of bedwetting.
its quite disgraceful.if your cousin loves the babe he can be of help.
take her to see a doctor,never ever use that to mock her .

jkpretty:

I believe if u are past 15 years & still bed wet Its a Problem.

not neccassarily. if i have a child that bed-wets, i wont panic until he gets to 20yrs, afterwards i will see a doctor.